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Public service announcement, or https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostate-specific_antigen?

At least they can get a Darwin Award.

You can tell him all your secrets. That is what I do. He understands and acts accordingly.

I was kidding.

Ageists! More seriously, I know guys that are 21 and look even younger than him. I think your age-dar is out of order. This is a young man, not a little boy.

Chopsticks are good to stay in shape, it takes longer to eat, which means you feel full before you finish your plate and have a chance at saying no to seconds!

So my super hot 26 yo Latino grindr hookup now wants this to be a regular thing. What to do, what to do.... There will certainly be one condition: no more hickeys!

@Latinochileno has met him.

I guess it is a list of the oldest restaurants that are still running, right? Surely Montana had some restaurants in the 19th century?

If your card is free (there are many free cards, including one at Anex) why would you or they cancel it? Keep it, even if you don’t do t use it much.

I would recommend to get an Amex. That is my own experience only, and maybe people will disagree but : they have never denied me a single transaction online or otherwise, unlike other banks who freak out and think someone must be doing fraud whenever I buy something slightly unusual.

New questions: 1 - is it normal for grindr guys to give hickeys in the heat of the moment? 2 - how do you hide a hickey from your husband?

Sorry I am not much help on this, I couldn’t tell you, maybe? But I am not trying to contact them or even see them, my filter excludes them from my main screen.

Nope. I can only see your reply without the quote.

????? Edit: Oh I guess you are replying to someone I blocked months and months ago and I can’t see their contributions? Well I am glad to see they haven’t changed and still reply even though they must know that I can’t see their posts

I am fully reconciled with Grinder today! I’ll let you guess why. That ATM emoji works.

You don’t. It is not allowed. You have to go to another site. One of them is called www.daddyreviews.com and has a whole set of procedures to avoid issues typically associated with reviews.

I don’t care about proving it in court any more. Haven’t you read this thread? Whatever we all say or whatever paper evidence we bring seems irrelevant, jurors can just claim to read our minds and say our intent was prostitution and lock us up, so why fucking bother?

I am reading some profiles and a few people are openly saying “I use block if I decide you are not for me, it frees up screen space on my Grindr app for other people, don’t be offended”. So I think quite a few frequent users have simply taken the habit of blocking anyone they are not going to go for, simply to make room for other people, which they would orherwise never see all the way at the bottom of the list. Especially in Manhattan, where the number of people is incredibly large. That might just be it.

Fair enough, see my comments above, then, where I claim shame saved some lives, but I acknowledge that maybe death by HIV was preferable to being manipulated.

Can I do another massive shout out for Victor , who was perfect today, and sorted me out in just exactly the right way, just when I needed it. Thank you @VictorPowers , you are a doll.

Sorry are you saying that shame does NOT change people’s behaviour?

People don’t seem to be like that abroad, in Brasil or in the Philippines, they contact me through grindr only if they are actually interested. And if it turns out they are not, they say so politely. I haven’t been blocked before, or at least, not that I have noticed. Maybe they are more desperate for money, that is the difference.

Is it ok if I am an asshole to them, waste their time, and do it to them, then? You guys seem jaded, so you can’t complain if I do it right?

I agree, I often works like this, afterwards, if they have nothing else to do. But it looks like the OP wanted to spend time to know them before the act.