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    irfy reacted to + Gar1eth in Why do you pay for sex?   
    I didn't want to be gay.  When I finally faced up to the fact at about age 26 or 27 that I was never going to become attracted to women (I'm stubborn and a slow learner), I made a promise to myself that I was never going to act on being gay. I had never done anything with guys up to that point -and the most I had ever done on the few dates with women I had had -in high school (about 2) and after high school (about 5)- was a quick peck on the lips with not even trying to get to any bases. 
     
    So there I was at 26 to 27-a total virgin who had never even French kissed anyone (and to be frank-that sounded gross to me-someone sticking their tongue in my mouth or me sticking my tongue in theirs-gross!!). 
     
    But over the years it ate at me more and more that I wasn't having sex-even beggars in third world countries were having sex. Even my nephew who was college age-there was a good chance he was having sex. And the older I got-I still didn't want to be gay-but even if I had wanted to act on it-how embarrassing to be a virgin in my 30's. I actually thought there was a good chance I'd die a virgin-not because of being a virgin-just that I'd never be able to bring myself to have sex before I died. 
     
    But I used to torture myself by looking at the escort sites like Rentboy, the classified section of Frontiers magazine, the old Escorts 4 You site, Hooboy's Review Site-and others that I've forgotten it was so long ago. I looked at these sites pretty much on a daily basis.  
     
    But I continued to be a virgin. Years passed. In my very late or early 40's I lived in Cincinnati for a few years. A reasonably short drive away in Indianapolis was a gay strip club called the Unicorn Club. It was a small place. But after the boys would do their dance, they would come off the stage. The majority of the patrons would be lined up along the back wall and sides. The dancers would start at one end of the line still pretty much undressed except for their shorts. You could touch their shoulders and chests -or even slip your hands 'lower'. Of course for the privilege, you were stuffing dollars down their pants. And the more you gave the longer they stayed with you before moving to the next guy. Of course if you weren't interested in the guy, you didn't have to pay him or only give him a few dollars, so he'd move on to the guy next to you. 
     
    Seeing these handsome boys (and most of them were boys-in their early  to mid 20's) I finally decided I had to hire and have sex. By this time I was 41. I was seeing a psychiatrist at the time. I'm pretty sure I had told him I was a virgin. I either told him directly or hinted at it-my recollection is that he gave me tacit approval. But it was 23 years ago. And I can't remember for sure. 
     
    So I had my first real sexual experience at the age of 41 with an escort. He was very kind. He even had to teach me how to kiss. 
     
