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Can I ask: 4 problems out of how many guys? I have never had a problem and I don’t actually check that PnP thing on RM. Maybe I was just lucky.

And his hat is on sale today. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-44519302

Thanks! I didn’t know this was a thing!

Why is it passive aggressive? At least it will save them time in the future, they won’t be writing back to me, as they now know that I won’t be able to read it. It is much better than passive-aggressively letting them waste their time over and over, until they finally realise on their own that you are ignoring them. I want people (even those that I ignore) to use their time productively. And also I want them to know that they have said something that is so objectionable, that if it were in real life, it would have made me walk away from them and never try to meet them again. If they don’t ever get that sort feedback, (me walking away from a crazy/racist/dishonest speaker) how would they know what is acceptable to say among friends?

In French-speaking Africa, there are quite a lot of people called “FetNat”. This is because people were used to call their child based on the catholic saint <something> that they found on the printed calendar, nearly always written in French. So if you were born on June 23, you were likely to be called “Jean” (John) because June 23 is the catholic tradition to celebrate Saint John. Every day of the year has a prominent catholic saint with a common name. But on the 14th of July, there was no saint name printed on the French calendar, that spot was taken by the abbreviation “Fêt. Nat.” which was meant to mean “fête national” (national holiday, which is bastille day in France). Most people had no idea it was not a Saint, (they were African farmers, why would they know or care about bastille day after all?) and so they called their child an abbreviation.

The most developed auto sharing company is Citiz (https://citiz.coop/) They have a map of cities that they cover. However their online registration might be difficult for you. They ask for your bank details and a proof of address. Not sure they would accept a foreign version of that. Zipcar seems to be only in Paris. I don’t know if they would accept an American account holder, you can try to book online. We were supposed to guess you were interested in scooters from the sentence “Any advice on renting cars in France?” ? I think you overestimate our mind-reading abilities. No special licences for scooters, any driving licence will do. Sorry I don’t know about availability across the whole territory. I can do some research in French for you about a particular area if you tell us.

I am going to hijack this thread too! Can someone explain the 68 degree thermostat joke in this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8h276spNJg (Skip to the 45th second)

Should we check on turnout before we celebrate the method? I missed the message, too short notice.

Created his RM account yesterday! Very interesting.

Jimmy of course.

I don’t understand the Dexter joke, nor the charge “attribution” . Is this an American thing I am not aware of?

Be careful, Aaron, if you are in the US and you talk to a client for the first time, when you cannot know for sure that he is not a cop. Haggling for a sex act is a problem for legal reasons, not because it has a negative context.

He doesn’t reply to my emails or texts.

But in the US you should not say this sort of things or a different reason: you should not link sex acts to money (unless you are actually making a porn movie, I guess). An escort provides companionship for money, not sex for money, that would be illegal. So an escort will likely block you if you start linking sex with money in your communication. Too much chance of you being a police sting.

My version would be: “Hey! I saw your profile on Rentmen. I may be interested in hiring you as a companion. Here is what I like doing: kissing with tongue, being on top... Can you host? And how much for X hours of your time? Based on the above, do you think we are compatible? If yes, I am available this afternoon or tomorrow evening after 8pm. Thanks!" Basically you can say you want to hire them as a companion and for a price. And you can state what you like. And you can ask if he feels you two are compatible. You shouldn’t say things like “how much more for you to bottom?”

Hmmm, ok, then he is not a good listener. In that case, I approve blocking, there is only so many times you can explain something. Also he is clearly not boyfriend material, so nothing to loose.

Dylan looks after his regulars really well though. If you manage to come often enough that he remembers you, you get his best massage, which is incredible. Mike does behave strangely, I am not into his massage. And Jason upsells so, not for me.

Ok. I am going to go against the crowd here above, and say, rather than blocking him, I think it would better if you explained. Because, in his position, I also wouldn’t get it. Tell him something along those lines: “I am sorry, <name of guy> but I don’t think we are compatible. I was looking for a relationship but you seem to be the kind of guy that wants to sleep on a first date. That isn’t going to work for me but I hope you find what you want through some other dates. Best of luck. “ Also, you should mention on your dating profile something along the lines of “I am not looking for sex on a first night, I am not that kind of cheap girl!” so that your future dates are warned and there is no such misunderstanding. That is my advice, but if is not useful to you, you can tell me bluntly :-), I won’t be offended, we are all different after all. Good luck in search for true love!

I can’t decide if this sentence is a joke.

This series of nasty passive aggressive answers are completely uncalled for and they label you as an asshole. If you ever have a question, don’t expect answers or help from us in the future.

I am not sure I can provide any advice as you require because I don’t understand what you are actually looking for. According to you 1. You are going on dates, so presumably you are looking for something. 2. He is super cute 3. He likes you a lot. 4. You were “clicking”. Why don’t you jump on him and enjoy the ride? Are you trying to explain that you don’t sleep on a first date, and that him suggesting it has put you off your initial attraction?

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/kennnn-in-chi.137070/ https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-kennnn-in-la.138058/

I would ignore caliguy, he always writes nasty stuff. your surprise at the price tag is understandable, that doesn’t make you a hater. I think Aaron likes that particular guy so much that he is happy to spend on him.

I think you are fighting a loosing battle. Mocha has never understood the concept of “rules that apply to everyone equally, irrespective of whether your name is Mocha or not.” He is not going to start understanding that concept today.

Hey @SteveWheaton, how did it go?