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Sorry, I should have said I have already read that, but it does not answer my practical questions here above.

So I used to have an account on fratmen.com and I got interested in this concept of “fraternities” that seems to be so common in US colleges. However I never quite understood how it actually works. I mean I get that it is a residence, with many rooms where the guys live together and are selected by existing members. So, for those who went to college in the US, I have so many questions! - How do you know which fraternity you would like to become a member of? Is it just that you ask to the fraternity which your father belonged? For those whose father was not in college, it is just word of mouth, or do you get in by making friends with those who are already in? - What if you start college and you are not connected, but somehow you manage to get into a fraternity, You just move in the frat house and abandon your previous residence? - If you are going to live in the fraternity house, you have to pay rent? - Once you leave college, are you still a member for life? If yes, does it come with perks or obligations? Do you keep having a say on who joins? - I read that some fraternities require a minimum of academic achievement to enter or stay in the fraternity, so if you go below the minimum, you have to leave the residence and find another place to live? - Do you get your own room in the residence? Your own bathroom? How luxurious living is it?

I am having real difficulty with this one. Could be anywhere in Europe for me

I really want to use the ignore button, but this a fascinating insight into a type of mind I have never before encountered, and so, I can’t... Where can I buy what you are taking to sustain those amazing trips?

Maybe we are missing out, JJ, we are doing it wrong: boyfriend experiences involve Moscow street kittens!

Oh, yeah, I was forgetting, I read about this. I have no idea how common this strain is, though, it is now becoming a genuine risk, or still a rarity? I wonder why they are classified as "sexually transmitted" then. If they are transmitted even before you even have sex, just by touching, then they are just "normally transmitted".

No rambling at all, that was very specific and I am glad you are recently opening up to us. You will be protected against HIV, but there are a couple of very common STDs around (chlamydia and gonorrhea) that you can catch. They are very easily treated, once you have them, but still, it is annoying. There isn't a vaccine that you can get against them. Yes, you would have 2 layers of protection against HIV, and one against all other STDs. Even if you get on PrEP, bring condoms and lube everywhere you go, you never know when sex can occur! I can't give you first hand side effect experience, as I am not on PrEP, others here can describe what it does to them, but it is clear from the literature that it varies a lot depending on the person. Maybe you can try it for two week and decide only afterwards if it has no significant side effects on you, as many have reported? Ask your doctor : "Just trying PrEP to see what are the side effects before committing to being full time on it".

I didn’t know this phrase at all. One learns English everyday!

Btw, @Kody S , wrong forum for this.

Don’t you love someone who can do Roman numerals correctly?

Totally agree with @latbear4blk , there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with you, don’t beat yourself up, it could be anything on the escort’s side. For example maybe he has found a partner that asked him to stop seeing clients, and he wants to make it work with that partner and so he has agreed to cut off all contact with his previous life. Or anything else that could be good news for him, or maybe he has issues to deal with etc. If you don’t think you did anything wrong, you need to give him space for a while, or forever, and move on.

How did you get there by the way?

Ok, I just googled “Melbourne view” and there is basically the same skyline right there, so yeah, I am convinced, point to @LoveNDino .

Ok, maybe a bit harder? (I don't know it myself, so you have to convince me)

We haven’t tagged him yet, he might not have noticed: happy birthday @hunterlee . Please come to NYC soon.

Oh, yeah, I meant that I would either be prepared or run to the store instead, but if it is not an option because everything is closed, I too would ask rather than not have sex.

I knew they had toothbrushes, but condoms? I am not sure I’d ask though. Maybe in a large hotel, where the front desk rotates quite a lot, but in a boutique hotel where the same guy will do your bill the next morning? Also are they actually called courtesy kit and they will understand what you need if you call it a courtesy kit, or do you need to say “you wouldn’t have some condoms by any chance?” right in front of the other clients who are doing their check in?

Often, if they are South American . My first one was French and stayed a bit. Then a few years later I had an Italian guy a few times. But most often it was a Brazilians, Colombians, Venezuelans, etc. who came to London to learn English on a student visa.

Unless one of us has been there recently, it will be hard: they rotate quite often, when their student visa runs out.

Now I want to see a picture of that. :-)

Totally agree, they are, but if you are “taking the plunge” with an unknown entity (which some of us do) why risk making the encounter with a non-prepared escort even worse? It isn’t as if condoms cost much. Most likely you will keep them anyway, coz you’ll use his.

Today’s Buenos Aires review highlights an escort that seems to have failed to provide the service expected by the client on multiple account (at a very expensive price for BA if you ask me). The part that makes me mad is another instance of “we didn’t have any condoms” comment. I have seen comments on this forum a couple of times before, this is the first time I notice it in a review though. Ok, first, this escort doesn’t even know what the job entails if he doesn’t have condoms when meeting a client, the bad review is well deserved. Think about it, it wasn’t “Ooops, I forgot to pack them when I left for your hotel” it was literally “I am an escort, but there are no condoms in my own apartment”! Second, the client didn’t have any condoms either. I am sorry, but a good client who goes to an escort’s place doesn’t forget to bring the cash, doesn’t forget to wear some trousers, and just in case, doesn’t forget to bring condoms! You should know that some escorts are as bad as this gentleman Mark Fitt, and so, as a client, do not make your experience even worse by not having condom and lube with you. You know that you are about to have sex, for Sean Cody’s sake, bring some condoms! Ok, rant over, the bad review is deserved, but I am failing to be sympathetic to the client, sorry.

You do.

Ok, no worries.