V-Vhitner

Regarding your 3some later this month, reminds me of the joke that 20 goes into 80 a helluva lot more than 80 into 20.
Imagine multiplying that by 2. Whew!

V-Vhitner, can you tell us generally if it's a thumbs up or thumbs down?

Interesting in that if I read his profile correctly he does not indicate he is on prep.  Seems like a guy that concerned would be on prep and require proof of same from clients.  All that said, I think he looks awesome and wish him success. 

And up for anything

Check out his twitter linked on RM…

Check out his twitter linked on RM…

I am using this site pretty regularly. I have found that the guys are of a higher caliber, but not quite as sexually adept as on Rentmen. Also they are on the expensive side and tend to be looking for a repeat/regular guy which is fine as long as you are prepared to manage the siutation. A lot more foreplay, wining and dining than a RM in and out thank you...On the plus side it's usually not as transactional and feels more natural. Of course you have to weed through the guys that think you are going to transfer a couple of grand to their account each month for a platonic mentor relationship involving world trqvel and shopping sprees. And those are the ones from places like Cullowee Alabama....

There’s no such thing as a “going rate”. And I must say I’m perplexed @xyz48B by your response to @goosh69’s answer to your earlier question. It’s a process to find a boyfriend and it’s not as simple as hiring a guy for a date. 
 
I was on Seeking some years ago and it worked out well for me. I had a lot of messages and before it became serious, I took the contact with guys offsite using WhatsApp and email.
 
I had numerous dates with a series of attractive young men. Some had inflated ideas of what their company was ‘worth’ but I’d argue that those who are serious (about meeting an older man, and wanting more than a date) were realistic in their demands. I invited a lot of guys to dinner and a few stayed for breakfast. I also took the most promising guys on trips for a long weekend at first, then overseas. 
 
Over time, I must have spent thousands. But I have money to spare, and I had a great time with some handsome young men with nice bodies so I don’t regret my spending. 
 
But if you must have a specific figure @xyz48B I’d say that Seeking and a ‘sugar-baby’ are not for you unless you have a spare $25-50k a year to spend on this process.

Now that it’s so easy to sneak away for a week or so working remotely, what Latin American locales would be your on your list of top picks for chasing boys and having fun?
PV, Rio, Medillin, BsAs spring to mind, but would welcome this group’s sage advice!

He said “$450 for a massage and $650 to fuck.”
He should also think about a personality augmentation. IMHO

You can read the online version of Get Out! Magazine at link below
 
https://getoutmag.com/get-out-gay-magazine-issue-491/

Is there an online publication like HX that tells you what bars and clubs are doing each night?

https://rentmen.eu/XDAMIEN
 
Curious if anyone has met this new little twink in NYC?

I definitely understand.
Money and lifestyle typically play a role in any relationship. And when’s there’s more “distance” between the two people involved, one has to be increasingly mindful about the balance of the dynamic.
 
Eyes wide open.

I definitely understand.
Money and lifestyle typically play a role in any relationship. And when’s there’s more “distance” between the two people involved, one has to be increasingly mindful about the balance of the dynamic.
 
Eyes wide open.

I definitely understand.
Money and lifestyle typically play a role in any relationship. And when’s there’s more “distance” between the two people involved, one has to be increasingly mindful about the balance of the dynamic.
 
Eyes wide open.

Why is it that suggesting an Asian boyfriend brings up calls to watch your wallet? Yes, we have set up a system in Asia, mainly Thailand, where Asian men who would otherwise not get near you will have sex with you for money. That's the deal and you subscribe to it when and if you enter the market.
But to suggest that Asian men in general are out for your money is no truer than any other group of people. Eastern European? Hispanic? White? They all have gold diggers, but they are not the dominant representatives.

I want to express a caution, here!!
 
Some Asian men are looking for a way to improve their life, and a man with money will be a way out of poverty for them. I totally understand their motivation.
 
If its a true love match, I say go for it. But be very cautious.
 
I would suggest that you look in cities where professional men gather, like Singapore, Tokyo or Taipei. Or even in cities in your country where AsIan gay men gather in larger numbers. I would avoid places like Bangkok, Bali, HCMC!!
 
Maybe join some Asian gay groups, and go from there.
 
But do guard your credit cards, bank accounts etc, until you have a very clear understanding of your partners values. A pre nup is a good idea.

Pre covid I would occasionally spot attractive guys on sites and invite them to lunch - kinda get to know each other.
 
We agree on a rate for lunch only. Afterwards either I make an offer to meet up and outline my expectations or they approach me.
 
This has been a good time saver for me
 
There have been guys that during lunch I decide we got a good match to go out again - I usually feel good that I dodged a bullet.

Is Babylon worth checking out? Would love to visit a beautiful hotel that caters to our interests...

Is Babylon worth checking out? Would love to visit a beautiful hotel that caters to our interests...

Worth it? He does has an absolutely amazing body...

Thanks

Never think that because you're older you're not sexy anymore.

Condom for oral is a deal breaker. Life is too short