jayjaycali

As a top the only position I really don't like is a guy on his back. My cock has an upward curve so it's really hard to get it in that way. I sort of have to bend it straight to get it to go in so not ideal. I love a guy riding me especially facing away from me. Really hot.

As a top the only position I really don't like is a guy on his back. My cock has an upward curve so it's really hard to get it in that way. I sort of have to bend it straight to get it to go in so not ideal. I love a guy riding me especially facing away from me. Really hot.

As a bottom, riding is my preferred position. Gets me off every time. I can take it on my stomach. Not so much on my back. For some reason, that angle really hurts when guys thrust. But I am pretty tight, so maybe that's why. Any suggestions on how to loosen your hole as a bottom? I could really use some. As a top, I love to bend a guy over the edge of the bed and take him from behind. Makes me cum every time.

As a bottom, riding is my preferred position. Gets me off every time. I can take it on my stomach. Not so much on my back. For some reason, that angle really hurts when guys thrust. But I am pretty tight, so maybe that's why. Any suggestions on how to loosen your hole as a bottom? I could really use some. As a top, I love to bend a guy over the edge of the bed and take him from behind. Makes me cum every time.

As a total bottom, I strongly prefer the missionary position. I like to look at my top in the eyes. In this position I can pull him down for a kiss whenever I want. That is critical. Other positions afford the look but make the kiss difficult. I’m still waiting to be taken by a top in a harness. That would make hanging on so cool!

I’d risk an hour in a (ventilated) place, spaced say 8’ apart with a well shaped show-off who’s in love with showing... If I add disco lights and some disinfectant, it might take me back to The Gaiety...????

As part of my initial message to a new hire, when presenting what I want, I also specify that they can choose their form of payment from Venmo, Apple Pay, PayPal or cash.
 
Almost all of the men I’ve hired in 2020 have asked for an electronic payment, which I square up before the session starts while letting them know I’m prepared with a cash tip.

I sent it to 3 guys already. I’d love to let them tell you if it’s worth it. It was created by Adonis as a teaser with footage of the guys off camera. There is spanking, some fucking, posing, push ups, ass eating, blow jobs etc. It’s 4 minutes. It may only be hot to me because I lived it. Also, there’s no charge for the video (some have asked.)

Go-go boys are more like no-go boys then? ?

Colors reflect the amount of tokens that user recently tipped.

This past Friday I worked with Adonis NYC to host some of their boys for an over night Friday into Saturday. We planned to do their AVN broadcast live and have some of the boys together from my house.
 
2 guys were committed to the show. 2 guys were camera shy. 1 former dancers was there as an assistant, and to capture some behind the scenes shenanigans. Tim and their tech guy were there to host and ensure the show ran smoothly.
 
The guys were supposed to take a helicopter out of NYC to my house. Weather screwed that plan and they had to drive out instead. That put a damper on the experience but we rebounded quickly.
 
Tim had surgery that morning. He was on crutches and in pain. The timing sucked, but positive attitudes prevailed.
 
When the guys got to my house, we sat around the table and I explained what I liked, what my vision for the overnight would be, the amount of cash that would be available for their time and openness. The tropical storm seemed to avoid my house by some stroke of luck and after dinner, they got naked and jumped in the pool.
 
We played some pool games and they tried out the trampoline. Ever seen dicks on muscle men bouncing around on a trampoline? It's magic, google it.
 
When show time rolled around it was a lot of fun figuring out how the guys would come on screen. I REALLY recommend checking out the video available for purchase on Adonis. There were some tech difficulties because of so many people being on my wifi at once, streaming video, but it worked out well in the end. I hope.
 
Both of the camera shy guys agreed to go on camera. One wore a mask. He's a pretty amazing dude, and one highlight of the weekend was a very famous neighbor of mine sending him instagram voicememos (from his verified celebrity account) commending him on his beauty, pointing out their proximity, and begging him to "swing by." Who knew gay celebrities use instagram to hook up. fun fun fun.
 
Anyway, once it was revealed that the boys and Tim were all in a house together, a delicious 4 some took place on my couch. I'll never be able to lay there again and watch The Golden Girls without knowing who's dick leaked precum on which throw pillow.
 
