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Glad this thread exists. I've tried IG, usually with gym jocks or around the way guys that are friends of friends. No success yet on there, all my messages are read but usually no responses or laughs. It's also probably because my page is pretty much blank and very direct as to what I'm into. I find many local RM escorts here are also on Grindr. I find with a lot of them (in my little experience) that if you reach out on Grindr (not mentioning you've seen them on RM) that they'll quote you a much lower price. Tuesday night I actually "tapped" one of them on Grindr and a few mins later he messaged me. Within the hour he was at my place and I had a great time. Quote was pretty much 40% lower than his rates on RM. I've also tried it on Grindr when I spent my summer on the U.S. east coast. While I did get messages a lot of the guys were just lazy (especially in NYC). Even if I offered to pay for Uber etc. Annoying. I still need to try the IG route more. I'm guessing a lot of these gym jocks get hit up all the time from women or men so they don't need to go that route for pleasure or $. Another thing I want to do is create "business cards" but I have to spend the time to do research on that (what language can be used, discretion, graphics etc).

Nope. After being around my niece daily now and her crying at least 2x a day I’ll pass.

I have an Instagram and a Tinder account for this specifically. My Tinder account got banned, I'm guessing they're very strict about the description in your profile. Anything implying sex or rewarding appears to be a red flag and gets your account banned. Instagram I've come across just regular, straight hot guys but haven't had any success yet. I'm guessing fear of exposure is a big reason why.

I definitely get the outsiders a lot of A4A. But I think thats because when I travel, even after I do leave and return home that history is still in their database somehow...I THINK. *shrugs*

Also to add: The XXX content you're paying extra for via PM/Inbox. Thats on top of the regular monthly subscription.

Will be back in NYC in mid-late April and again for most of the summer. Hopefully he will be around.

So clearly he’s monitoring this thread.

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I actually met DL right before he officially got into escorting via RM. Super hot, incredibly passionate and a high extreme sexual appetite. I KNEW right away he would get into escorting if he wasn't already doing it on the side. Not shocked one bit from all those glowing reviews, he's definitely worth it. I haven't connected with him since he got on RM. He does multiple bookings a day, which throws me off and "finishing" is mandatory for me. In prior conversations he never mentioned a deposit. My guess is he's had a lot of flakes/no shows since joining the scene last spring, so a deposit is his way of weeding those people out.

^ Thanks so much for the tips, appreciate it. Trying to go for 10-14 days.

If you have money to pay for an escort, you have money to invest in an enema bottle which is cheap anyways (even if you're only going to use it once).

If I remember correctly, sending him a message through the Rentmen site isn’t the best way to get in contact with him. Best is text/phone.

I'd suggest https://rentmen.eu/Nigelxxx. As long as you're fine with tattoos, he fills the other things you listed.

March 3rd-6th.

He's coming to town soon I see. Along with Lance Navarro.

Definitely a pass.

The one many seem to use is Squirt.org. After a few people telling me about it, I tried it last summer and I was mind blown (no pun). The main thing was the public play was happening in spots I pass by regularly, daily, so I missed out on fun for however long. As for the action itself, visually it was fun to see, as for participation it was tough for me personally.

I've barely had any success with Doublelist...nowhere near the daily success I had with Craigslist. Shut down pretty much ruined my play life.

Pretty much. I've tried locally on Grindr before but have been unsuccessful, in fact my profile currently mentions that right now. When I was visiting New York I got a bunch of inquiries but everyone's lazy there and no one wanted to travel, even if I offered to pay their transport. Also tried it at a stripper bar/cruising bar in NY but the dancer quoted me $300. He was good looking but not $300 worth IMO. I may have to PM you for some tips lol.

From what I've observed in my cities, this is so true. Many (especially new guys) are putting 300 just because. They see others and copy cat. Meanwhile, guys who have been around for a little you see regularly adjusting their rate from 300 down to 250-220. I doubt many that I see locally are getting 300 as often as the guys I see with a tad lower rate and much more feedback. I'm lucky I have two regulars, both incredible hot guys that identify as 'straight' in relationships with women that meet me for half of that rate.

I love public play and wish I found guys more into it. I do have a limit...on a busy train falls under that. Now an empty train at night (if you do your research before hand) is still on my bucket list.

Lol

I'm trying to go to London for the 1st time this year. Looking for around April. A lot of the info is very overwhelming but I appreciate the tips in here. I've never travelled outside of North America so currency exchange/terms, transportation will the main things I'll need to know. Thinking to stay in the Soho area or somewhere really close to that area.

Yeah curious to hear any recent meetups

Came in here to post the same suggestion. He's def on my list when I get to London.