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Top of my "to do" list (Ginger): https://rentmen.eu/Gingerbella (based in NYC but in Brazil until 5/1) And this is on my "do over" list (hairy): https://rentmen.eu/Axel_Hardy (based in Barcelona visits US 2x/year or so) Both are premium (expensive) ...have to pay for a quality experience.

Nicely handled

Twink-a-licious

I've had this happen a few times. I was puzzled at first and now I simply move on. I think some may want a donation to unlock, some may want more of a message (showing genuine interest) than the standard RM "please unlock". I'm sure they get unlock messages all day long (photo collectors) which never go anywhere, some may simply decide it's not worth their time to respond if there's not more of an expression of interest. If I'm genuinely interested in someone, I'll try to craft a 1-2 sentence email with my unlock request.

My hottest encounters have been with guys who are 8/10, there is no attitude and they are totally committed to pleasing you. Chemistry is so much hotter than physicality (although both is great when you can find it). I'll take a mischievous grin (or smile) over the brooding surly look anyday. Nothing is more of a boner-killer (to me) than a "do me" queen, or an attitude. When chemistry clicks....fireworks happen ....

Ben doesn't seem to have an RM profile? And Xander's RM handle is Xandr.

Has anyone followed thru on this.....?

Sadly I was booked to see him today and had to reschedule b/c of weather (was planning train into NYC). He will also duo with his husband Chris. There's plenty of video footage of them both online....

Hot AF!!!!!

Next time I need to book 90 minutes

Member since 3/3....

Except the boys in the band are even more cunty

Sometimes on this site I feel like I’m watching “The Boys in the Band”...... turning

If you were in Boston I'd probably make you a regular VP

No face pic is a non starter

I think this is cute - just being goofy, which I will take over that "serious sour" look anytime:

It's not demanding, you are paying dearly to get the experience you want. Agree with @freecahill1965 be clear about what you want from your session before....and escort worth their salt will work hard to provide it. Take your time...and have fun!

I'm not sure I could keep my hands to myself

I also had a questionable exchange (email) with Cody which made me pause. I do wonder if it was attributable to being brand new to this line of work and “learning the ropes”. Might be worth another try.....

PS are you willing to try 420? In "legal" states you can now get this in the form of cookies, rice krispy treats etc....can be a real aphrodisiac.

Do tell......

While I don't have difficulty in this area, I agree with the suggestions so far - Communicating up front this is part of the experience you are looking for. Have them explain how they have dealt with this in the past. - Finding someone patient who really wants to make it happen for you - this is where the more experienced guys probably rate - Good communication what's working and not for you and a provider who listens and responds. - I wonder if any toys might help? Anal vibrator, or vibrator on the balls, taint or some vibrators which have a dick ring? Masturbation sleeve / fleshlight? - There are meds for ED....assume you know that and have taken care of that...there's lots of info and opinions out there which ones work better (to some extent depends on your own physiology) - do some situations get you off more than others? Nothing gets me going like a tea bag hanging in my teacup for example Thanks for being so open/honest....hope the feedback helps you reach your "nirvana"

7 reviews on RM some with glowing commentary.....

Agree this has been my "go to" scenario of late. Amtrek gets you to NYC and back same day...get laid for lunch and home for Dinner

He will happily send you a face pic.....