TantricMD

Ok guys,
 
Enough....
 
How many times must you get snookered, leaving with blue balls to realize that your intentions with this guy will never be achieved.
 
As the old quote goes:
 
“Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me...”
 
Many of you are wasting your time and
money on hope and anticipation.
 
Move on.

I've met him. Looks like his pics, handsome, but oddly distant in his communication. Like in his own other world. Definitely had a stripper mentality. Believes money should be thrown his way just for keeping himself in shape and being attractive, but has no other skill. Massage, not so much. That probably works for $10's and 20's at a strip club but for his rate, and reluctance to even being nude, I'd advise you to save your money. D-

+1 He is beautiful, friendly, strong, and gives a wonderful sensual massage. Worth it! A

+1 He is beautiful, friendly, strong, and gives a wonderful sensual massage. Worth it! A

+1 He is beautiful, friendly, strong, and gives a wonderful sensual massage. Worth it! A

Has anyone met him?

Cut the guy some slack. He is not advertising or offering sex-on-demand.

Canostone was great on delivery on a previous session about a year ago, however he was short on time given, after premature arrival. 30min short to be exact. I brought up the fact that though I was satisfied, I would have been moreso if I got the full time. He could return to massage, or just let me relax in bliss for the remaining time. Because, when asked about services vs. time, pros always tell us its the time spent thats being compensated, not the services provided. He asked me to mention it in my next booking and he would be more aware. When rebooking for another appt., I politely bring up the time to confirm a 60min session. After breifly describing my satisfaction with services, yet feeling shorted on time, he goes silent for the rest of the day, then responds the following day and cancels, saying that he doesnt think it will work. He mentions not wanting any trouble (not sure what that means), and apologizes. I also politely wish him a safe trip and continue my search elsewhere.
Guess he is more focused on quick arrival of services than fulfilling the appt. time, but I want others to be aware of my experience to help inform their decision. I dont think it was unreasonable to ask for the full booking time.
Thankfully there are several other pros to choose from. I'm sure he feels the same about clients he can provide for that wont be concerned on being shorted on time.
Looks great, is fun, but better as Rentman than RentMass, and not worth the express lane treatment to maximaze appts for himself. C-

Guys warning! Do not bother with this one. Yes he’s hot and muscular but it is a rub and tug. And he barely speaks English and plays confused when he finished after 30 min and it was a 60 min massage. Don’t waste your money

Canostone was great on delivery on a previous session about a year ago, however he was short on time given, after premature arrival. 30min short to be exact. I brought up the fact that though I was satisfied, I would have been moreso if I got the full time. He could return to massage, or just let me relax in bliss for the remaining time. Because, when asked about services vs. time, pros always tell us its the time spent thats being compensated, not the services provided. He asked me to mention it in my next booking and he would be more aware. When rebooking for another appt., I politely bring up the time to confirm a 60min session. After breifly describing my satisfaction with services, yet feeling shorted on time, he goes silent for the rest of the day, then responds the following day and cancels, saying that he doesnt think it will work. He mentions not wanting any trouble (not sure what that means), and apologizes. I also politely wish him a safe trip and continue my search elsewhere.
Guess he is more focused on quick arrival of services than fulfilling the appt. time, but I want others to be aware of my experience to help inform their decision. I dont think it was unreasonable to ask for the full booking time.
Thankfully there are several other pros to choose from. I'm sure he feels the same about clients he can provide for that wont be concerned on being shorted on time.
Looks great, is fun, but better as Rentman than RentMass, and not worth the express lane treatment to maximaze appts for himself. C-

Canostone was great on delivery on a previous session about a year ago, however he was short on time given, after premature arrival. 30min short to be exact. I brought up the fact that though I was satisfied, I would have been moreso if I got the full time. He could return to massage, or just let me relax in bliss for the remaining time. Because, when asked about services vs. time, pros always tell us its the time spent thats being compensated, not the services provided. He asked me to mention it in my next booking and he would be more aware. When rebooking for another appt., I politely bring up the time to confirm a 60min session. After breifly describing my satisfaction with services, yet feeling shorted on time, he goes silent for the rest of the day, then responds the following day and cancels, saying that he doesnt think it will work. He mentions not wanting any trouble (not sure what that means), and apologizes. I also politely wish him a safe trip and continue my search elsewhere.
Guess he is more focused on quick arrival of services than fulfilling the appt. time, but I want others to be aware of my experience to help inform their decision. I dont think it was unreasonable to ask for the full booking time.
Thankfully there are several other pros to choose from. I'm sure he feels the same about clients he can provide for that wont be concerned on being shorted on time.
Looks great, is fun, but better as Rentman than RentMass, and not worth the express lane treatment to maximaze appts for himself. C-

Canostone was great on delivery on a previous session about a year ago, however he was short on time given, after premature arrival. 30min short to be exact. I brought up the fact that though I was satisfied, I would have been moreso if I got the full time. He could return to massage, or just let me relax in bliss for the remaining time. Because, when asked about services vs. time, pros always tell us its the time spent thats being compensated, not the services provided. He asked me to mention it in my next booking and he would be more aware. When rebooking for another appt., I politely bring up the time to confirm a 60min session. After breifly describing my satisfaction with services, yet feeling shorted on time, he goes silent for the rest of the day, then responds the following day and cancels, saying that he doesnt think it will work. He mentions not wanting any trouble (not sure what that means), and apologizes. I also politely wish him a safe trip and continue my search elsewhere.
Guess he is more focused on quick arrival of services than fulfilling the appt. time, but I want others to be aware of my experience to help inform their decision. I dont think it was unreasonable to ask for the full booking time.
Thankfully there are several other pros to choose from. I'm sure he feels the same about clients he can provide for that wont be concerned on being shorted on time.
Looks great, is fun, but better as Rentman than RentMass, and not worth the express lane treatment to maximaze appts for himself. C-

He's consistent......+1. Same experience with AndresNYC.