After the show, the guys were super horny, and more comfortable with me and each other. I broke out a pinata filled with cash that they could only break open with assorted bondage paddles and whips. That was a fun, unassuming way to introduce those toys to the weekend.
 
We moved onto a blindfolded sex toy demonstration. Each guy was given a blindfold and an elaborate sex toy to figure out. Cash prizes went to the guys who properly used or demonstrated. What a hoot.
 
I spread out a tarp and the guys let me body paint, and massage oil and make a mess on their beautiful bodies.
 
We turned in around 3 am.
 
I could hear the camera shy boys "hitting it off" in the room next to mine, and they allowed me to come enjoy the action. Sorry A list neighbor celebrity, masked man was taken that night by a shy boy from Texas.
 
I had a guest in my bed and we fell asleep as dawn broke around 6:30.
 
Not wanting to miss any action, and knowing the clock was ticking, I was up at 8am. I enjoyed getting to know the boys as they woke up one at a time.
 
Breakfast came at 11 and we settled the age old question, how many bagels can a man fit on his hard dick.
 
We played a riveting game of truth or dare where the most muscular man of all had to go in his speedo searching my neighborhood for my dog that ran away. He knocked on the doors of my wonderful gay neighbors, looking for the dog. I immediately got a call from said gay neighbor asking who the man was, and could he come back for yoga? I apologized for interrupting their brunch, and they said it was no interruption, and he was welcome back any time. The downside is that neighbor then spent 10 minutes in his backyard looking for a dog that didn't exist. I have since gotten 3 more phone calls from that neighbor. 2 inquiring about the man, 1 about the dog. lol
 
Another dare was a guy having to go get my mail wearing nothing but bondage ropes. He looked amazing tied up in red, and was totally prepared to do it, but I stopped him in the driveway when I realized EVERYONE was outside in their front yards for some reason.
 
Another was going on Grindr, and convincing someone to come pick you up, and take you to get a sandwich from the deli. Mission accomplished.
 
We went back in the pool, played some pretty macho games of chicken, and last man standing on assorted pool rafts. The masculinity, and playful energy was amazing as I got to just watch guys be guys. More naked trampoline bouncing ensued, with them allowing me to capture a slow motion video of cocks bouncing. Seriously, go google this. Yum.
 
The second to last swan song was a beautiful fuck in the outdoor shower.
 
The swan song was an 8 handed massage in my bedroom, followed by the draining of dicks in various holes and hands. Mostly theirs.
 
At 4pm, the car came to take them back to Manhattan and just like that it was all over. Today is back to real life with a smile on my face, and a bit less cash in the wallet.
 
Some takeaways
 
Adonis boys are respectful, polite and professional.
If you are comfortable asking for what you want, you will get what you want.
Money changes everything.
Sometimes it's REALLY hard to hide your humanity, and despite being professionals, real emotions and real feelings can creep into a client provider relationship. Stomp it out ASAP.
Tim from Adonis is a consummate professional, and if you're looking for an experience, that man can help make it happen.
Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.

Portland, and Multnomah County, Oregon were the last jurisdictions in the state to move into partial reopening for business including restaurants, retail stores, and bars. After seeing the reopening of Boxers n Briefs in St Louis, I thought it was time to see how the hometown places were handling this challenge. My curiosity needed to compare and contrast, and I wanted to say "hey" to some of the guys who make the long wet winters here at least bearable. So, here goes my description of last night's visit.
 
First, the major change- hours of operation. PreCovid, Silverado's hours were 11AM to 2 AM, with dancers working 10PM to close. With the current rules allowing bars to be open only to 10PM, dancers are now working from 6 to 10 nightly, with a Sunday matinee from 2 to 6. Entry to the club required a mask (any public indoor space in OR requires that), plus a temperature check with a Flir scanner. No touch, no fuss, not an issue to me. Free entry weeknights, cover charge on Fri/Sat. These hours are expected to be the case for an extended period this summer- the next step of loosening restrictions will allow a midnight closing time, but will require a drop in infection rates and hospitalizations. Rural Oregon is getting there, but Metro Portland is lagging behind- not Phoenix or Houston-like numbers, but not ideal yet.
 
