JEC

Take charge, be in control, make the decisions and let them be putty in your hands (and bed).

Consider hiring a financial planner. It might feel contradictory to spend money on someone when you don't have a lot of money, but any good financial planner should earn you many times more than they cost. We hired one last year for the first time. Had we had done that 30 years ago...I might be retired now

Do NOT run up credit cards. If you can't pay cash, you can't afford it.

Please wear a helmet

Was Matt Gaetz there?

People who type in bold red 36 point font ?

Search on "Steam" member @Rod Hagen

Haha me too. The movie is filmed beautifully, and the emotion and sensuality of the acting is palpable. I have become a huge fan of Hammam - meaning, going to Hammam, as a result. There are very few Hammam in US but there are many in Europe. Hammam is an amazing spiritual and physical cleansing ritual. My favorite in Europe (so far) is at the Grand Mosque in Paris.

Hammam (aka Steam). Love affair that develops between an Italian older married man and younger man, centers around Hammam culture in Turkey.

Totally a morning person, usually up at 5am and in bed 930 latest. I might shift an hour or so later on weekends.

Rob thanks for all you are doing. I'm an IT guy myself so understand and appreciate what you are doing and why. I'm also used to things changing all the time and am pretty easly adaptable. In my business getting the users of our tech to change and adapt is always a challenge. They all eventually come around, but it is a process and there is invariably some grumbling (at best) along the way. So, prepare yourself for that...and members, let's try to be patient and give these changes a try....set some dedicated time aside to "play", take several deep breaths, you will figure it out!

One more link: https://secretnyc.co/things-to-do-may-nyc/

Also going to NYC next weekend, though escorts are not part of the plan (this trip ?), a few suggestions - Walk the HighLine if you haven't done that - you could spend 1/2 day doing this and exploring the local neighborhoods (esp Meatpacking district) - The Eagle is open again, they have a lovely roof deck if you're still being cautious about being indoors - Lincoln Center is having outdoor concerts on their lawn https://www.lincolncenter.org/lincoln-center-at-home/show/summer-evenings-outdoorsnbspgershwin-adolphe-and-dvoaacuteknbsp-985 - There are many rooftop bars, just google rooftop bars nyc also here https://www.therooftopguide.com/rooftop-news/7-great-hotels-with-rooftop-in-nyc.html - We're planning to hit The Ramble (Central Park) and The Cloisters Here are some websites with things to do in NYC: https://www.timeout.com/newyork/things-to-do https://www.timeout.com/newyork/news/fun-things-to-do-in-nyc-based-on-your-comfort-with-reentering-society-042621?itm_source=parsely-api https://www.timeout.com/newyork/things-to-do/101-things-to-do-in-new-york https://www.nycinsiderguide.com/new-york-city-events-may

Thanks @Orin I will check your site out, thanks!

I have to admit, I'm not an avid reader of literature. I read a lot online, and have to read a lot for work. Plus, I just finished my Masters (2.5 years of LOTS of reading) and I am always on the move. So I really don't have that "snuggle up with a book" gene. But, I do buy "The Best American Short Stories" every year, usually coinciding with a vacation. I find short stories fit my appetite for literature, the work is still first rate, they are just.....short. Recommend this series to all who like me have a short attention span and otherwise find it hard to dig into a 3-400 page book. Cheers, Jack

I think it's always worth asking, esp if they are posting pics like that. Most clients are looking for tops, which may be why he lists as such. I would say if he's posting pics like that he could be easily flipped

Many years ago my hubby and I took our first trip to CA together. Two stories from this trip... Our trip started in SF, went North to Russian River then south to LA then San Diego. We spent 2 nights in Laguna Beach in Orange county, on our trip from LA to San Diego. Laguna was known to have a sizable gay population, including a gay-owned hotel + bar (the bar was called "The Boom Boom Room") which were right on the beach in Laguna. The hotel was a dump, and the "boom boom" shook the entire building until the bar closed. What we didn't know beforehand was there was an active male prostitution business in Laguna (I say prostitute VS escort b/c these were literally street workers) and their "circuit" was walking the street right in front of the hotel while the "johns" circled the block. We did not partake of these young men, but it was entertaining to watch the circuit from the balcony of our room. Lots of hot young men in short shorts getting into expensive cars with older men. After the bars closed, the beach in front of the hotel became very cruisy (this was before the internet, we discovered all this by chance). We went milling about out there and there was lots of sex going on right on the beach, from 2-somes to full-on pig piles. We played with various boys on the beach for an hour or more, if I remember I came 3 times before slithering back to our room to go to bed. Here is the Coast Inn / Boom Boom Room as I remember it (seems it just closed in 2019), can't you just see the boys working the block?: http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/4299/1262/1600/boom_boom_room_3.jpg Our trip ended in San Diego. In San Diego there is a famous nude beach named Blacks Beach, we had never been to a nude beach so went to check it out. The beach itself was mostly straight hippies, it was great to experience the freedom but nothing of note happened there. But, we walked through the dunes....which it turns out were quite cruisy. As we were walking through some scrub brush we happened on this striking young man, he was very tanned and wearing only white shorts, his shorts and feet were quite dirty ... (like, haven't showered in a month dirty) we think he might be living there at the beach. But, he had the most handsome face, blue eyes and long disheveled hair (think of a black haired Christopher Atkins in Blue Lagoon). We caught each other's attention and went into a area protected by the brush. We all started groping each other and out of the shorts came a HUGE penis. Like, maybe the biggest I have ever seen (in person) even to this day. Probably 10-11" and fat, and due to his youth.....hard as a rock. We all jerked each other off.....and back to the beach we went. So hot.

Plus he's so fucking sexy

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that was several years ago. He's much more muscular (possibly 'roided) these days.....

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that was several years ago. He's much more muscular (possibly 'roided) these days.....