    At the time I had a good career and could afford to hire. But I was a fat bald 41 year old guy -and I still didn't want to be gay. And even if I had wanted to be gay, I figured no one would be particularly interested in me, so I continued to hire.  I think the first time I really met up with someone not an escort I was about 47. But I continued to hire until I lost a career and couldn't afford it anymore. 
  2. Agree
    irfy reacted to savantsav in Leafar_TOPXL in London   
    Yea it sucks but kinda broke my own rule of not hiring Brazilians because of this. They’re usually the group that is the most unprofessional overall and was reminded why last night
  3. Thanks
    irfy reacted to RadioRob in And we're back...   
    Greetings folks...
    As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
    While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
    And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
    There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
    But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
    Rob
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    irfy reacted to Mark874 in Anyone met Aaaalali Arab guy?   
    I have. He looks like his pics but unfortunately has a bad attitude. I didn’t particularly enjoy my time with him, so definitely won’t repeat or recommend. 
  5. Haha
    irfy got a reaction from + Jamie21 in payment in Europe   
    I'd be suspicious of £100 notes too, as they don't exist! I think £50 notes are fine now with the latest polymer version depicting Alan Turing.
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    irfy got a reaction from zeyfur in payment in Europe   
    I'd be suspicious of £100 notes too, as they don't exist! I think £50 notes are fine now with the latest polymer version depicting Alan Turing.
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    irfy got a reaction from Dolman in payment in Europe   
    I'd be suspicious of £100 notes too, as they don't exist! I think £50 notes are fine now with the latest polymer version depicting Alan Turing.
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    irfy got a reaction from mike carey in payment in Europe   
    I'd be suspicious of £100 notes too, as they don't exist! I think £50 notes are fine now with the latest polymer version depicting Alan Turing.
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    irfy reacted to TMonti96 in Budapest escorts or masseurs   
    Hi irfy,
    I have never seen his profile active anywhere since I started hiring in Hungary. I think he retired long ago. I was told once at a party that he was difficult to work with and stole money from clients (like he asked clients to pay 2 hours upfront and left after one hour)
    My personal two porn favorites were Glenn Santoro & Lucio Maverick. I think they never escorted.
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    irfy reacted to Frog in What happened to XXLMate, this gorgeous swedish escort in London?   
    How was it?  Well, he absolutely didn't disappoint. 
    Yes, he's been away for a while, but just the same as he was before he went.  I reckon he's come back in even better shape and to be honest looks even hotter.  Tall, blond, blue-eyed, really good looking, with an insanely sculpted body. Oh, and he has a beautiful 8", uncut dick.
    He's such a nice guy - interesting to talk to, kind, tender, generous and SO, SO good at what he does. Can't recommend him more highly and, for me, he's worth the £££ - and some. 
    Hope that helps.  If you want more graphic details, DM me and happy to answer any questions you have.
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    irfy got a reaction from Luv2play in What happened to XXLMate, this gorgeous swedish escort in London?   
    wasn't he really expensive compared to other providers in London? I contacted him but never met him & he did send me his facepic, yes he was very handsome. I am guessing either he has retired or some very wealthy client has offered him an exclusive deal.
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    irfy reacted to Frog in What happened to XXLMate, this gorgeous swedish escort in London?   
    Meeting up with XXLMate tomorrow. Let me know if you want the 411.
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    irfy got a reaction from domdom81 in London Recommendations Refresh   
    i think i met him a few years ago, the body etc looks familiar & age/stats match, before he had this ad, he was much cheaper then as he was only just starting. I got the impression he was g4p, he was an educated,tall,lean muscular,handsome (brownish hair, blue eyes) young man from Romania (i think), it was a good experience so if it is him I recommend.
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    irfy got a reaction from + wanderwest in London Recommendations Refresh   
    i think i met him a few years ago, the body etc looks familiar & age/stats match, before he had this ad, he was much cheaper then as he was only just starting. I got the impression he was g4p, he was an educated,tall,lean muscular,handsome (brownish hair, blue eyes) young man from Romania (i think), it was a good experience so if it is him I recommend.
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    irfy reacted to asian sensatin in Arab escorts   
    okay, will feedback if meet him first :)
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    irfy got a reaction from asian sensatin in Arab escorts   
    his profile is also here, apparently he is vers and a good bottom
    https://www.romeo.com/hunq/Bsbbey
     
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    irfy reacted to Joey442 in 411 on AquamanUK   
    Well, if anyone is interested I went ahead 😊.
    Hot hunk, as advertised. Very passionate, great kisser. Sexy guy. Great (and exhausting) time was had!
  18. Haha
    irfy reacted to Marc in Calif in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    This is my favorite part of his profile:
    City: Reading
    Means of transport: Public transport, Car
    Nearest Station: Hell  👺
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    irfy reacted to Danny-Darko in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    Seeking attention, not necessarily clients. Some people have nothing better to do but troll the internet.  🙄
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    irfy reacted to MikeH10 in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    this would make for a great premise of a campy horror B-movie
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    irfy reacted to Mhs in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    From now on, I’m going to be very disappointed with any escort who doesn’t offer a to-go container of unholy shower water. 
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    irfy reacted to pubic_assistance in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    I guess at 80 years old an escort needs a gimmick to get by.
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    irfy got a reaction from + Pensant in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    This is one of the most unusual,bizarre, weirdest ads i've ever seen.
    male escort Minister Lucifer , 80yr from Reading, UK - SouthEast (United Kingdom)
    WWW.SLEEPYBOY.COM male escort Minister Lucifer , 80yr from Reading, UK - SouthEast (United Kingdom) likes licking, sucking, licking and sucking, one of our rent boys  
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    irfy got a reaction from Harryinny in Your thoughts on this escort profile?   
    This is one of the most unusual,bizarre, weirdest ads i've ever seen.
    male escort Minister Lucifer , 80yr from Reading, UK - SouthEast (United Kingdom)
    WWW.SLEEPYBOY.COM male escort Minister Lucifer , 80yr from Reading, UK - SouthEast (United Kingdom) likes licking, sucking, licking and sucking, one of our rent boys  
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    irfy got a reaction from demonoid in London recommendations   
    Hi, anyone got experiences with this English guy in London
    male escort Charlie , 23yr from London, UK - London (United Kingdom)
    WWW.SLEEPYBOY.COM male escort Charlie , 23yr from London, UK - London (United Kingdom) likes always safe sex, trios, gangbang, rimming and dirty talk, one of our rent boys  
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