AquaNYC

Its amazing the confidence that an above avg cock gives you......

I concur with the above sentiments! Thanks, AquaNYC. :confused:

It is a sort of fantasy, like in the song, The Impossible Dream
 
"To dream the impossible dream
To fight the unbeatable foe
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go
 
To right the unrightable wrong
To love pure and chaste from afar
To try when your arms are too weary
To reach the unreachable star"

I really don't get straight men advertising on RM for gay men. What is the draw of gay men to have an encounter with a man who wants limited if any contact? There are plenty of beautiful, well developed gay men who would likely allow a similar experience? What am I missing about the attraction and appeal in hiring straight men (those that limit physical contact to minimal to none)?

I really don't get straight men advertising on RM for gay men. What is the draw of gay men to have an encounter with a man who wants limited if any contact? There are plenty of beautiful, well developed gay men who would likely allow a similar experience? What am I missing about the attraction and appeal in hiring straight men (those that limit physical contact to minimal to none)?

If I was texting a stranger I'd never met, and they started calling be by a name which I had not given them, I would be momentarily/temporarily taken aback. And I don't just mean regarding escorting. Until anyone gives me their name, it seems quite socially awkward to just start dropping their name as if we've met before no matter how I know it.
 
For example, a lot of us young gay guys have a very big social media footprint. I've hooked up with guys who are pretty well-known through social media, Instagram-fame et cetera. Obviously, they know that information is out there: they're psuedo-public figures. However, I've never ever let them know that I know any more about them than they've decided to disclose to me one-on-one, unless I've noted "Oh yeah, I've actually followed you on Instagram for years." To just start dropping knowledge about them ("How was your trip to Europe you took last month? Your cousin's wedding in Napa looked really fun. Is your best friend Kyle single?") without disclaimer or prompting in our very first conversation ever? Awkard, and doubly so if the conversation is not face-to-face.
 
If someone is using an alias and hasn't given a name yet, that's probably not a random choice. Escorting is, after all, still illegal -- however unjust and ridiculous it is. So I assume everyone involved, client or escort, wants a level of privacy about that which they have not disclosed until trust is built and otherwise noted, or until specific disclosures are asked for.

I agree, but that happens here a lot. Try not to take it personally. Water off a duck's back and all that...
 
A tactical mistake. Lesson learned.
 
Many years ago when I was living in San Diego I was seeing an escort that went by Corey. (I've mentioned him here before. Great guy.) I liked him so much that I wanted to spend a weekend in Vegas with him. I needed his real name to buy the airline ticket so it was in my head. At the airport I accidentally called him by that name instead of Corey. He stopped dead, looked me in the eye, and said, "No one calls me that." Message received and understood.
 
Since then I've been very cautious. Real names invariably come out when you have a regular situation. All these years later, I still stop and ask very specifically what name he is most comfortable with me using. Extending him that courtesy has always resulted in, "Either name is fine" or "My real name is cool." With the notable exception of Corey that is. I never called him by his real name again!

