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I would not have met him either. I think you handled it well. The few times I've decided to meet someone after the mood was shot (for whatever reason) it has never ended well. I don't buy his, "I was on the plane and tired" excuse. I feel like it showed an angry side of him that is honestly a little worrisome. I also don't think he deserved the pay after that statement... unless he was traveling a long-distance just for you?
 
The provider willingly participated in the sexy banter as well, so I don't see where you crossed the line. If he thought you were overdoing it, he could've communicated as such.
 
If you were going to change anything, I'd say you should give yourself permission to avoid what you don't like. If a booking were made and you said something to spook the provider, he would cancel too. You should not feel bad about that at all.

I would not have met him either. I think you handled it well. The few times I've decided to meet someone after the mood was shot (for whatever reason) it has never ended well. I don't buy his, "I was on the plane and tired" excuse. I feel like it showed an angry side of him that is honestly a little worrisome. I also don't think he deserved the pay after that statement... unless he was traveling a long-distance just for you?
 
The provider willingly participated in the sexy banter as well, so I don't see where you crossed the line. If he thought you were overdoing it, he could've communicated as such.
 
If you were going to change anything, I'd say you should give yourself permission to avoid what you don't like. If a booking were made and you said something to spook the provider, he would cancel too. You should not feel bad about that at all.

12 years after being in a school fist-fight, I became brief friends with my bully. He introduced me to a bass player when I needed someone to appear on local cable access tv for a pre-scheduled appearance, which I'm forever grateful. I bumped into this same bully turned brief friend a few years after that, and asked whatever became of the long-haired spaz dude who was on tv with me. He told me he had a sex change and showed me a photo of her. I haven't seen either one since. He (and she) aren't on social media, and although many clips of that public access music show are on YouTube, my gig isn't.
 
On a side note, one of the first college courses I dropped out of was one taught by this bullies' mother. I was too uncomfortable with her knowing who I was - the last name was the same as his, but I didn't pay any attention to that when I enrolled in it.

12 years after being in a school fist-fight, I became brief friends with my bully. He introduced me to a bass player when I needed someone to appear on local cable access tv for a pre-scheduled appearance, which I'm forever grateful. I bumped into this same bully turned brief friend a few years after that, and asked whatever became of the long-haired spaz dude who was on tv with me. He told me he had a sex change and showed me a photo of her. I haven't seen either one since. He (and she) aren't on social media, and although many clips of that public access music show are on YouTube, my gig isn't.
 
On a side note, one of the first college courses I dropped out of was one taught by this bullies' mother. I was too uncomfortable with her knowing who I was - the last name was the same as his, but I didn't pay any attention to that when I enrolled in it.

I imagine you could simply say that your experience with XXXX was not positive, and then anyone who might ask for more details could message you privately?

For when dental records aren't enough ID...

For when dental records aren't enough ID...

For when dental records aren't enough ID...

That he's British, hairy, a twink, or all 3? ?
 
"Rock on with your socks on, said nobody with shoes". - Smurof

For when dental records aren't enough ID...

For when dental records aren't enough ID...

Is the guy on the right Joey from "Friends"? ?

Therapeutic - You're covered by a sheet or sheets, except for areas worked on, prices are low, masseur is probably certified.
 
Sensual - You're probably not covered, touching the masseur is probably permitted with your hands, possibly your mouth. Returning the favor is highly unlikely, although a happy ending is almost certainly probable for you. The masseur is probably not certified. The price is almost always higher than a therapeutic massage.
 
Erotic - Almost always code for no real massage at all. You're paying an escort rate, but comfortable in your own mind referring to having sex as booking an erotic massage. The session might start out with a massage, but at a minimum mutual oral play is involved.
 
Happy Holidays to all providers and relax seekers out there.
 
Smurof

Therapeutic - You're covered by a sheet or sheets, except for areas worked on, prices are low, masseur is probably certified.
 
Sensual - You're probably not covered, touching the masseur is probably permitted with your hands, possibly your mouth. Returning the favor is highly unlikely, although a happy ending is almost certainly probable for you. The masseur is probably not certified. The price is almost always higher than a therapeutic massage.
 
Erotic - Almost always code for no real massage at all. You're paying an escort rate, but comfortable in your own mind referring to having sex as booking an erotic massage. The session might start out with a massage, but at a minimum mutual oral play is involved.
 
Happy Holidays to all providers and relax seekers out there.
 
Smurof

Try it without the https. I was not able to get the link to work by clicking on it, sorry.

Therapeutic - You're covered by a sheet or sheets, except for areas worked on, prices are low, masseur is probably certified.
 
Sensual - You're probably not covered, touching the masseur is probably permitted with your hands, possibly your mouth. Returning the favor is highly unlikely, although a happy ending is almost certainly probable for you. The masseur is probably not certified. The price is almost always higher than a therapeutic massage.
 
Erotic - Almost always code for no real massage at all. You're paying an escort rate, but comfortable in your own mind referring to having sex as booking an erotic massage. The session might start out with a massage, but at a minimum mutual oral play is involved.
 
Happy Holidays to all providers and relax seekers out there.
 
Smurof

Perhaps the moderators can shift this topic to the massage side, but I re-ran across this, my most appreciated post of all time tonight.

Perhaps the moderators can shift this topic to the massage side, but I re-ran across this, my most appreciated post of all time tonight.

Frequently there will be a city where there are two men who are a toss-up on who to see. It's not uncommon for guys of similar builds to be familiar with one another, as it is a very competitive business.
 
I'm wondering what kind of extra gratuity should be given to guys who ahead of time are made aware that you want to watch the two of them interact with one another? Giving the suggested donation rate seems insulting because you are essentially arranging their time to be not directly with yourself, what would be fair?
 
For me, a fantasy that would involve way more than I could financially make a reality would be for Skye Woods and Aden Taylor to be with one another, since they both are porn stars from yesteryear who still today have incredible muscular physiques, and presently advertise. C'mon, lottery!

There are those that put right in their ad that a discount is given to bodybuilders and / or attractive physiques. My personal favorite I saw was for active duty military to receive a follow-up massage at no charge to thank them for their service.

It means they are trying to treat you as if you're the one being hired. Don't bother. A true professional would never ask that kind of a question.

It means they are trying to treat you as if you're the one being hired. Don't bother. A true professional would never ask that kind of a question.

If there ends up being a 3.0 version of this thread, I already know where this is headed. ?

I don't run, either Armyhands. For those who continue to constantly post "WTF is he referring to now?", Armyhands was in an earlier post explaining his military background, and that he doesn't run. Now, I'm not criticizing your service you provide, just the silly errors. Since you show how unhinged this makes you (just like when I asked you if you were circumcised or not many years ago), I'll take the advice of a former forum member who did not have a good experience with you and stay away. Naturally, that guy wouldn't post a review on your website. You want to look as good as you can.
 
Kudos for having a separate website and for offering occasional gifts to promote yourself, Armyhands, and sorry for making you angry. If I change my mind and give you a try, I'd even tip an unbelievable 33 and a third percent of your asking rate on your current special. I'll let you do the math.