BonVivant

One apparently “Bumps” to put the thread back up to the top to see if anyone has any new info. As per the Lounge thread on the very same topic. And it worked. Yay. 

Pass on The Abbey unless you are interested in gangs of 20-something girls from Hawthorne with ratty weaves hanging out and talking about how cool they are to be hanging out in a gay bar. 

Looks like one of the customers was taken enough to "put a ring on it."
Congratulations
 

Congratulations Ryxx. Well done. 

I had a great time! But I’m in an exclusive relationship now. Thank youuu! 💕

His pics in tight black leather jeans with his huge cock hanging out are hot as hell.

Bump.
 
Kevin Slater

Exactly. It's all about the balance between a person's level of disposable income and their values and priorities for how they wish to spend it.  Though it is completely understandable that someone would be disappointed if there is a provider they really, really want to meet but are unable to due to the donation amount.  I get that, but it's ultimately part of the price we pay for living in a free-market economy and enjoying other benefits that come from that.  I only wish people would not take their disappointment out on the provider.  There needs to be more kindness and understanding all around.

In general, I never understand this quibbling over someone's service price.
If the young man can GET $ 400 an hour....then he is in-fact worth $ 400 an hour.
The appropriate price is what people are willing to pay.
If you want service for pennies, then maybe a trip to Thailand (or the Ozarks) is in order......
 

Lol. Exactly. It’s a free market and he will get whatever he can command. 

Just found this thread. Totally in love with it! 💓 

Post pandemic built up demand 

What’s he going to say?…."No one wants to hire my super smooth schnitzel hole?"
The illusion of demand is key to getting a price above market value. 

Must be all the new business he's getting from this thread chatter 

Ooooooh!  Gotcha! Learnt something new!  Thanks 

Some time ago, while I was having lunch with friends at a restaurant, I spotted a young escort (19-20) with whom I had had a very hot session the day before. He was sitting a few tables away with an older couple, and they were finishing their meal. As they walked past my table on their way out he looked at me intensely and I saw in his beautiful eyes that he was terrified that I might make a move. Reading him, I refrained from even batting an eye. He later texted me to thank me: the older couple were his parents, who had no clue about his extra curricular activities. He said it would have been awkward for him to explain who “his old gentleman friend” was. I was happy I followed my instincts and his cue: we had many torrid sessions after this accidental encounter. 

I agree that discretion works both ways. I would not be thrilled if I was out with a group of friends or work colleagues and a young man came up to say hello and then I had to answer the obvious questions of "who was that?" In this case the individual was sitting alone but I learned my lesson. From now on discretion both ways!

I think it's best to use this rule:
If you've only met in private, only greet in private. If you've met in public, then greet in public.
I think you perhaps assumed his outlook on the greeting would mirror your own. I think it best to err in assuming he would want to keep what was private anonymous as well. I know I expect that from a provider. Unless you are told explicitly otherwise, to assume something to the contrary is in my view presumptive. To assuage your feelings that you should acknowledge him or anyone else in the future, you can instead walk by about your business and send a private text later. Perhaps then he might give permission to greet in public. I think this is an approach that respects his space and also your desire to say, "Hello."

I wouldn’t approach an escort in public and I wouldn’t be pleased if they approached me.
You never know who else is around and what the other person is dealing with in that moment.
A smile and a nod is more than enough "public" recognition.
I don’t get upset if they don’t even acknowledge me that much. They may see it as inviting closer contact which may be unwanted at that moment. Don’t take it personally. It’s a business relationship. Nothing more.
Also, don’t forget that in general these are young men with little social experience. Sometimes they get caught flat footed and haven’t planned on how to deal with this unexpected situation ahead of time. Thus panic sets in and they may be unable to socially adapt as quickly as you or me.

I met him tonight, he's legit. Pics are accurate, his English was good, he was friendly and had a good sense of humor, he was ok with kissing and was convincing that he was into it throughout without being over the top. Overall had a good experience. He says he's 22 in person. He's charging 300 euros / hour in NYC (+ Uber fare). For me it was well worth it.

I saw him last year (this would be my 3rd time seeing him over the last 3 years or so).  Still looks like his pictures and enjoyed myself enough to see him multiple times.  🙂 

Amazing time with AdamVA.  Already booked him again ha!  He just graduated and I was his 1st client but he knows exactly what's he's doing 🙂                      
RUN, don't walk to this young man. Feel free to PM me for details. 

Oh I’ve definitely done the CK “take my Purty Boi on a public stroll”. It’s a lot of fun don’t get me wrong!! l LOVE Especially watching all the Mom’s eyes bulge ? in horror And all the pearl clutching. ? ? ?. Luv it. BUT to make it work the Boi needs thick skin and nerves of steel. Plus he needs to keep his objective in mind…… whahahahahah. Evil ? laugh.

Damn! i hope he is real. That is one hot bottom and boy!

Hokey smokes.