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140 for a massage or 140 for full service? cause full service as i know it is pretty much escort service with things going into things

He was only advertising for massage back then

Jordan called me from a British Columbia number , said he would do full service for $300. Also remarked that he had lost his wallet, whatever that means.

he was only charging $140 when i saw him ?

And he maybe a whack doodle.

that's always possible.. probable.. ????

https://rentmen.eu/versluiceyop

His profile writing sounds like he's more or less looking to find an arrangement - as opposed to being more like an escort..

and his ass is BEAUTIFUL!!! ??

i don't recommend.. he's straight and really does not get into any kind of play. he might Jack you off for a tip but he definitely doesn't get into it

Hans at Acujin is AMAZING for strong massage.. knots, tight neck & shoulders, etc. You can book appt online too. The set up is nice and clean. Hans is gay, but it would be a professional therapeutic massage for the most part. And you would be draped.

here's the link http://achth.com/

Interesting to hear @MikeBiDude tnat you’ve had these difficulties with Seeking.

 

When I was actively looking, I always stressed that I wanted an “arrangement” with an attractive young man as a “potential husband”. I emphasised that we needed to be “compatible physically” and emotionally. And lastly I mentioned that if the initial meeting went well, the young man would need to “commit” to a relationship.

 

I never suggested anywhere how long (or temporary) the arrangement might be. The young men seemed to understand readily what I was contemplating. And I never fell foul of the ‘escorting police’.

My chats with the boys on Seeking varied a lot... Whenever they were specifically asking about what would be involved in an agreement, I always mentioned that I wanted to hang out and take them out to dinner and that I wanted a sexual element. And if they asked, I would agree that there would be a financial arrangement and we could meet a few times a month. I've never been barred from the site for that, and we were pretty clear there was sex and there was cash.

Other times we just agreed to meet up for dinner and go from there.

And most of the time, we switched to text fairly soon... as long as we both felt comfortable with each other. Which wasn't very often. Most of the time I would just let the conversation lapse because it didn't seem like there would be anything worth pursuing.

But I've had at least 3 or 4 good and fairly long lasting experiences on Seeking. In fact, I just bumped into one of the guys I'd gone out with... dinners, movies, fun in bed at home. He'd lost my number, but I'd assumed he just lost interest. He tried to message me on the site, but I had already let my premium membership lapse so I couldn't read it, and I figured that he just didn't recognize my profile so I didn't bother to renew my Premium Membership to read his message. But I texted him after I saw him in public this past Sunday, and he said he'd lost my number and started texting again, and I'm taking him out to dinner tomorrow night

So overall, while that site is a mixed bag... you can be somewhat open about what you're looking for without getting busted by the Secret Police. But best to switch to text as soon as you both are comfortable with it. And there are definitely boys worth meeting on the site who can hold a conversation and be fun to wine and dine and fun to roll around with in bed

So...is this subtle enough?

 

“Hi! I'm looking for somebody to have some fun with, who is willing to give me a little extra cash in exchange for my time. I don't want something that feels transactional, I'd love to meet someone I can really talk to. I'm very adventurous and outgoing, and love almost all forms of entertainment, fine dining, or exciting experiences of any kind. Don't be shy!”

WAAAYYY too subtle ?

was that an allusion to your groin? haha

I'm not gray yet :-)

Not a real massage therapist, our session turned to a date real quick and I was not looking for a date. Nice guy, attractive and all... but not if you are looking for a massage. I don't understand why things go that way, when all you want is an amazing massage from a gay guy who doesn't make it awkward to get a massage... and then they make it awkward... so frustrating! Maybe there was a connection or maybe that is the normal service menu... I can not say, but sadly I ended it quickly. YMMV but "a.s.k." more questions up front to make sure you get what you are looking for. Hope this helps - xx

So... Does "date" mean sex? Or did he take you out to dinner ?

consensual sex is an arrangement too ;-)

Stop reporting... live and let live!

 

I reported a couple of guys on Grindr but I stopped doing it.... amateur guys on Grindr willing to do it for $100 save escorts from being bothered by bottom feeders who end up becoming No-shows.

 

I'm shocked about how much S.A. wants to deny the obvious... Sugar daddy = long term client

I'm pretty sure SA knows what's going on.. but they're just trying to stay on the safe side of the gray fuzzy area :-)

I think my suspension and perhaps others mentioned here are due to “sugar babies” being vengeful.

 

I recently reported one sugarbaby for trying to have an online only arrangement, by sending me videos and pictures. That also violates the TOS, and I reported him. Yesterday I reported a confirmed (by his own admission) underage guy...who I notice was promptly back online 24 hours later with a different profile, which I ignored. Possibility for revenge reporting.

 

I’ve been on the site almost two years and very active....I find it hard to believe that suddenly my language/patter has changed, I’m more inclined to think I was reported. I’ve applied for reinstatement as this was my first “offense”, we shall see!

good luck with reinstatement ?

wow.. that's a little scary about the revenge aspect. i haven't encountered that on the site yet.. but I'm not super active on it. and i let my premium membership lapse recently - so can't read messages ?

Wow.. that's harsh What terminology do you think triggered it?

super hottt.. not much info in his profile though. hope he's real!

Newell ain’t like his pics ... he’s put on a good 40-50 lbs .... would not classify as lean

i agree.. might be able to say he's got muscles..

if you like lean muscle, i would go with Cortland or Nate in San Diego. Nate is really lean and ripped and does a good massage. Cortland is lean but with more muscle and does a really good massage - he seems to have a lot more training. I think they're both handsome. Nate looks better than the pics he has posted on masseurfinder. Cortland is cute/handsome and has a really good energy.

Wow.. he's hott

He doesn't have much info in his ad... nothing about him or the massage

I thought about giving him a call but wasn't sure what Hilot is...or if I'd like it.

 

LA continues to be a tough place to find just the right therapist.

I'm usually jealous of LA cuz you guys have SOOOOO MANY masseurs!

5'5''. LOL

what's wrong with 5'5"

We have people on this very forum who “report” on Grindr or other venues where they make a (judgemental) call regarding guys looking for gen

Yeah there are definitely zealots out there who work really hard to eliminate all the "gen" profiles and posts. I never understood why they were so religious about it..

They made Craigslist a lot less fun ??

Same thing happened to me.

You mean you got banned from Seeking? ... or Grindr?

it's been my experience so far that if you look at a guy's profile no matter where he is and where you are he will certainly check you out and often will message you. Which I think is smart. Lots of them seem to be interested in selling photos to you or will simple start right off the bat telling you about their many problems hoping you will be moved to send them money. Or perhaps you are traveling to them or would be willing to buy them a plane ticket. So, I'm not sure most guys have cared too much about geographic issues.

Interesting... none of the sugar babies I've been messaging have tried to sell me pictures and such. But they've all been local to San Diego. Then again, if their profile seems suspect, I haven't bothered replying. I have plans to meet up with one tomorrow for happy hour & dinner... I wish it were tomorrow already!

I just got back on that site a couple months ago... I've been chatting with 3 different guys recently. We switched to text messages pretty early on...

Also, two of the sugar babies here in San Diego mentioned that there's really NO SUGAR DADDIES in San Diego... Well, maybe there are a couple, but that's all. In fact, the 3rd sugar baby just told me that he only gave me his phone number because I'm located in San Diego!

Was wondering if anyone else out there has gotten similar feedback from the sugar babies? (Apologies, if this topic has already been covered somewhere in this thread... it's a LONG and POPULAR thread!)