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As an escort myself, if you did this to me, that would probably be our first and last meeting.
It's one thing to be late, but let someone know and accommodate it.  No harm.  No foul.
It's another to throw the baby out with the bathwater and think an escort is somehow going to replace that lost client in a matter of minutes.
The level of cluelessness here is bordering satire.

Never met with Bryan, and while he may be a great guy, he isn't someone I would be inclined to hire.  To each his own.  BUT the reason he blocked could be numerous.  Using Grindr as an example, if I chat with someone a bit and find out we don't match, I have blocked them - no thin skin involved.  I just don't want more time wasted by either party in the conversation.  

Never met with Bryan, and while he may be a great guy, he isn't someone I would be inclined to hire.  To each his own.  BUT the reason he blocked could be numerous.  Using Grindr as an example, if I chat with someone a bit and find out we don't match, I have blocked them - no thin skin involved.  I just don't want more time wasted by either party in the conversation.  

I may be the minority here, but I would for sure explore my options.  Why - to help prevent this from happening to other people, and it may send a message within the area where he lives that this type of behavior will not be tolerated.  If it had been rape vs. disease infection would folks say you should still be quiet, and deal with it?   How about abuse - deal with that, or report it?
Working for a University and getting yearly trainings on sexual assault, rape, bias, etc. this would actually fall under assault at a minimum where I live.  I would also find it morally wrong for someone to intentionally misstate their status on any type of sexually transmitted disease.  To not know one is one thing, but to completely lie is another.  Yes, it is a very uncomfortable conversation, but that is part of being an adult, and taking responsibility and even more so in the line of work escorts do.  I would still expect to know even if it was someone I am just a "buddy" with.
I hope you can get some mental healing, as well as great treatment where you experience very little to no loss in the quality of life.  This is always a fear of mine, as well as any other STD/STI (and even though vaccinated, I'm still cautious in regards to COVID).  Wishing you the best.
 

Multiple times I year I discover providers appear in West Virginia.  When I contact to inquire, they state they are not escorting at the moment and just put their profile in the state of West Virginia as they will likely get little to no contacts.  I really sort of hate that.  Just put a note on the profile stating you are taking a break for a period of time with the date OR use the "COVID safe mode" feature.   It is just laziness a a lack of caring about clients that you advertise somewhere you aren't, IMHO.

One thing not discussed so far, is if you should send a message after the session?  Throwback to the words of Brad Benton "It's always a business doing pleasure with you!"  😁

One thing not discussed so far, is if you should send a message after the session?  Throwback to the words of Brad Benton "It's always a business doing pleasure with you!"  😁

Multiple times I year I discover providers appear in West Virginia.  When I contact to inquire, they state they are not escorting at the moment and just put their profile in the state of West Virginia as they will likely get little to no contacts.  I really sort of hate that.  Just put a note on the profile stating you are taking a break for a period of time with the date OR use the "COVID safe mode" feature.   It is just laziness a a lack of caring about clients that you advertise somewhere you aren't, IMHO.

I may be the minority here, but I would for sure explore my options.  Why - to help prevent this from happening to other people, and it may send a message within the area where he lives that this type of behavior will not be tolerated.  If it had been rape vs. disease infection would folks say you should still be quiet, and deal with it?   How about abuse - deal with that, or report it?
Working for a University and getting yearly trainings on sexual assault, rape, bias, etc. this would actually fall under assault at a minimum where I live.  I would also find it morally wrong for someone to intentionally misstate their status on any type of sexually transmitted disease.  To not know one is one thing, but to completely lie is another.  Yes, it is a very uncomfortable conversation, but that is part of being an adult, and taking responsibility and even more so in the line of work escorts do.  I would still expect to know even if it was someone I am just a "buddy" with.
I hope you can get some mental healing, as well as great treatment where you experience very little to no loss in the quality of life.  This is always a fear of mine, as well as any other STD/STI (and even though vaccinated, I'm still cautious in regards to COVID).  Wishing you the best.
 

There are a lot of facts we're not getting, so it's tough for me to say much of anything. 
I'm incredibly sorry you got this news.  It's jarring and difficult, but like others have said here, it's a manageable diagnosis.  
Get your HIV genotyping done.  Find an ID doc you feel comfortable with.  Take care of YOU, first and foremost.
Be angry for now, but don't let that consume you long term.
 
