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Except he has been very open about it. He is a client, which gives him the right to be here and participate. He has disclosed that he also happens to work for rentboy.pro. I think it is better that he has disclosed that, rather than remain here as just a client and participating without disclosing his affiliation.

Actually, it isn’t the way you do it, many people have no issue with shaving, but there is an entire category of people with a “tendency for ingrown hair”. I am one of them. It doesn’t matter the technique. It is a type of skin and hair. So I trim, but do not shave or wax or do anything that gets the hair tip completely hidden. Otherwise guaranteed to have red bumps for several days.

I know. It is the one kind of YouTube videos that I can watch more than once: real genius kids.

Your premise is not true. This young genius is focused on geography and presidents of the US: This girl proves that she speaks fluently 7 languages: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azcQZHthcKI We all have also all heard about genius kids who could compose music extremely early.

Avalon is back! Given that I usually take a quick shower after sex (if only to remove the lube), I slip on some underwear between the shower and falling asleep, so yes, this TV scenario makes sense.

Point to bigvalboy

Naked guy rides the metro. But in which city? http://www.thatsmags.com/image/view/201707/naked-mtr-man-hong-kong.jpg http://www.thatsmags.com/image/view/201707/naked-mtr-man.jpg

If I was retired, maintaining an escort website could be fun. I would do it. If several retired guys got together and are doing that, it could make sense that it stays free as long as 4 or 5 of them are healthy enough to work part time on it. But @Boomxyz is far from retirement age (please tell me you haven't retired at 34!), so I assume he, and whoever else is also working on that and thereby incurs a serious opportunity cost, will think about revenue for rentboy at some point or will leave to make money elsewhere.

Point goes to @bashful !

Correct

Nope.

Ok, now that this is sorted, we can try a new one: That is not Positano this time.

All right, I give up! The guy in the picture is Rasul Dishekov (https://mulpix.com/grandishekov), but I can't figure out which beach it is. Is it his home city, Barcelona? Edit: What an Idiot, of course it is, I just did an image search "Barcelona beach" and I can see the 2 buildings on several images.

Oh I see! Maybe I need to stop now? The odds are against me now that I have reached the critical number! The 155th or something will be my downfall.

Well, maybe I am not a nice guy. They always left when I stopped paying. And I am talking about over 150 different guys. No exception.

Ageist!

Given the title, I was hoping to see a number somewhere ...

This is amazing. I totally get the "paid escort only" clause, that eliminates the chance of falling in love with someone else, since the boys are there exclusively for the money, and leave as soon as it runs out. This way you know the love aspect of your relationship is between you and your partner only. Gives both some certainty about the "I love you and only you" commitment. Also what I seek. I also get the "not at home" clause. Some people share escorts and hookups but that is a very special relationship. Others will feel better not witnessing or even imagining the act (too much). My thinking exactly.

