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Is Flash still a thing? best nights to go for a 1st timer.

Shocked to see this thread come back up. :lol Good to know. I'm back in NY this week so I'll think it over, but I usually stay in a certain price range. I'm not wealthy like many on here. :lol Hahaha. Because I passed I was able to see 2 guys instead of 1. VIP was the "winner" of my original post. Had an amazing time with him. Also saw Eric Hassan who is also in a class of his own too. I wanted to see Miko Rey but he shut down his RM and OnlyFans, and moved out of NYC when I was ready to book him. But he recently came back to OnlyFans so I'll have to reach out. NYC Viking I was close to booking but our schedules never worked. He has a main job during the day which is usually when I'm free. He's definitely gained some weight, not in a bad way at all but because he doesn't update his RM photos it maybe a little deceiving. I follow his IG too, just looks like he's been living life, especially in the summer. He's definitely the hot next door, otter dad bod type. I would regularly see him on my Grindr too when I would hang out with friends in Manhattan.

Nothing to be embarrassed about. I'm actually the same way. I'm really not into it and it's rare someone can get me off that way. With that being said. I love to give oral. Different strokes for different folks.

Thanks so much @LongIslandGuy you've answered everything for me. I didn't know the pictures had file names to them. I had to log onto my desktop to see it. When on mobile using iPhone's standard mail app the file name doesn't pop up. Guess I'll use the gmail app for that. Now with that out the way... Anyone with experience with Patrick NYC, Aston Philly or Alex Philly at the club or private bookings? especially Patrick.

Will be back in NYC this coming week and wanted to try one of the Adonis at Evolve events. I've never been to strip club female or male. I'll be going solo. From reading posts on here I know some of the standard things like tip the bartender, have your cash prepared in advance before entering, and also have a limit. Have some other questions: - I'm in my mid 20s is that fine or it's more older guys that go? - Diverse crowd or it's predominantly one race? - Is it easy to walk around the venue and scope out the scene? - Do I approach a dancer I'm interested in or do they all move around going up to guys? - Do a lot of these guys offer provider services OUTSIDE of the club? I'm more so going to experience the scene but would book 1 or 2 guys for private sessions - And is it fine to ask dancers if they provide services outside of the club or will some take offence to that? And my main question: I'm subscribed to both the NY and LA Adonis newsletters. I kind of like to do research in advance so I know who is who. In the newsletter pics are attached but sadly no names. Before actually going is there a way to find out who is who in the photos? for instance I got a newsletter today for tonight's event and a few guys I have my eyes on. Thanks!

I've wondered the same about fitness guys on IG. Always these gym, fitness guys with followings on IG I've wondered about.

Ishkabibbles > Genos/Pats

I guess I'll see for myself when I'm back in town. The info passed to me was originally from 1 reputable member on here and another said the same after my previous post in this thread. There was also a time a few weeks back that his profile summary pretty much subliminally indicated he's picky and only into a certain "type" of client...understandable I guess when it comes to escorting in 2019. I'll keep in mind what you said @Hung_Cody, like I've expressed a few times in the past I trust your taste and intel.

Stud. Perfect balance of tall and somewhat beefy.

Anyone been with him recently? he's visiting my city soon. Seems to be the perfect provider based on all the overwhelming glowing reviews on RM. https://rentmen.eu/TOMAS_DECASTRO

If its what I think it is....I have the same fantasy.

The whole point of hiring providers (for me) is connecting with guys that would never give me the time of day. With that being said lol... - Dick - Body - Attitude

The whole point of hiring providers (for me) is connecting with guys that would never give me the time of day. With that being said lol... - Dick - Body - Attitude

Doubt it's real. Forgot his on-screen name but he's a former porn actor. Used to do the "Whitezilla" series before current porn star Matt Hughes aka Danny D took over. For the most part he was a "straight" actor but has one video where he's serviced by a guy. Just google Whitezilla and you'll see everything.

