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Smurof got a reaction from + FrankR in Do you keep dealing with regular or once met clients if they flake when scheduling subsequent sessions?
Ignoring the 2 page catfight, I say give anyone a second chance to book. Two flakes and you're out, regardless of whether I know them or not.
I've had a provider flake on me twice in a row after 1 meet, so disrespect is real and can work both ways, unfortunately.
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Smurof got a reaction from acks01 in Client best practices
A biggie that gets overlooked - DON"T BE EARLY!! I've had one who I really enjoyed prevent me from a repeat visit for being early, which set a terrible tone for the session. Also, by being early with a different provider I was able to see his prior hire - not something either one of us wanted to experience. It's happened to me the other way as well with someone else being early that it spoiled the end of my session.
For my defense, I live in a rural area where it takes me hours to get to my hires, and I don't want to be late. I know now to drive around the block a time or two or find an errand to run to avoid this from happening.
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Smurof reacted to + IronMaus in Do you keep dealing with regular or once met clients if they flake when scheduling subsequent sessions?
If you've met before, and they flake without response, I make note of it.
If they want to hire again I politely ask them to pay in full before we meet.
If they flake but give me notice and can't reschedule right away, I make note of it so I can plan around the chance of a 2nd flaking.
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Smurof got a reaction from + IronMaus in Do you keep dealing with regular or once met clients if they flake when scheduling subsequent sessions?
Ignoring the 2 page catfight, I say give anyone a second chance to book. Two flakes and you're out, regardless of whether I know them or not.
I've had a provider flake on me twice in a row after 1 meet, so disrespect is real and can work both ways, unfortunately.
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Smurof reacted to joethomas in NEIGHBOURS SON !!
Another question could be, while his parents are away does he need any help with laundry etc?
Turn off the water so he has to show at yours!!http://68.media.tumblr.com/4dcf51f9a10e2ab332a2dbe80a1f3925/tumblr_osr5ixHatG1uy0noao3_1280.jpg
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Smurof got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Do you like this song?
No, but I wouldn't rule out this group putting out something I might find appealing. For me, liking songs are 100% music and 0% lyrical content, and this really never seemed to become interesting from start to finish. Glad you like it though.
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Smurof got a reaction from marylander1940 in Is he an exhibitionist?
That should ensure we'll remember what year the photo was taken.
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Smurof reacted to eastietop in Hottest Massage Video Ever?
Not sure if it's a duplicate but it's pretty nice.
https://www.boy18tube.com/video/1102516/hot-massage.php
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Smurof got a reaction from Redwine56 in Is he an exhibitionist?
That should ensure we'll remember what year the photo was taken.
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Smurof got a reaction from orville in ? Get your Flu Shot ! ?
Flu shots are not free everywhere. My employer encourages staff to get it, and will reimburse the cost, including paying to get it during company time.
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Smurof reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in The "people you ignore" feature
I'm sorry guys, I am ignoring everyone in this thread and can't quite get up to speed on what's going on here.
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Smurof got a reaction from marylander1940 in The "people you ignore" feature
Ignored did not need quotes, and you spelled grammatical correctly - this time.
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Smurof got a reaction from marylander1940 in The "people you ignore" feature
As I sit here in my castle looking into my hand-held mirror next to my gigantic mirror (joking, yes really joking, I don't have a hand-held anything), I'm wondering how many people use this available feature. I don't.
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Smurof got a reaction from marylander1940 in Roll call: real profile pics
All that, and you STILL didn't even answer this post's question. The irony! P.S. I'll take being called a douch over a douche any day.
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Smurof got a reaction from marylander1940 in Roll call: real profile pics
My butt in my avatar, but my previous pic was MUCH better, not that my butt has gotten worse - it hasn't.
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Smurof got a reaction from + robear in Client best practices
A biggie that gets overlooked - DON"T BE EARLY!! I've had one who I really enjoyed prevent me from a repeat visit for being early, which set a terrible tone for the session. Also, by being early with a different provider I was able to see his prior hire - not something either one of us wanted to experience. It's happened to me the other way as well with someone else being early that it spoiled the end of my session.
For my defense, I live in a rural area where it takes me hours to get to my hires, and I don't want to be late. I know now to drive around the block a time or two or find an errand to run to avoid this from happening.
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Smurof got a reaction from asianmusclebttm in Client best practices
A biggie that gets overlooked - DON"T BE EARLY!! I've had one who I really enjoyed prevent me from a repeat visit for being early, which set a terrible tone for the session. Also, by being early with a different provider I was able to see his prior hire - not something either one of us wanted to experience. It's happened to me the other way as well with someone else being early that it spoiled the end of my session.
For my defense, I live in a rural area where it takes me hours to get to my hires, and I don't want to be late. I know now to drive around the block a time or two or find an errand to run to avoid this from happening.
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Smurof got a reaction from TruthBTold in Helping with client's self image: yes way or no way?
I'll admit this thread was getting a bit too lengthy, so I apologize if my advice was already given, but to be blunt, you fucked up.
Among your posts in replies was that "he didn't want to fix it", meaning his bad teeth. I have vitiligo, and deal with the rare occasions when people approach me, point at my skin blotches and say" "You can do something about that, you know.". I'm not trying to be a hand model, and it's neither contagious nor deadly, so I'm good. He was fine with his teeth the way they are, not the way you believe they would look better. I might have a different view on this if you made an offer to pay for the renovation of his mouth completely on your own dime.
If you could do it all over again, you would have never brought it up. Trust me, I think about my past actions all of the time and wish I could have a do-over with a great many things I've said that were inappropriate and permanently friendship damning. Live and learn. Or not.
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Smurof reacted to wsc in College or Pro Footballers?
I think that long-term, a relationship with a football player would lead to disappointment. I've heard that most tight ends eventually become wide receivers.
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Smurof got a reaction from Alisterxxx in Donation on Arrival or After Service?
First time, always before. All subsequent visits, either one is fine. Never do advance pre-paid visit plans. Clients and providers seem to frequently disagree on the number that is presently in session. It is frustrating to think a provider believes you are ripping them off when you aren't because they count visits incorrectly, not you.
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Smurof got a reaction from NikoLeto in When an escort asks YOU how much
It's all in your approach. If all you wanted to do was buy him a meal, either as others said pay his crazy high rate with to go food in a room, or more wisely instead, explain you want to treat him to breakfast, lunch or dinner at HIS eatery of choosing as well as the time, and you'd treat - 1 meal on the house from a fan seems like a pretty good deal.
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Smurof reacted to + WestGuy in spelling one word wrong in an ad can be disastrous
He probably did it in response to complaints that it was only partially remolded! ?
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Smurof got a reaction from Yeahman in Bad breath and fart?
He probably ate food that gave his mouth a terrible stench, and didn't brush or rinse, figuring I didn't care or that I wouldn't mind. I did. Alot.