First, thanks for all who explained “meh”. Spot on. I used it to mean indifference, nothing to get excited about.
As for Belami_Mig: he’s cute and handsome. No longer is a twunk. He’s bulking up so is much bigger. Looks like a typical frat Boi next door. Six pack is gone. Very nice. Polite. He lists as bisexual - I’d say he’s leans more straight (despite his Bel Ami performances. I suspect most of the Bel Ami actors are straight or bi). I clearly told him what I wanted. He agreed to it. But delivered half of it: massage, touching, Top. No kissing. He’s an oral top. I’ve had similar experiences before from straightish types. It was all very mechanical; like being with a robot. There was no emotion or passion (this was the biggest negative). Not what I wanted.
Anyways, I won’t repeat.