For those of you who are single, you just don’t have this problem. For those who are in an open relationship also, I have no idea how you even got there, but you don’t have this issue. For the rest of us (probably a minority), we have, for many reasons, not everything we want at home, and at the same time we have not the ability to be open about the fact that we are hiring sexual services to compensate what we cannot get at home. First, let brush aside why you cannot simply tell our significant other: It is likely different for everyone. But there may be a recurring reason: The partner believes in monogamy. You don’t. How do you reconcile that? You don’t. Beliefs are not always reconcilable. So you could just tell them about this difference of beliefs and hurt them by telling them you go fuck around, and maybe they will just leave you, or, you can keep it very quiet. This is the path many choose. It has major disadvantages over being single, but you get to keep a life partner. Why hiring rather than have an affair? An affair is really dangerous. Your casual fuck could become a repeat, which could become a regular, which could fall in love with you. A guy in love with you is ready to do any stupid thing, especially if he is young. So he could be asking for you to get a divorce and marry him, or he could blackmail you to come at your door and reveal everything to your significant other if you don’t leave them for him. Less dangerous, but still awkward, he could be calling you at the wrong time because he “wants to speak to you and hear your voice”. Hiring escorts avoids all of this with near certainty. An escort is only interested in you because of your money. He won’t fall in love with you, and so you won’t have to be scared that he will do something crazy. It is also part of his job to be very discreet. You don’t even have to tell him where you live or your real name. So he can’t turn up at your door and tell your life partner. Unless you have money for him, he is not interested in you. The other advantages of escorts over an affair are: 1. A lot of variety of guys, rather than repeat with just one guy over and over again. 2. The guys you fuck are much hotter than whatever you can pull! Let’s face it, you cannot get hotties any longer. They prefer to sleep with other hotties. Unless you pay them. 3. They are pros. They know how to have good sex, because they've had so much of it. Unlike a random average guy you pulled in a bar, who is still guessing the details of how to deep throat properly, or cleanup down there properly. Obviously, with a significant other that cannot know you are hiring, you have a huge amount of limitations: You cannot use your home for anything, unless your significant other goes away for a long period of time AND you can avoid the neighbours seeing your escort, or talking about him completely. Seems unlikely. Also doing something at home means the escort knows where you live and one day he may even consider to blackmail you into giving him money in exchange for “not knocking at your door and telling everything to your significant other”. If you are single, this blackmail is simply not possible (some other type of blackmail may still be). So you chose home to be out of bounds for escorts. Much simpler. That gives you only very few options: - get a hotel room, which increases the cost of the escort quite significantly, even with day hotels. - use only escorts that do incalls. This reduces the number of escorts you have access to, to 1/3rds of the total number of escorts I think. But also the time at which you are expected home is not extensible indefinitely. In the evening, you are supposed to be back at a time that makes sense for someone that works AND that isn’t having an affair. So when can you see an escort? 1. During work hours or lunch time breaks. If your work is intense, this is likely to be very short periods. It won’t make you feel like you have a temporary boyfriend, unlike an overnight could. But if you have a significant other, then maybe you just don’t need that. If you just need to empty your balls, it can make sense. 2. After work. Claim that you have an office after-work drinks or something like this. That cannot be too frequent, though. Very suspicious especially if your partner knows some of the people at work. 3. A couple of hours in the evenings or weekends. You can claim you are spending time with a friend, if that friend is ready to “cover for you” and lie about the fact that you were together. Alternatively, you can claim you are going to the gym. 4. A multi-day business travel: you will be busy during the day (presumably working) but not most evenings. Great, because you have a hotel, so you can do outcalls, and also you don’t have any time by which you are expected at home in the evening. Schedule the maximum amount of fucking that you can afford. 5. If you and your partner sometimes go on holidays separately. This is likely to be rare. 2 cases: A. If your significant other is away on holidays, your schedule at home is completely free. You can be fucking in your home area for as long as you want everyday that they are away. Just make sure you don’t take a FaceTime call from the escort’s bedroom. B. If you go away on a holiday without your significant other. Even better than business travel: you are completely free to replace museum visits or beach time with as much fucking as you can afford. You can do overnights, breakfasts in bed, lunches and dinners with an escort. Do it all! Not sure why I write so much today. Just dumping a load of thoughts onto you guys

Not on this forum unfortunately. But for those who are interested in reading another long thread about a 2-week trip hunting for sex in Brasil, there is one here: https://www.boytoy.com/forums/topic/28588-porto-alegre-curitiba-novdec-2017-a-memoir/ Different point of view, but obviously I love it. I have met several of the guys discussed.

But if you are coming to NY, you need more than one guy!

Of course it is the boys who are pros.

My 1000th post: This forum is an incredible mountain of information about escorts and masseurs and other related subjects. But you can also access the even larger mountain of information that is stored in the members’ brains, by asking them a question. Questions are welcome, but they are more likely to be answered if asked by a popular member. So you do want to be popular here, if only to get answers to your questions. How to be popular? Before you ask a question, you may want to do the following: 1. Search first! Very likely there is already a thread already about your subject. Use the search box and read the existing contributions. If you still have a question, add it to that thread. 2. If your question is about a masseur or an escort, look for reviews on Daddyreviews.com If you are still going to ask a question or ask for a recommendation, remember this: 3. Accept that members here are very different. We have members who are 19, and members in their 80s. Some are not in/from the US and grew up in a completely different culture from yours. They obviously will have a different point of view on your question, and all these points of view, although some may be unhelpful to you, are equally welcome. 4. Accept that your preferences are not everyone else’s. They may not even be the majority’s preferences. So when you ask for a recommendation, “good looking” is not sufficient, it means 500 different things to 500 different members. 5. Be specific! If you are into tall guys, say “ over 6’2” “ or whatever the number is. If you are into young guys, don’t say “young”, say “under 25” or whatever the number is for you. A 35 yo is young for many of our 70 yo members. Being specific will help you get feedback that actually answers your question. 6. Be respectful! We love our escorts. We think they are amazing people. So do not say “he is ugly”, but you can say “that is not the type of face I am looking for, I prefer a chiseled jaw, and no wrinkles around the eyes”. Do not say “he is fat”, but “I would prefer a recommendation for a guy with a lower BMI.” Think about it, if you insult someone’s favorite escort, that someone will stop helping you with recommendations. 7. If someone is so unhelpful that it is preventing you from finding the info you need, there is an ignore button on their profile. That will remove (for you only) all the posts from that member, and you can keep reading everyone else’s answers. So there is no point telling someone to shut up. If someone has broken the rules, you can use the report button and an admin will look at the violation. No need to enter a posting war. This is just advice and not intended to be rules. This post is a draft and likely to be edited multiple times in the future based on feedback from the forum members. I hope to get it good enough to get it pinned somewhere one day.

You forgot to add: Just saying...