Inside, the social distancing effort is apparent. The large main floor space is divided out by ropes, keeping the video poker and slots in a defined separate area. Tables and stools are spaced out to meet the mandate. Down stairs, the stage room is revamped. No chairs at the stage rail, tips go into a tip pail on the rail instead of into the dancer's drawers. There are still bar tables away from the stage, just fewer in number. The manager estimates a max capacity of 30 to 35, depending on how groups arrange themselves. Masks are required for patrons moving about the room, but if you are sitting at a table and drinking or eating you can remove the mask. However, dancers, bartenders and all staff are required to have masks on continuously. As in STL, it felt a bit strange to watch a dancer get down to nothing on but a mask!
 
Lap dance booths are still in play, but masks are required. other than that, most of the bar rules are the same- I did not partake, but others did. Last night there were only a few dancers, so I didn't feel right tying up the dancer's time with chitchat. There's some stripper drama concerning scheduling and returning to work for some of the old-timers, but really, would you expect anything less? In all, the place is trying to make things work, and it will be interesting to see how a busy weekend works out- with the limited space, crowd control is going to be a challenge and the staff has their work cut out for them.
 
Next up in a few days, I'll head around the corner to Stag- they've got a much smaller space, social distancing my be a greater challenge. Support your local- they need us more than ever before!

This week I was working in Missouri, and once finished the plan was to spend a couple days with a friend in southern MO before coming back to OR over the weekend. Leaving the work site, I texted my friend to check in, and found out that he was in the hospital with a broken leg, and therefore unable to entertain visiting gentlemen callers- too bad. Since I was already in central MO, I told him I'd head on down to Poplar Bluff so we could at least have a visit in person. While chatting he mentioned that the Illinois casinos were opening again, and Boxers n Briefs was due to reopen this weekend too. I said I was heading up there to fly home, and would he mind if I headed up there early and check things out, he said no ( he worked there until a year ago) so that's just what I did.
 
I wasn't expecting to have anything open during this trip, and had some trepidation about a large indoor crowd. I decided that, since my plans were already shot, I'd play it by ear, and if it felt unsafe, I'd turn around and walk out. So, I drove out to East St Louis. First thing on my arrival, saw about 20 cars in the parking lot, a bad sign to me. Social distancing, mebbe not. Went up to the door, checking out the inside- virtually empty. Turns out there was a private swingers party going on in the curtained area next to the stage- there were only a few bar/stripper customers. Friday night cover of $10, and I'm in the door.
 
First surprise- tho I had a mask, the manager said it was my choice to wear it or not. All the staff had masks; dancers, bartender, manager, owner. Of the half dozen customers, I was the only one masked, an the private party group had no masks also. They had rearranged the tables to provide distancing- instead of sitting up against the bar or the stage, a row of tables was placed next to the bar, and a second row of tables were set up, with chairs set at every other table- providing a comfortable distance between patrons and dancers. Under the circumstances, this seemed pretty effective at spacing, put me at ease that they had put some thought into the arrangement. Unfortunately, not sitting up at the bar means the you have to go stand in line for your drinks- a one-way maze with spacing marks on the floor to go up to the bar station to get drinks. Clear shields in the maze and at the bar kept order. However, if the place were more full, getting drinks may get problematic. As in the past, drinks are no bargain, $6.50 for a bottle of been, but there were specials listed on the bar board.
 
I was not surprised that none of the familiar faces were dancing on Friday night. With it being first night back, there were a half-dozen dances. Talking with them, it seems most had been relatively new hires over the last winter, and laid off in March when things shut. The guys were young, thin twink types, only one being over 23 it seemed. They were expecting some returnees over the next week, but frankly the number of customers would not have supported many more dancers.
As I said, twink was the word of the night, not any muscle, all Caucasian boys. The routine was unchanged- a fifteen-minute all nude dance on the bar or stage, then work the room till next time up. The lap dance areas and private room were also unchanged, except that both the dancer and client were required to be fully masked the whole time in back, and had to lather up with hand sanitizer before going back and upon leaving the booth/private room. Costs were unchanged- $75 for 15 mins lap dance, $200 for 15 mins private room.
 