Nutcase. He’s paranoid and argumentative. Would not recommend.

Hey guys. Just went on a couple of trips to DC recently and want to add some massage comments for the masseurs I met while there:
 
Ian: https://rentmasseur.com/MasseurIan
This cute Bulgarian guy with the sexy pecs performed an outstanding therapeutic massage session. He came over to my place equipped with a full massage table as well as a heating pad and cushion for it. Totally professional! He was quite skilled and I might say one of the best massages I've had in the site. Very knowledgeable about the human body and it showed in his techniques and how he isolated and manipulated my joints and body during the session. I can confirm that he is therapeutic but you can be undraped if you wanted. For someone who does therapeutic, he had no qualms whatsoever with where his hands, arms and elbows were going in the service of offering an outstanding massage. I do agree however his pics on RM were a bit misleading. He has such a sexy body and one should definitely text your expectations beforehand. I think he gets so many questions about it that his responses to the texts are a bit nonchalant. No MT or HE but at least he was shirtless for me. I guess he got tired of me begging before we started.
 
Victor: https://www.delucamassage.com/victor-uriarte-lmt/
He works at Deluca but now has his own MF ad. A mature masseur but offered an excellent swedish style massage with some pressure. I was draped since it was in a spa. It was a fantastic session with lots of stretching. I booked a late session so I was really ready to go to sleep right afterwards. Walking down from the top massage room at the Deluca townhouse to the street level was difficult because I my body was just like putty. I would definitely come back to see him but maybe outside Deluca. I believe it would be cheaper.
 
Adam: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6906/
It's the travelling Polish guy who has had favorable reviews here in the forum. He looks like his photos. Compared to Ian, he did not come with a table. I should have confirmed but forgot and since Ian came with one, I just missed asking Adam if he was coming with one. For someone who does massage on the bed, it was quite good because he was a relatively big guy and can definitely put his weight on top of you. He used a fragrance free body oil which was fine but kinda messy when it got to the bed (even with towels underneath). Overall it was good but I probably wouldn't repeat unless it's on a table. Nude from the get go. MT and HE.
 
Chase/Chace: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36289/
Good-looking guy with a well-toned body and <10% body fat (a twunk ). He had a nice massage table at his place. He's located around Logan Circle area and in a newish building. I would say his massage was excellent but was a bit boring at times with repetitive strokes in one part of my body. I'm not a big fan of that. And no he was not using one hand while the other hand was texting (like Aziz at Deluca) However when he found a knot or something that needed his focused attention, his techniques got better and he's quite good at it. Easy to chat via text and his availability was quite open when I booked this weekend. I would certainly go back to him. MT and HE.

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

Does anyone have info on this guy I'm MD?
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39929/

He has improved his services. B+

In surprised, no one from the forum has meet this guy yet?

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

I haven't received a massage from Alex in a while, but I've had a good amount of massages by him in the past. The massages were amazing and I always left very happy. He definitely exceeds all other expectations as a straight man serving the LGBTQ community. What more could you ask for?
 
A lot of the masseurs some of us are used to are really just escorts who don't want to fully commit to it lol. Some are bi/gay men who like to have fun. Some are straight/bi/gay men who charge a premium for the fun. But then there are a ton of masseurs who are legitimate and offer amazing experiences whether they be therapeutic or erotic. The one thing we have to keep in mind is what they offer is totally up to them. What one offers shouldn't be an expectation for another masseur with regards to going beyond the original scope of a sensual massage. Never hurts to just discuss with the therapist beforehand if you're looking for something in particular.
 
Alex has always been very calm and friendly. If you do find him cold, it could potentially just be a cultural thing. I never found him cold and we had a lot of great convos. I've come to accept over the years that if English isn't a masseurs first language, I don't really expect them to be super chatty. At the end of the day, we are paying them to give us a massage + whatever else they offer/you have discussed with them. Anything more than that shouldn't be expected unless you've developed some sort of rapport with the person and you have discussed it with them.

Maybe it’s an effect of years as a (closeted isn’t exactly the word, maybe ‘not yet in charge of my sexuality’) teenager in the locker room with hot boys: I seem to be able to compartmentalize in a way that previous posters here cannot. So a strictly therapeutic massage by a handsome man is not a situation in which I would ever get hard. Frankly I have a hard time understanding why it’s so difficult for you guys to handle what seems to me to be a normal situation: a non-sexual interaction with a hot guy. Am I alone in this?

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!