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  1. I was forced to drink wine by my parents for religious reasons as a minor - I resented it, so as an adult I dislike alcohol consumption as well as religion! Making friends everywhere I go.....

     

    Sad to hear that! Quite the opposite happened to me. I was taught the significance and connection between wine and certain religious rituals and ceremonies and given some to share the experience depending on my age. Mostly my siblings and myself were given grape juice. Both my parents were very light social drinkers and always gave me a sample to know what they were drinking and to develop a taste for alcohol. I grew up to appreciate fine alcohol and pair it with fine foods, besides drinking in moderation and responsibly.

  2. This hunky guy. He seems like a great guy - and used to post around here but he kinda just fell off the planet. He had an active social media presence once. Maybe he wasn't really fond of doing it anymore? He had such a sexual energy - and an epic bod. Anyone been with Russ?

     

    I believe he's still around! I think he posted something somewhere on a thread not too long ago. Remember it's been the holidays and even escorts take time off. ;)

  3. slightly expanded stats, including cut/uncut info, are available to RM members who login.....you don't have to be a paying "premium member", though that membership level will allow you to see semi-private pictures and some additional videos

     

    Thank you for answering him. I just assumed everybody logged in to see the full info on an escorts profile! ;)

  4. have known him for a few years; he used to barback in a club here; totally masculine with a voice that hits just the right places … a sweet heart who can also play dirty …

     

    Top or bottom? His profile says "ask me" which I usually assume means versatile on a case by case basis.

  5. I'd have been inclined to try him but then I saw pic #9. Genital piercings are a major turn off for me. Even if they remove them, the hole left and oozing cum through two hole is just so gross for me and I go limp at sight. :( (BTW, His profile also says he's "uncut" yet I see a perfectly cut cock in all his pictures! Hmmmmm… )

  6. I would LOVE to get in the line of work to supplement my escort work - somewhere in midwest or happy to hop on a plane. Can anyone help me out with any connects?

     

    Most strip clubs have an "Amateur Night" to try out and recruit new talent. Also from what I've seen, interested men just walk in like any other patron, and if they like the place and the vibe they ask any person working there, (usually the bartender or DJ knows) who the manager is or to whom they should direct their enquiry. After that they just go up to the person, introduce themselves and they'll be told. I've seen guys walk in from the street and within the hour stripping and making money!

     

    Best of luck to you! ;)

  7. Forgive if this question is off the wall, but can the receiver of oral sex get gonorrhea from a giver of oral sex who has g of the throat?

     

    YES! Gonorrhea and Chlamydia also as happened to me after getting head from an escort. It can be asymptomatic for the carrier in the throat and rectum that is why swab cultures are necessary.

  8. It really is not a luxury. For starters, there are physician finders that allow one to specify search criteria such as "LGBT" or some such. Second, simply having a conversation with a PCP can tell you whether they are understanding. For example, when you inform your PCP that you have sex with men you can gauge his or her reaction. Additionally, if an LGBT-friendly PCP is located nearby a Google search will assist in finding health resources. For example, when I searched on "LGBT Health Resources Valdosta, GA" I found a link to the Georgia Department of Public Health South District website which states:

     

    "Every county health department provides HIV testing daily; however, appointments may be needed. Call your local health department for more information."

    I haven't searched for every small town or city in the US, but someone who is looking for information certainly can.

     

    There are many factors that you are obviously missing. I've neither the time nor the crayons to explain them to you, plus you obviously just want to insist that you are completely right and that nobody would have any valid reason to not have a Gay or Gay Friendly PCP. JEEZ! :rolleyes:

     

    Anyway, points have been made. Take good care of yourselves guys! Great original post and advice from Eight by Six!

  9. I'd expand the warning to say "Find a primary care physician who is either gay or understands gay mens' health issues." Throat-swabbing is but a pixel of the picture that is one's overall health.

     

    While I agree with you 100%, a "primary care physician who is either gay or understands gay men's health issues" is not a luxury everybody has available all the time.

  10. I hate to sound like a public service announcement. But I just had a THIRD friend tell me that as a gay man (who regularly sucks other guys to completion), he went into his doctor for a full STD screening (because of a chronic sore throat) and the (straight uninformed) family practitioner tested him for gonorrhea and chlamydia by giving him a urine test... only. THIS DOESN'T WORK.

     

    When he and I talked and I expressed dismay, he followed up with his doctor, who insisted "people don't really get that in their throat - it's very, very unlikely". So he went to another doctor who swabbed. Sure enough... he had gonococcal gonorrhea.

     

    I can attest that I personally have had gonorrhea in my throat (in the distant past) and I've known several other friends who have also. And of them - only about half had symptoms... the others just had knowledgeable doctors who knew their risk behaviors and wisely checked them in routine testing.

     

    **Also NOTE this infection is getting more and more resistant to antibiotics - and only a few still work, so let's keep on top of it boys!

     

    If your physician or practicing clinic doesn't swab your throat - get a new doctor.

     

    Ok - off my soap box.

     

    This is SO very true. Not all medical personnel are informed on the ways STD's can be transmitted especially among gay men or even among bi and heterosexuals in the fetish scene. Once I had to request and explain why I wanted a throat culture to a shocked seasoned older male doctor. Another time I caught Chlamydia by receiving oral sex from a now retired escort in Vancouver. The female nurse practitioner I had to see back in the US (because I was traveling away from home and was the only one available), was horrified when I explained and educated her on gay male sex practices when I interrupted her lecture on the use of condoms and anal sex risks. She admitted to me she didn't know that Chlamydia and Gonorrhea could be transmitted orally. And I had to admit to her that while women in the sex trade did tend to use condoms for oral sex, men mostly didn't. Plus many of us assume that a cheap $15 crack whore is more likely to transmit something than a $300 "clean" escort!

     

    So gentlemen, when going for your STD checks please request an oral swab if your doctor hasn't already included one and also an anal swab if you bareback. POS men tend to also assume that since they are HIV+ they have no need to protect themselves for anything else. Not so! Stay healthy! ;)

  11. for those interested.......

     

    https://www.gayboystube.com/video/773593/hey-tony-whats-the-story-1993

     

    the first twenty-or-so minutes is an interview of sorts, some bloopers included, with Tony.....can skip it if you want......

     

    I LOVED that video back in the day! I bought every porn mag I could find with a Tony Lattanzi photo shoot in it! That video was one of a kind. Thanks for finding it on line and sharing it! :)

  12. Thanks! BTW is it a requirement to shave ones pubes to qualify for guido-ness? Cuz I hate that

     

    It is common for Guidos these days to be very groomed. They shave and pluck their undesired hairs among other things. It's their look. :cool:

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