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  1. Ice-T announced on Twitter Friday that he’s never eaten a bagel in his life.

     

    A fan asked the “Law and Order: SVU” star what his favorite type of bagel was, and he responded, “Lol. I’ve never eaten a Bagel in my life…” Obviously, fans were in disbelief about his response, with one even attempting to call him out for apparently having eaten cinnamon raisin a bagel on his hit series.

     

    “Lol. TV is make believe,” he replied.

     

    Twitter users must have continued to express their shock at his revelation because Ice-T seemed to reach his limit.

     

    “White people.. Don’t lose your Fn minds because I’ve never eaten a Bagle [sic].. Take it easy…. lol,” he tweeted.

     

    The 60-year-old rapper isn’t the only person to have surprised people with his eating habits, as Kylie Jenner shared she had never tried milk with cereal until September 2018.

     

    Kylie called the combination “life-changing.”

     

    I can certainly understand him. I've never had pickled pigs feet or chitterlings, so there you go! :D

  2. He also asked me (repeatedly) to give him a 5-star review on RM before we'd even met! He seemed satisfied when I told him that I'd gladly do so after our appointment. Interestingly, when I complained to RM management about him, they said they're just an advertising service that doesn't ensure positive experiences (!) and therefore they can't do anything unless he breaks their rules. They also said that their rules also allow only for clients to issue one review per meeting without any further back and forth (kind of like Daddy's rules for just 1 client review followed by 1 escort response). I pointed out to them that this guy had bypassed their rules and found a loophole: 1) he undermined the integrity of the review system by asking prospective clients for 5-star ratings before meetings even occurred; and 2) he blocked me right after he absconded with the $, which prevents one from seeing the ad or leaving a review. RM management just stopped replying and decided to do nothing to either take down this guy's ad or warn others about him. Obviously, for everyone that he does this to, none of us can use the RM review system to warn other prospective clients either.

     

    The truly sad and predatory part of all this is how he seeks out clients like he did you and me, by initiating contact once he sees that we've viewed his ad, and then striking up conversation that has the effect of getting one to lower their guard. At least that's how I took it, because it seemed over the top to put in such long term effort into victimizing people (he emailed me several weeks before I'd made it clear that I'd be visiting Las Vegas, and then followed up during the interim). I'm just glad I had the restraint to not try to stop him from leaving on the day of the botched appointment, or it could have resulted in a dangerous altercation in the hotel lobby. Oh well, live and learn I guess.

     

    P.S., I've actually had decent experiences with Eastern Europeans in this field (with guys of all backgrounds, really), so I don't follow you on that particular point.

     

    I agree with you on RM when one voices a complaint about an escort. They do nothing and don't allow the negative review to go forward, give a poor excuse and end all communications with the client. RM is not customer oriented even when the customer is a paying one. That is why I refuse to renew membership with them. They will not get my money just for the privilege of seeing some semi-private pics and a few second video clips and nothing else!

  3. Last month I looked at his RM profile. I rated his pics because I found him hot and saved his profile to my Buddy List for future reference for when I'd be around. He immediately hit me up asking if I was in town and wanted to meet and gave me his number. I thanked him and told him I wasn't but had saved him for a future hire. He then asked me if in the meanwhile I could rate him 5 stars on a review, that it would really help him and he'd appreciate it! I had long suspected that RM reviews were dishonest and not reliable. I didn't answer and took him off my saved list. I've never seemed to have a positive experience with East Europeans male or female whenever encountered in any capacity anywhere. I've learned the hard way to avoid them. Damn, they can be appealing but not everything that shines is gold! :(

  4. I was in a foreign country and getting what I though was a "legitimate" massage. I assumed I'd made it clear, since I was suffering from lower back pain and we discussed my discomfort beforehand. Towards the end the masseur suddenly proceeded to give me head for a "happy ending"! I wasn't erect at any point because of my level of pain and discomfort. Startled I stopped him, he was a little taken aback and asked me sadly if I didn't like him or wasn't attracted to him! I had to explain in simpler English that I did indeed find him handsome but that it just wasn't what I needed at the moment. I had to assure him several times it wasn't him but me since he was clearly hurt. We awkwardly ended the massage and when I gave him payment he said it was too much and gave me a few bills back saying that he had quoted the price for a "happy ending massage"! He then gave me his personal cell number and asked me to call him next time I was in the country so we could go for coffee! I've never encountered such honesty in pricing nor a provider that was attracted to me since I'm a middle aged overweight bear! Later I found out the masseur was a well known "Daddy Bear chaser" in the local bear community. :D

