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Hey @wearytraveller, I was planning to see Tyson Ryder and ScruffMuscle after coming across them in the Calgary rec thread.

I have one and I shut it down last week. My last visit was from my married regular. While I did have the setup and surrounding areas (table, couch, door entrance) disinfected, plus sanitizer out and ready I just don't feel right continuing it. Guys still reach out to visit which is kind of but not really shocking.

I actually had to cancel an upcoming session this week with 2 providers. Was planning to visit Western Canada for a few days, mainly to see these 2 guys. Very frustrating to cancel my trip and session.

Preach. Which is why I'm good on any activity until things change for the better. I take my health very seriously.

Sadly in my short time in this world of sexual adventures, I've noticed horny men are the thirstiest species on this planet. Guys will still hire or go hookup through the usual outlets. Just checking in on Grindr guys are still looking to meet up. Reading Squirt guys are still heading to popular cruising spots.

Despite the warnings, I always use "flushable wipes." So with that being said I'm sitting on a lot of untouched TP stocked up from last year or so.

As far as North America Ft. Lauderdale is definitely the place to be for “regular fun.” I’ve never been personally, only to Miami (which isn’t far from FTL), but that was a potential destination for a 2020 trip before this current health crisis. Funny enough I JUST came across Asher Devlin last night while on Pornhub. Was instantly hooked and I love his content. One of the videos on his PH page is with D.O. Jay Donahue is another guy I’m into that’s also based in FTL.

Randomly came across Lance's RM ad (noticed he changed his account name on there). Looks like he'll be on the U.S. and Canadian east coast next month. Hope Covid-19 is in control by then, if so I may have to take the plunge lol.

That explains over 100 reviews in under a year lol.

Good to hear about DuaneTrade. He's definitely on my list of hires when I'm back. He's also on Twitter too.

And if you request a provider's private pics that's how you're notified. If you're serious about hiring a person and they have private pics that's one backdoor way (no pun) of still contacting them via mail.

The new pics...love the Ben Simmons touch haha.

Happy Birthday to the great @tristanbaldwin! Hopefully we finally get out rescheduled meeting

Would love to know places too. Cities, sex resorts, camp grounds, cruisy bars etc. Also places I won't be fetishized (if that even exists) lol. Grindr is a joke now, not much success on Doublelist, and all the other options are a waste of time.

Never been but when I hit London later this year (depending how this Corona virus pans out), I'm planning to regularly go there lol. The daily comments I read on Squirt about that place always has me turned on.

I love the regular around the way guys but I also love me some straight bro frat types too. Phew! Yeah the last email blast I got was in late February. In it the agent mentioned having 3 guys currently in Cali. 2 in SoCal (San Diego, Compton) and 1 in NorCal (Bay Area).

I'm not going to get into it with names etc. Just a member on here had sent me a private message that lead to an email and eventually a text conversation. I'm sure I'm not the only member on here who was contacted about the same service. It's pretty much a person that runs his own provider service. The providers are all built, muscular, straight guys. Some with families looking for extra income, fell on hard times, etc....various scenarios. They're spread out across the U.S. but most are in the north east, mid west, and some parts of the south (Florida). The whole selling point to me when I was approached about this is the providers are straight guys. You get added to an email mailing list with upcoming travel schedules, pics (no frontal nudes) etc. My main concern (as with anyone with common sense) is this isn't operated through a site like Rentmen. It's all done through one guy via texts and emails. The head of this operation insists that you book multi hours instead of 1 hour sessions so that you and the provider can "feel each other out." You're pretty much going into a situation not knowing what the provider offers. Nothing is concrete or guaranteed as to what will happen during that session. No past references to go off of. Muscle worship is probably the only thing guaranteed just based off the photos, but past that it's unknown. Now if you're wealthy with disposable income I guess it maybe worth the risk to try, but IMO there's too many red flags. When I was in the DMV (D.C., Maryland, Virginia) area in the summer I was close to booking one of the guys through this service but again the concerns I had before popped up so I held off.

My age wasn't mentioned in either inquiry. But yeah, alright.

Yeah when I contacted the websmaster via IM they told me about the 3 month rule which I never about. Sadly I didn't archive the messages. Had I known about the 3 months I would've done so. Have a feeling the switch is what triggered this because I still have scattered messages from 2017, 2018 and early 2019 in my inbox.

One of my regulars advertised on Backpage for a little then stopped. He continued seeing me as a client then eventually moved for work. Recently he contacted me that he's moving back in the spring so I'm looking forward to booking him regularly again. Staying on topic, a person I've come in contact with on here runs his own independent business with "straight" muscular providers across the U.S. who don't advertise online. I've been tempted to try since many of the providers are visually, amazing studs. But there's certain personal rules I have when it come to hiring providers that I would have to break if I was to hire from this independent business. It's very tempting though.

Anyone have issues with emails disappearing? I just noticed a bulk of my emails/messages from April - Nov 2019 have disappeared. This is really frustration considering most had important information as far as rates etc goes for providers.

Mentioning "hoping" and "who I might meet" pretty much shows you're not 100% serious and ready to meet ASAP or in the near future. So to him that looks like you're just a person wanting to see his private pics to see with no intentions of hiring. He probably blocked you right after. When it comes to providers, you'll definitely come across some that have zero tolerance for people with no intentions of meeting soon. I was looking to hire HungMusclJock back in the summer and I had posted a thread on here mentioning him on my final short list of guys. I also did a private gallery request and sent him a message pretty much looking to book him. The message was read but the gallery wasn't unlocked. At the time I had a picture of myself on my RM profile, and personally I think he wasn't into "my kind". Just to make sure I wasn't jumping the gun, I requested his private pics and sent a message to him on an alternate RM account I have. Not shocked, he unlocked and responding to my message with his rate etc promptly. Ah well, not a positive experience with him.

Same. Super frustrating. I like to use the email option to 1st contact the provider and make sure we're both on the same page. Then I'll text to make an appointment and speak more in detail. Also I like leaving reviews so contact via email was a requirement.

Good points @azdr0710 and @poolboy48220. Noted on both accounts.

Enh, in this case I wouldn't let an alleged lackluster experience (from 4 years ago) via a newbie account change things all of a sudden. Especially since more than a few reputable members have seen and co-signed LN in this thread.