That's why it's so very important to get yer butts in Regularly for your complete STI screening~
It's easy, painless, relatively inexpensive if not free and can really reduce your level of stress and anxiety over sex and sexual encounters. It can reduce the probability of acquiring a sexually-transmitted infection and passing an STI on to others should one be exposed.
My last labs were 08/17/2017~ I'm happy to share with Clients I meet who are interested.
I myself, consistently get checked for ALL testable STI's every three months. (Hep C once yearly as that is all my physicians will let me test for it). I carry my results with me in case anyone is curious to see.
I have also had my complete series of shots for HPV and hepatitis.
Granted by the time you're 24 you have already been exposed to a variety of HPV strains~
I went ahead and got the series of three shots for HPV because of the potential of protecting me from several forms of cancer associated with HPV.
I carry condoms with me at all times even if I don't intend to use them, (appointments are not necessarily sexual prescriptions): latex, non-latex, natural lambs (although they are right on me due to my "primary asset girth"), female condoms and an assortment of lubes to accommodate any of those prophylactics.
There is also great benefit to getting yourself on PreP~ It works and there are affordable ways to get it, however, there is some paper work and beaurocracy associated with doing so~
Its totally worth it though you still need to be conscientious of other STI's besides HIV protection offered from PreP~
While getting tested every three months does not rule out the possibility of contracting an STI, it really reduces the potential and decreases the incidences of passing on a "silent" STI, (one that doesn't exhibit symptoms in a person). (i.e. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HPV on the glans penis, etc., these don't always exhibit symptoms or discomfort).
If you're worried about your anonymity you can go to a clinic and do it completely anonymous. That sometimes works best for people who need complete confidentiality and discretion.
It is also important to educate yourself about the signs and symptoms of the STI's, including where various STI's are more prevalent in certain areas/cities you might be traveling to and intending to play. Some STI's are more prevalent in certain areas and less prevalent in others and the strains can be more or less virulent and communicable~
Certain kinds of sexual play may put you at greater risk of contracting an STI~
Educating yourself may take some personal effort and even make some personally uncomfortable but, that is a small amount of healthy maintenance in comparison to having the necessary imposition of treatment that can be both time-consuming, embarrassing or stressful to ones family, self or partners…
Some STI's like molluscum contagiosum, human papilloma virus, scabies and or crab lice can take a long time to resolve… Sometimes months on up to a year or more. Protecting yourself is much easier.
Keep it real though… Unhealthy fear of STI's isn't necessarily healthy either. There is healthy fear and unhealthy fear.
Unhealthy fear that prevents you from living a quality life, having a healthy relationship with another human being, experiencing intimacy in an open and honest way can be crippling in emotional and psychological ways.
Healthy fear protects you from making unnecessary mistakes… For example, you don't want to do a bunch of meth, get totally drunk, put yourself in a position where you're not in control of protecting yourself, (not just sexually but physically in other ways, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually)...
i.e., Being in a bath house with your ass up in the air passing out from poppers or some other substance while people that you don't know pop loads into your butt lends to a situation of greater risk~ Healthy fear tells you not to take that kind of path.
A realistic balance can come from educating yourself and following an STI screening game plan~
You neither have to live in danger or fear~
 
Tyger~
Tygerkink@yahoo.com
971.400.2633 (phone calls must be scheduled in advance thru texting or email. thx)
https://rent.men/AAATygerscentXXX
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Man, hard to resist this one when he shares in his profile he loves his ass eaten! Checking him out next trip to NYC! If anyone has experience with him, please share or PM!

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Age is an afterthought - depends on the overall attractiveness and appeal of the man.

Hot guy! Too bad for the "Ask" in the profile.

Appreciate your genuine response Parker. Best to you.

Done it many times, and the usual experience is rope a dope texting back and forth, and never get solid answers to my questions.

Done it many times, and the usual experience is rope a dope texting back and forth, and never get solid answers to my questions.

Done it many times, and the usual experience is rope a dope texting back and forth, and never get solid answers to my questions.

I lived next door to a little dancer guy in Hell's Kitch who paid his rent JUST by running ads in national periodicals and taking small deposits via W.U with NO intent of ever seeing a client. He ONLY accepted visiting out-of-towners staying in Hotels who believed this was the norm in the big city and also were less likely to follow up even thou they had his legal name and phone #. Did this the entire 2 years I knew him. This was back in the old answering machine days told me the only price he paid was his machine filled with messages n complaints when he wouldn't show so he always kept the sound off. *once I saw him with a black eye didn't ask how it hap'd but ALWAYS wondered if some client tracked him down n caught up with him lol.

My roofer was quoting me a price.
"how much deposit?" I asked.
"None. You pay me when I'm done. "
"Really?"
"Yeah. It's great incentive for me to finish the job."

During recent business trip to Chicago, I was really interested in spending time with Parker Allen.
 
https://rent.men/ParkerAllen
 
Received prompt response and availability to set up an evening meeting, but I noticed several of the text replies contained an interchange of "we" and "I" which I found odd. Also, "they" or "he" asked for a 10% deposit. This was the first time I've been asked to make a deposit. So I politely declined. Text reply was that he would still keep option open but needed a deposit before meeting. I let it go. Later on (after I arrived in Chicago after several flight delays) I received another text asking if there was still interest to hold time. I replied no and perhaps another time, as I already said I'm not making a deposit. I received what seemed to be an irate text back - "this is exactly why I require deposits because men cancel". What? I never agreed to a deposit so didn't expect him to hold any time.
 
Unfortunate exchange, but perhaps just miscommunication. I still am attracted to his profile, and would love to meet him. Has anyone else had experiences with deposits, and are there any guidelines to know what seems legitimate vs scam?

I really don't get straight men advertising on RM for gay men. What is the draw of gay men to have an encounter with a man who wants limited if any contact? There are plenty of beautiful, well developed gay men who would likely allow a similar experience? What am I missing about the attraction and appeal in hiring straight men (those that limit physical contact to minimal to none)?