  5. Is this the same guy formally known as "College_guy" ? Pics look familiar.

     

    Yes, I think you're right! I'm always amazed just how "flexible" these on line courses are these days that "students" can travel and have so much time while working on a degree! Maybe he's on a sabbatical? :D

  6. Just looking for different ideas...

     

    I'm in therapy, taking anti-depressants... 46, never had a BF, lonely... losing interest in sex.

     

    As a devout atheist who believes this is the only life we get and the member of an amazing family... no worries, I'm not suicidal, but gods I feel empty lately.

     

    Therapy helps! Find yourself a good phycologist.

    Take good care and best wishes to you!

  7. Anybody have any feedback on Southerngod in Orange County? Definitely like the bad boy southern type. Any 411?

     

    https://rent.men/SouthernGod

     

    He's been on my to do list for quite awhile now. I've just never manage to be able to make it out to where he's at. He used to have a different username and then went away for awhile and now his profile is back. He messaged me several weeks ago to see if I wanted to meet up. Sadly I can't make it out west at the moment. I've been in lust with him for a long time now! I'm crazy about southern guys like that! :p

  8. What's really funny is he's staying in mostly shitty or 3rd tier neighborhoods in every city he's in....

    Harlem...

    Chelsea, Boston

    Oakland....

    Not exactly places most clients would go.

     

    That is too funny! :D LMAO Maybe he just goes where he's hosted? Reminds me of the old saying "Tell me who your friends are...".

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    People are so quick to vilify the white person attracted to other whites, but when other race people wouldn't consider dating anybody other than whites or even their own race, nothing is said. Interesting video about Kevin and I wish him well and think he's on the right track now. But Keven doesn't mention if he himself ever considered looking for other Asians, Asian-Americans (like himself), South-East Asians, Pacific Islanders, Hispanics, Mixed-Race, Mulatas, Blacks or women of any other race mixture or ethnicity! Kevin himself seems to be only attracted to white women and hurt when rejected by them. I doubt the video would have ever been made if it was Kevin who was doing the rejecting of other-race women he didn't find attractive. Yet whites are the racists!

     

    And as far as the gay "community", I do see a lot of guys that have their "types". Maybe it's because I've lived in large city's with a diverse GLBT community that I've come across this? Haven't we all heard the terms I personally find distasteful: Rice Queen, Bean Queen, Spade Queen, Bagel Queen, and I don't know it there's a "Hummus or Falafel Queen" yet but we've all heard them mentioned with a snicker. These are white gay men that prefer men of these different races and ethnicities. Should I be offended because they aren't attracted to a middle-aged, obese, hairy "white" (the jury's still out) man with a small dick to boot?! Please, let people like who they like without labeling them as "racist" just because they don't like us back!

  10. I don’t understand why you gentlemen hire straight guys. There are so many hot gay guys out there. 99% of the time you’ll get better service, too. Support your people men!

     

    True, but some of us like the fantasy of being with a straight man even if the interaction is limited. I also hire gay men but it depends on what I want at the time. It's been hit and miss for me. I've had some hot times servicing straight men, that if it wasn't for the money I'd otherwise not been able to even touch or see naked! And some gay guys have given me some awful experiences as well and treated me with disdain and repulsion being an older overweight man. And some straight guys have been respectful, sweet and kind to me and flattered by my attentions besides the $$$. It all really depends on the person one way or another. I've had good and bad experiences with both.

  11. Since we’re off topic now, I’m curious how you guys feel about straight bartenders at gay bars. If there is only one attractive bartender but you know he’s straight, and the others are gay, Who do you go to for a drink? Or do you tip differently?

