One more thought: there are lots of providers who have only gone up a little (like $50) or not at all. So those asking for double the going rate or more, better have a market differentiator; and better be very compelling.
Also: they are doing this in Singapore where it was illegal to engage in m4m sex up to 2022. There might be a huge social stigma also. So they are blackmailing the clients. Always exercise extreme caution in countries where the society or law is against you.
sorry this happened to you.
I’m lucky. I have two guys that I love seeing on repeat. Amazing guys. Amazing times. Especially with rates where they are now, I have very little tolerance to experiment and then be disappointed. I have become more risk averse.