The guys - while its initially weird watching nekkid guys with their faces covered, you get used to it soon enough.You can't really get close enough to have a conversation, and the mask makes ever harder for us senior citizens, but they're to be watched and tipped, and they find a way to get a foot close enough to you to get the ones and fives in the sock. Two of the guys were standouts in my book- Liam is a blond somewhat-muscled Texan with an ass that was well-formed, and completely hairless ( yes I checked every crack and crevice ), said he'd done some porn in the past and was friends with Brent Corrigan. Interesting conversation and an inspired, athletic lap dance. It's possible he may have been working at Tin Room in Dallas in the past, he seemed oddly familiar to me. My top star of the night was Spencer, an 18 year old thin (28 inch waist) dark-haired chocolate eyed beauty. Friendly and intelligent, he made himself my favorite by remembering the points of conversation after working the room and coming back to chat me up some more. A truly inspired lap dance- I maybe fell a wee bit in lust with this charmer- but yes, he's young enough to be my grandson! There's also a curly- haired blond with a furry bubble but and biggest dick of the night, and one kid who looked to be 15 years old- I'm sure he was legal, but that was hands-off for me!
 
I left at 11:30 - early flight and all. By then there were about 15 customers, might have had room to fit eight to ten more, that's about all. For only a days notice, this was a good experience, but since I'm no longer doing on-site training trips, I'll probably not be returning- if you're already in the area, its worth going across the river, but its not enough on its own for a destination. I wish Bob and the guys the best of luck in keeping the place open, would be a shame to lose this "asset" to the male stripper community

Lovecraft Country. Fun read.

Just going out to have fun for the afternoon... I guess a networking thing, since all my friends hire.

The ZOOM event is FREE.
You do not need a membership to StockBar.com to enter the event. (you will need to download ZOOM, also free)
A link to ZOOM event's will be posted on the Stock Bar website, Facebook and Instagram pages.

Would you consider spending an afternoon on a boat with 4 or 5 guys who have hired in the past, as eye candy/company?

I'm looking for a genuinely nice guy who, during this strange time, will do online/phone/virtual 30 or 45-min sessions with me. I travel a lot and soon will be doing so again and will want to build a client relationship and see him when I travel again. But for now -- want to find a really sensual, fit and mature guy who will work with me to arrange online sessions. Thanks for any ideas.

I love to get my haircut in Dallas. I have a special barber I use. He has a one chair private shop. He likes to treat his clients in a special way and he likes to be treated in return.

I had gained 6 pounds during the lockdown. Starting last week and until yesterday morning, dieting, I was able to cut 3 pounds. Yesterday I attended the DC BLM protests, walked for 4/5 hours under the sun, and lost the other 3 pounds!
 
So this is not Politics, it is pure fitness: join right now your local BLM protests.

I just might go to the next one. Hell, why not?
 
Are these strippers new, or are they the guys from the clubs?
 
I actually have to applaud Adonis. This is pretty innovative.

I have been trying to get back into a running habit. Trying to keep it consistent everyday even if it's short.

the uber straight, uber masculine, uber hot and uber hung marco ducati seems to get a lot of pleasure in the annilungus/toy category nowadays. i remember he briefly escorted a few years ago. he was mentioned to be a lack luster hire since he had problems being with men and getting hard.
 
apparently he found his calling at the other end of the rainbow...ahem.
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5abae86c90004
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5b15b979d0f80
 
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5b0e41078c826
 
imagine him purring like a kitten while you go to town down there only to slide up to that monster between his legs...yowza!!! its funny how being in the "beta" position, female or male gets the "oh yeah baby" and "mmmmm", and "oh yeah daddy, just like that" from the bottom bunkee. come back marco...come back!

There are different spaces that people can open up themselves and there is regularly a gay/bi one to hang out in.

I have had some fun Zoom cocktail parties, and was wondering if any of you have done a Zoom lap dance?