 

I may be the minority here, but I would for sure explore my options.  Why - to help prevent this from happening to other people, and it may send a message within the area where he lives that this type of behavior will not be tolerated.  If it had been rape vs. disease infection would folks say you should still be quiet, and deal with it?   How about abuse - deal with that, or report it?
Working for a University and getting yearly trainings on sexual assault, rape, bias, etc. this would actually fall under assault at a minimum where I live.  I would also find it morally wrong for someone to intentionally misstate their status on any type of sexually transmitted disease.  To not know one is one thing, but to completely lie is another.  Yes, it is a very uncomfortable conversation, but that is part of being an adult, and taking responsibility and even more so in the line of work escorts do.  I would still expect to know even if it was someone I am just a "buddy" with.
I hope you can get some mental healing, as well as great treatment where you experience very little to no loss in the quality of life.  This is always a fear of mine, as well as any other STD/STI (and even though vaccinated, I'm still cautious in regards to COVID).  Wishing you the best.
 

I may be the minority here, but I would for sure explore my options.  Why - to help prevent this from happening to other people, and it may send a message within the area where he lives that this type of behavior will not be tolerated.  If it had been rape vs. disease infection would folks say you should still be quiet, and deal with it?   How about abuse - deal with that, or report it?
Working for a University and getting yearly trainings on sexual assault, rape, bias, etc. this would actually fall under assault at a minimum where I live.  I would also find it morally wrong for someone to intentionally misstate their status on any type of sexually transmitted disease.  To not know one is one thing, but to completely lie is another.  Yes, it is a very uncomfortable conversation, but that is part of being an adult, and taking responsibility and even more so in the line of work escorts do.  I would still expect to know even if it was someone I am just a "buddy" with.
I hope you can get some mental healing, as well as great treatment where you experience very little to no loss in the quality of life.  This is always a fear of mine, as well as any other STD/STI (and even though vaccinated, I'm still cautious in regards to COVID).  Wishing you the best.
 

He wore white after Labor Day.
Twitter doesn't fuck around.

I vote yes, and what's the link to the livestream?  😆

I vote yes, and what's the link to the livestream?  😆

I vote yes, and what's the link to the livestream?  😆

I vote yes, and what's the link to the livestream?  😆

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.

I don't know folks ages on the form, but another thing to take into consideration is that Gen Z and Millennials are identifying as LGBTQ or are much more fluid in their sexuality than Gen X and prior. I live in an area 2.5+ hours from any major city. Population here is 45,000. College town, and the enrollment is around 13,000. I can't ever recall finding an escort on any site in the past 20 years in this area. I just turned 50.
 
The last four guys I have had an ongoing sexual relationship with for the past 10-15 years have all been straight, and in their late 20's and early 30's. The reason they seek me out are varied, but are generally multiples of the following:

The girlfriend/wife won't do oral sex
They have split from a girlfriend/wife and are frustrated with the relationship dynamic for male/female, but want some sex
They want to do anal sex, and their partner isn't into it
They work an opposite shift from their partner
They can be a bit more rough or do what they want, without an expectation of what the other person wants
The have kid(s) don't want more, and I'm not able to get pregnant
Since I'm 15-25 years older than them, they don't worry about me bragging to someone they may know about us having sex
They know I'm not looking to date them
It's a convenience - when they are horny, I'm not likely to tell them know, where a spouse/partner might/does

I'm sure there could be a couple of other reasons. But never any kissing, they don't give oral or receive anal, and they don't have to worry about making sure I get off. For one it is also a nice escape from his family. We drink a little from time to time, talk about life and baseball, and other things his now ex-gf would get mad at him for talking about, such as participating in tough-man/MMA competitions.
 
I have started getting some straight/bi college guys ask me about getting together, but I have generally stuck to my regular straight. The younger ones tend to flake about 40% of the time, and they seem a bit more socially awkward to me.
 
So for me the plus is I don't have to pay for the straight guys I see. When I want to hire (maybe once every 5 years or less) it is more for an experience such as kissing and more sexual contact than what I normally get from my couple of regulars.
 
To make a long story short, while it may be for the money for the straight escorts, it may also be about just getting to have sex without expectations that came with sex with someone from another gender.