     

    It depends on how good a bartender he is and his interaction with me. Some straight guys know how to work a gay crowd, others just look hot and make/serve an OK drink but nothing else. I personally enjoy a good drink and some nice service as well! ;)

  12. OK, nothing that anyone wants to talk about but recently diagnosed with fissures. My doctors, and I use plural since I see my GP and dermatologist, believe it's from my dry skin that needs controlling. I, in full disclosure, like to have prostate exams but very unrough. I'm not a bottom specifically but enjoy the fingering. So, that being said, not that I'm trying to heal, any thoughts out there about what does for fun? I'm a 65 year old pudgy guy, liked the slight penetration sensation but now off limits. If you want me to take this elsewhere, I'll do so, thanks..

     

    Treat them per doctor's orders and eventually they will heal with time. Meanwhile they'll be a royal pain in the ass , (excuse the pun) and an inconvenience. Definitely not fun but there are worst things out there one could have. I can't remember how long mine took to heal but they did and I've never suffered from them again! Good luck! ;)

  13. Wow. Rentmen just rejected my negative review of him. Any idea why? It was my first review there ever.

     

    That happened to me awhile back. They had some bogus answer that really didn't say much nor made too much sense. That's why their reviews have no credibility! They also ignore complains, so I simply didn't renew my membership and refuse to since their customer service leaves a lot to be desired. Sadly they are the ones that are around now. I'll use them while their free and till something better comes along, but they won't be getting a dime out of me ever again. :mad:

  14. Wow. Rentmen just rejected my negative review of him. Any idea why? It was my first review there ever.

     

    That happened to me awhile back. They had some bogus answer that really didn't say much nor made too much sense. That's why their reviews have no credibility! They also ignore complains, so I simply didn't renew my membership and refuse to since their customer service leaves a lot to be desired. Sadly they are the ones that are around now. I'll use them while their free and till something better comes along, but they won't be getting a dime out of me ever again. :mad:

  15. Wow. Rentmen just rejected my negative review of him. Any idea why? It was my first review there ever.

     

    That happened to me awhile back. They had some bogus answer that really didn't say much nor made too much sense. That's why their reviews have no credibility! They also ignore complains, so I simply didn't renew my membership and refuse to since their customer service leaves a lot to be desired. Sadly they are the ones that are around now. I'll use them while their free and till something better comes along, but they won't be getting a dime out of me ever again. :mad:

  16. I don’t think the standards of “beauty” are regional, but more so demographic, specifically in “straight” world vs. “gay” world.

     

    A gay man’s “ugly”, is a straight man’s “average”.

     

    A gay man’s “average”, is a straight man’s “good looking”

     

    A gay man’s “good looking”, is a straight man’s “unattainably gorgeous”.

     

    I always tell people that there are two areas of life where you will spend your entire life being scrutinized for your looks and feel the pressure to maintain your looks until the grave: 1.) being a professional model, and 2.) being a gay man.

     

    The reason why gyms are packed with gay men isn’t because they are health conscious... it’s because they have to maintain a certain standard of physical attractiveness in order to have a sex life and find a mate (for a friendship, relationship, random sex, etc.)

     

    Those who get out of the matrix of superficial bullshit either do onenof the following:

     

    1.) say “fuck it”, and let themselves go and live a happy life, without seeking validation, and just orders escorts.

     

    2.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a vice: (drugs, food, alcohol)

     

    3.) Says “fuck it”, and becomes a hermit.

     

    4.) Says “fuck it”, and goes into a depression

     

    Or .....

    Says “fuck it”, exits out of the matrix, reprogrammed his values and sense of reality, lives his life to the fullest and focused of self-value, authenticity, and is clear of seeking the validation of others. ☺️??

     

    I agree with you on the demographics but disagree with you on the regional. It's so true what you say about gay vs straight standards of beauty. Here in the USA woman have always fallen all over me, and till this day and my straight female friends can't figure out why I'm single and don't have a boyfriend. Yet gay men here and in northern Europe usually find me less than attractive with some exceptions of course. But in some countries like in the Mediterranean area and in some south American regions men find me extremally handsome and attractive. Some east Asian places as well, yet in south east Asia not at all. So I have to disagree with you on the regional. Different cultures have different perceptions of beauty and value different things. But as far as demographics you are right on according to my own experiences and what I've seen in the world. :)

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