NuSingle

I should have pointed out my sexual experiences were pretty limited. I stayed with the first guy I slept with for four years and the next guy for 25. I had been out of that relationship for less than a year and still not very experienced when this happened.
 
It certainly opened my eyes to a better understanding and appreciation for fetishes in general.

I follow him on Twitter and it’s always a treat to see his pics & videos. Hot!

It's certainly cluttered my Twitter Feed...

Reading about a gay virgin’s first time getting his cherry popped is a lot more exciting than you think.

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So much of what is said in this forum is about 'me, me, me'. We talk about the things we want to do, our sexual ideas, we talk about our political ideas (and defend them to the point of obsession). We focus on ourselves. We resent things that don't affirm us. And then we read @BasketBaller's latest recounting of the Plebe, the de Paul twin, and whatever else. That points us in a different direction. It elevates our souls. I feel that I know him and his boys, I rejoice in their every-day reactions and what they do. I know it's not all plain sailing but I like to think that we have their backs. I for one look forward to the next paths they take.

I'm not in NYC, but I would like to share my experience with a client that had a foot fetish. I had never been with anyone who was turned on by a guys feet. Long story , short version. He spent his entire time worshiping my body but mostly my feet. He held them, rubbed them and sniffed them. He did also rub on my butt, but no actual sex as far as that goes. He concentrated on my feet. Very erotic and sensual. The intensity and pleasure he was getting was very obvious from his gentle caresses and light moan of enjoyment. He enjoyed himself completely by the end. All I did was lay there for his pleasure. It was a wonderful experience from me... guys if you get the chance to be with someone with a foot fetish... give it a try ..... @FootWhisperer is wish you good luck on your search.

Wanted to ask if there are specific sites that host these types of escorts?

....and think about shortening your porn name - 'whiteguynextdoorhugecock'...It's bad form to compete with supercalifragilisticexpialidocious..

Just a couple things to add: the experience you will have as a bottom is more related to skill than size. Having a top who knows what he is doing and pays attention to your reactions, asks how you are, etc is key. As many have mentioned, reading reviews and asking folks on this forum will help you find tops who are skilled. There are a lot of hung tops out there who know what they're doing!
 
Also, if you want to talk more about poppers, I'm happy to have a conversation. I'm known for my knowledge and use of poppers, and I'm happy to share info so that anyone can make an informed, healthy choice. I've got a small section about poppers on my blog, and I'm working on a site - brownbottlebrotherhood.com - to be a mega resource for poppers.

Explore many positions to find your most comfortable/relaxed. I really need to be on my back to start things off, but then I’m pretty comfortable in any position after that.
 
If you tolerate/like poppers give that a try. It’s a major enhancer of my bottoming experience. Just educate yourself about them first.

Of course you could take your own advice since I assume that you, too, have an anus. You don't have to be a total top either. Try bottoming again. You might find out that you like it.

Mike
This forum is meant to weed out the liars. Just found a posting of yours very similar to the one you wrote last night. “Met him last night”. And below is a posting of the same escort and you defending him saying you met him “ last night”. You are either the same guy who has no valuable time in his life other than to make new accounts on RM, close them after your caught then open up a new one with a different name and same pictures, the pose as a customer who met these people. WHY???? You need to get a life. Stop scamming innocent people
 
 
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/jared-review.112490/

Based on this conversation, I want to put together a multipart Netflix series about how to fuck and get fucked. Sort of a sexual how-to travelogue.
 
It'll be like if Rick Steves discovered prostate massage, poppers and silicone-based lube all in the same day.

Caution: Don’t do poppers if you’ve also popped a Viagra. Potential major side effects there like a huge drop in blood pressure and worse.

Totally agree about not doing poppers in the very beginning. Fully enjoy it first and then the poppers experience is a whole nother gear. It makes a lot of tops go limp in my experience so another reason to do your homework. It can also prolong the session before climax for me which is an added bonus.

All of the above have great information. I have mostly been a top but really wanted to start recently. Although I understand the "big is not necessarily bad" logic I still look for the reasonable size hoping to work my way up to Jessie O'Toole. For some reason, being on top at first and allowing me to work him into me as fast or slow as I wanted seem to work. Because it is at the beginning he is usually turned on and he stays hard. Then once I feel comfortable I really start a power bottom sort of routine. If he is a discriminating top he will pick up on that and suggest changes of positions. I just let my defenses down and go with the flow unless I think he is being too hard with me. You always have the right to put a stop to anything. A very moderate amount of poppers can help but I don't like them at the beginning necessarily. I find that my slow easing on to a cock is not helped by poppers. But once he gets going with you a small amount every once in a while really makes it feel goddamn glorious. I used a small amount the other night and I swear I could feel the smooth portion of the head of his cock against my hole and it gave me shudders. But enough about me . . .

J always retell my experience with the great Antton Harri. One of the truly great men in open/escorting. The bottom is always the one in control. Not only does your body need to respond but so is your head. A good top will work your butt tonhet it ready. Lube a must/or anal ease will help a lot. My suggestion is try laying on your back with your legs on his shoulders as he enters. Eye contact and kissing works wonders. Once he is inside after the initial penetration hopefully you will be into the experience. From there alternative positions or continue in that position I love grabbing and slapping his butt as he's thrusting. There are some great tips in NYC.

First, THANK YOU!
 
I've read and re-read everyone's comments a number of times, slowly realizing that most of the questions I left unasked were just anxiety about being clean and relaxed enough to enjoy ...
 
As for the advice - @oldNbusted handled the majority of questions with one link (and thank you for that). Reading @MassageDrew and @NuSingle reminded me that the rare bottom experiences I had, remember and fantasize about, started with (copious alcohol and poppers, and...) me on my back or spooning.
 
@NuSingle, thanks for the comment about poppers. I came out in New York and Houston in the late 70's, poppers were integral to my coming out experience. A number of brands available in London are still quite good.
 
I also realized that the phrase "size inappropriate" left too much to the imagination... The escort I'm hoping to start with next week advertises as 8 inches, and it was looking at his advert that prompted my question. There is a guy in Paris I sometimes fantasize about who is 9 inches, but I think of him as a very advanced classes best left for the future.
 
finally, THANK YOU - I'm very much looking forward to next week.

Explore many positions to find your most comfortable/relaxed. I really need to be on my back to start things off, but then I’m pretty comfortable in any position after that.
 
If you tolerate/like poppers give that a try. It’s a major enhancer of my bottoming experience. Just educate yourself about them first.

I’d like the experience him exploding in my ass like that. Hot video!

Explore many positions to find your most comfortable/relaxed. I really need to be on my back to start things off, but then I’m pretty comfortable in any position after that.
 
If you tolerate/like poppers give that a try. It’s a major enhancer of my bottoming experience. Just educate yourself about them first.

Explore many positions to find your most comfortable/relaxed. I really need to be on my back to start things off, but then I’m pretty comfortable in any position after that.
 
If you tolerate/like poppers give that a try. It’s a major enhancer of my bottoming experience. Just educate yourself about them first.