I should've been more detailed in my previous post. In regards to NYC, it's pretty much been my second home most of my life. With that being said, I know Manhattan is HUGE. Which is why during my recent stay, I got a hotel for the 1st time (central based in Manhattan) instead of hosting at my house. In most cases the MTA should be fastest option moving through Manhattan but its reliability is sub par (evenings and weekends even worst). The reputable providers I booked (located in Manhattan) either walked or took the train. Obviously there are certain circumstances in Manhattan where IMO Uber is definitely the 1st option: late night bookings, weekend bookings. To each their own, I guess it was just off putting when contacting potential providers in my general area and they added a round trip Uber on top. Different cities, different cultures, different factors.

Actually tried both a month ago. Had more fun at Eastside on a super busy Friday evening. Westside was cool but staff there are most restrictive as to where you can play. Like someone said previously, sadly a bunch have shut down at popular gyms due to sexual activity. Definitely check out the local listings on squirt.org where guys usually give updates on certain gyms (mainly NYSC locations).

Good stuff. We haven't been able to get our schedules to match but hopefully I'll have my day lol.

Not sure how I only saw this thread now. But to answer your question, in my short experience as a client? YES. In fact when I reach out to a provider about a potential booking, I always mention my race early on. And again I'll confirm/ask if my race isn't an issue after the session is booked. I'm a very observant and quick learner, and since diving into this world of "companionship" I've noticed a lot of the new providers and ones around my age are treating the business like Grindr. The whole reason I got into the hiring scene was that after the Craigslist shut down the other options out there (Grindr, Cruising) weren't working for me. In fact since stepping over into the M4M, LGBTQ+ community a few years back its torn me down mentally, ripped whatever self confidence I did have before stepping over and now has me looking to seek some form of therapy in the near future. I'm in my 20s, healthy, workout, good teeth, with a high sexual appetite. But so far in my few years the inclusiveness that's often promoted in the community is a big farce IMO. But anyways that's for another thread I've been thinking to make for some months now but I've held back for the potential pitchforks that maybe thrown my way. But YES I always ask providers if there's any issues with my race. In fact I've passed on 3 providers (2 during my recent USA east coast trip) because they were subliminally obvious they weren't into guys of my race. Last year I reached out to a popular couple (who are also members on here) about a potential booking. When I was speaking with one of the guys and mentioned my race he said he's only into caucasian guys. Where I live, Asians are pretty much equal majority with white people. In the M4M scene that's pretty much all they're after in my observation. It's W+W or W+A. Yeah I find that hilarious. I feel they're the last (and should be the last) to scream "discrimination", considering they do the same and are very blatant about it in public spaces (again just off my personal experience). I guess it depends on location, but again in Canada, in the usual hookup spaces, they're loved by the white guys they praise. Pretty much. That's the feeling I get, especially when trying to book providers around my age. I've been shying away from Grindr but in recent times, I've removed my race from my profile. It's hilarious how many more messages I'll get when my race/photos are removed. The world needs more guys like you. <3

Yeah I had to do this recently when I booked a hotel for 2 sessions. With so much day-to-day stuff on my mind I forgot to call and check with the hotel about their protocol for guests before booking my room. So, for both sessions I just met the providers outside, gave them my extra key card, and they followed right behind me. The only damper was my planned "extra" activities not involving providers were thrown away. Since then I've been more diligent and calling in advance to find out the protocol for guests. I try to only book hotels where guests can just enter and come up to my room without any extra steps.

Good to know. I’ll be there in spring 2020 for a wedding.

Tinder.

Ah gotcha. And yeah it's very convenient...a short flight over.

Those in NYC take advantage. IIRC he’s moving to Canada (Toronto) in the coming months.

Muscle VIP was the last provider I booked during my recent NYC visit. Simply AMAZING! Originally I was looking to book both guys, but a previous thread on the couple earlier this year mentioned that DutchPR turns into a jealous weirdo so I just stuck with VIP.

Conner was one of the guys on my final list of NYC guys to book while I was there for 3 months. A PM conversation I had with a fellow member on here pretty much revealed that he's not into minorities so I decided to not go through with booking him. Just from observation, one thing I will say is he updates his pictures regularly.