FunInTheSun

Great job taking care of all this!! Thank you

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

That'd be a hell of away to go though. Just saying.

Not much once you get to 50+!  Wouldn’t be able to tell the difference. 

FWIW and with all respect and kindness, the thread is titled "Hung Masseur NYC".  I'm not sure why you're here if you're not interested in a hung masseur.

Is his name supposed to read “Ben You” or “Be N You”? 

this guy is the real deal and very good at what he does. 

Maybe his extras are selling you vitamins & nutrients.  I could go for some of his own protein!

And despite all this, I still want to f*** him hard. 
Damn you, little head!

Same guy…
NewYorkTantric on RentMasseur
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Same guy…
NewYorkTantric on RentMasseur
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Same guy…
NewYorkTantric on RentMasseur
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March 26th  will mark the 3rd Anniversary of daddy/ @Guy Fawkes passing. I was just reading through the numerous tributes posted in this thread and reflecting on the contributions each one of you have made to keep his memory alive.
When @HooBoy passed @Guy Fawkes took control and worked tirelessly to keep the site going. Unable to purchase it he created a new site and transferred all our posts and reviews to the new one. We were all so appreciative for this as it kept our community together. When daddy suddenly passed I thought this was the end  but, fortunately, contacts were made and daddy’s labor of love continues through all our eyes. 
Cheers to daddy! I truly enjoyed my years working along side with him and I’m certain he’d be so pleased knowing the site he created is still up and running! 🥂 🍾 
Thanks to all the supportive members who stuck around to watch as the show must go on! 
RIP my old friend. 🙏

Adding Aleks. 
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12512/

If you need an emetic.

Just a reminder boys on Homosexuality 101:
Don’t ever drink out of anything you didn’t open yourself and never leave your drink unattended.
If it feels wrong, it is wrong. When your gut says leave, leave.
Stay safe. 

one more thing to consider - lots of victims of these type crimes do not report to police.  they’re embarrassed & afraid.  
I’ll bet this was not the first time this guy did this to unsuspecting clients and/or app hookups.  The crime is too brazen & methodical for the first time.  He was on RM in Miami with the old profile for at least 6-8 months before he changed it in July 23.
One more reason to be extremely careful who is hired and who enters the home.  My first scan of provider profiles when considering someone new is to take out the red flag profiles for personal safety reasons alone. This guy didn’t have any red flags & had good reviews on RM, nothing negative.  I think the the reason I didn’t hire him is because I thought he looked like a tweaker in some of the pics (the pics in the old profile were different & more conservative looking……but still there was something off in the eyes) and maybe there was drug use …..lt was just a gut feeling and now I feel like I dodged a bullet. Reality check ✔️
 

Is his name supposed to read “Ben You” or “Be N You”? 

I see that this is the headline on his About Me section:
Professional Masseur With Private Place No Doorman
This might have appealed to clients in New York City, where a doorman might seem awkward and off-putting.
But in West Hollywood, there are typically no doormen. And if there is a doorman, he's likely to be gay and to join the session with you. 🤓

I reached out and he said 250 for nude HE/MT. He wrote that I can touch hands only but if I wanted more we probably could but “with some extra.”  Didn’t come off as game playing just maybe new or a little gun shy. Our text exchange was genuinely friendly - sweet, even. I’m heading out of town but will line up a session for when I return. 

I reached out and he said 250 for nude HE/MT. He wrote that I can touch hands only but if I wanted more we probably could but “with some extra.”  Didn’t come off as game playing just maybe new or a little gun shy. Our text exchange was genuinely friendly - sweet, even. I’m heading out of town but will line up a session for when I return. 

I reached out and he said 250 for nude HE/MT. He wrote that I can touch hands only but if I wanted more we probably could but “with some extra.”  Didn’t come off as game playing just maybe new or a little gun shy. Our text exchange was genuinely friendly - sweet, even. I’m heading out of town but will line up a session for when I return. 

Right or wrong, to me in this context PNP means meth meth and only meth. Other "party drugs" (of which I admittedly have no first-hand experience) don't provide the quick, intense, sex-enhancing high of methamphetamine. Meth addiction is a major scourge among gay men, and its use is largely tied to sex.  Recovering addicts often say they cannot experience sex sober like it was when they were using, and have to learn all over again how to enjoy sex without the high.  It's hardly surprising to see it featured one way or another among providers and on the hookup apps.
That is NOT to assume that any provider advertising PNP is an addict or otherwise deeply involved with the drug. Doubtless there are clients who wish to use during sessions and want a provider who is cool with that, but it does indicate that the conversation is open to whether and how meth might factor into any encounter.
For me, it's absolutely a big old red flag.

Is this his way of giving fair warning?

No, he's not!