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How much per song? $20?

Bump

Bump

Sometimes you just have to dive in and test the waters….

Generally: Don’t share it. Reason: most people don’t understand it and won’t support it. There is a negative view of it in the USA (it’s a very middle class values / Puritan society). Plus there is some jealousy to it cause you get access to way hotter guys than if you didn’t (and most can’t afford it). Better to just enjoy, flaunt in public, but never reveal the deal.

Wowza. Nice!

Probably a lot more drama but without (most of the time) the kids.

Yes I know that. But if that S.Ct. hadn’t legalized it, I’d have been spared a lot of pain and hassle. Of course, then I’d be cursing the S.Ct. for “ruining” my life by preventing me from marrying! Ha! C’est La Vie. It’s how life goes.

Worst thing that ever happened to me was a gay marriage. Ended badly. Cost me a lot of money to get out of it and whilst in it. Just my experience. I understand the other side of the table (true love, inheritance, medical rights, etc).

Cause Qatar is very conservative. You don’t want to end up in chop chop square. 🗡️💀

It’s sad that lgbt places are no longer safe places. 20 years ago no straight would be caught dead in one. Now with all the normalization and equality syndrome, plus the economic dislocation, lonely gay men are easy targets. Exercise caution. Stranger danger. Yet one must live!!!

It’s still there. Go to “advanced search”.

With Seeking.com you’ll need a premium membership to start chatting and communicating. Then you’ll need to slowly meet the gent you are interested in and see if you can come to a mutual arrangement. And go from there. Seeking is not the same as RM. It’s much more exclusive and highly unlikely that you’ll have many folks who have met the guy before. If you click with him he’ll be almost exclusively or exclusively yours 100%. Depends on you, him and the $€£¥ you agree on. There is quite the extensive thread on Seeking (search for it). Good luck.

It’s all RM. The agencies are kaput.

Maybe it’s the thrill of breaking the law. Like we used to do here in the States back in the (19)90s. So much fun back then. It’s so Disney know.

It’s NYC. All providers in NYC will be willing to come to you.

Agreed. But those who expressed “Wow” saw him when young and are just expressing their reaction at the difference in appearance. Nothing for folks to get upset about. We all age and we all change.

So why keep up the old photos? “Oh see how cute I used to look like when I was a lil Twinkie?” Why?

You’re missing the point. Providers’ pics should show how they look NOW. That’s it. That’s the point.

Hi all. Any opinion on Grindr stock? Would anyone invest in it? GRND is down 4.50% to $9.55. Check it out on Yahoo Finance

Well that confirms the whole height ≠ penis size question…..

Make sure he is First World at least. Less trouble. More aligned on expectations and values. No guarantees however; but at least he will be far less likely to cut, run and disappear. And oh - only do this if you have a relationship already. Not with someone you have never met. Me thinks that a nice American guy off of SA is a much safer bet.

Well…. Someone has to bite the Apple and report back.

Seems like too much work. So glad I don’t have deal with that where I live.

He’s back. And the rate is still $500.