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Kristian was one of the first guys I ever hired and has been one of my regulars ever since.  I was devastated when he moved from LA to Northern California, since I’ve always spent more time in SoCal vs. NoCal, and for years I would never go to LA without seeing him at least once (usually more).  Since he moved north I’ve started going up to the Palo Alto area a couple of times a year just to see him.  Cannot say enough good things about him.  Great personality, and just an all-around quality guy.  He’s definitely in his 40s now (which at 57 is a plus in my book), and I honestly find him more attractive now than when we first met well over 10 years ago.  And his body is just as sculpted as it was back then.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone in their 40s with a body like his.  It is FLAWLESS - and not overdone either - it’s just perfect.  I almost always book 3-4 hours and I don’t know that he has ever cum less than 3 times.  He’s been with his partner forever and doesn’t do hookups except with clients (another plus in my book), and I honestly think he escorts primarily because he gets off on having sex.  He is as into the sex as any guy I’ve ever been with, paid or otherwise (and I’ve been with my share lol).  I’ve actually told him “I don’t know if you’re as into the sex as you seem to be, but if you’re not, then your acting abilities are right up there with Meryl Streep.”  Spending an evening with Kristian is like spending an evening with a longtime friend who just happens to be packing nine rock hard inches and who constantly wants to have sex.  If anyone wants additional info DM me.  

Kristian was one of the first guys I ever hired and has been one of my regulars ever since.  I was devastated when he moved from LA to Northern California, since I’ve always spent more time in SoCal vs. NoCal, and for years I would never go to LA without seeing him at least once (usually more).  Since he moved north I’ve started going up to the Palo Alto area a couple of times a year just to see him.  Cannot say enough good things about him.  Great personality, and just an all-around quality guy.  He’s definitely in his 40s now (which at 57 is a plus in my book), and I honestly find him more attractive now than when we first met well over 10 years ago.  And his body is just as sculpted as it was back then.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone in their 40s with a body like his.  It is FLAWLESS - and not overdone either - it’s just perfect.  I almost always book 3-4 hours and I don’t know that he has ever cum less than 3 times.  He’s been with his partner forever and doesn’t do hookups except with clients (another plus in my book), and I honestly think he escorts primarily because he gets off on having sex.  He is as into the sex as any guy I’ve ever been with, paid or otherwise (and I’ve been with my share lol).  I’ve actually told him “I don’t know if you’re as into the sex as you seem to be, but if you’re not, then your acting abilities are right up there with Meryl Streep.”  Spending an evening with Kristian is like spending an evening with a longtime friend who just happens to be packing nine rock hard inches and who constantly wants to have sex.  If anyone wants additional info DM me.  

Kristian was one of the first guys I ever hired and has been one of my regulars ever since.  I was devastated when he moved from LA to Northern California, since I’ve always spent more time in SoCal vs. NoCal, and for years I would never go to LA without seeing him at least once (usually more).  Since he moved north I’ve started going up to the Palo Alto area a couple of times a year just to see him.  Cannot say enough good things about him.  Great personality, and just an all-around quality guy.  He’s definitely in his 40s now (which at 57 is a plus in my book), and I honestly find him more attractive now than when we first met well over 10 years ago.  And his body is just as sculpted as it was back then.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone in their 40s with a body like his.  It is FLAWLESS - and not overdone either - it’s just perfect.  I almost always book 3-4 hours and I don’t know that he has ever cum less than 3 times.  He’s been with his partner forever and doesn’t do hookups except with clients (another plus in my book), and I honestly think he escorts primarily because he gets off on having sex.  He is as into the sex as any guy I’ve ever been with, paid or otherwise (and I’ve been with my share lol).  I’ve actually told him “I don’t know if you’re as into the sex as you seem to be, but if you’re not, then your acting abilities are right up there with Meryl Streep.”  Spending an evening with Kristian is like spending an evening with a longtime friend who just happens to be packing nine rock hard inches and who constantly wants to have sex.  If anyone wants additional info DM me.  

Kristian was one of the first guys I ever hired and has been one of my regulars ever since.  I was devastated when he moved from LA to Northern California, since I’ve always spent more time in SoCal vs. NoCal, and for years I would never go to LA without seeing him at least once (usually more).  Since he moved north I’ve started going up to the Palo Alto area a couple of times a year just to see him.  Cannot say enough good things about him.  Great personality, and just an all-around quality guy.  He’s definitely in his 40s now (which at 57 is a plus in my book), and I honestly find him more attractive now than when we first met well over 10 years ago.  And his body is just as sculpted as it was back then.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone in their 40s with a body like his.  It is FLAWLESS - and not overdone either - it’s just perfect.  I almost always book 3-4 hours and I don’t know that he has ever cum less than 3 times.  He’s been with his partner forever and doesn’t do hookups except with clients (another plus in my book), and I honestly think he escorts primarily because he gets off on having sex.  He is as into the sex as any guy I’ve ever been with, paid or otherwise (and I’ve been with my share lol).  I’ve actually told him “I don’t know if you’re as into the sex as you seem to be, but if you’re not, then your acting abilities are right up there with Meryl Streep.”  Spending an evening with Kristian is like spending an evening with a longtime friend who just happens to be packing nine rock hard inches and who constantly wants to have sex.  If anyone wants additional info DM me.  

Kristian was one of the first guys I ever hired and has been one of my regulars ever since.  I was devastated when he moved from LA to Northern California, since I’ve always spent more time in SoCal vs. NoCal, and for years I would never go to LA without seeing him at least once (usually more).  Since he moved north I’ve started going up to the Palo Alto area a couple of times a year just to see him.  Cannot say enough good things about him.  Great personality, and just an all-around quality guy.  He’s definitely in his 40s now (which at 57 is a plus in my book), and I honestly find him more attractive now than when we first met well over 10 years ago.  And his body is just as sculpted as it was back then.  I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anyone in their 40s with a body like his.  It is FLAWLESS - and not overdone either - it’s just perfect.  I almost always book 3-4 hours and I don’t know that he has ever cum less than 3 times.  He’s been with his partner forever and doesn’t do hookups except with clients (another plus in my book), and I honestly think he escorts primarily because he gets off on having sex.  He is as into the sex as any guy I’ve ever been with, paid or otherwise (and I’ve been with my share lol).  I’ve actually told him “I don’t know if you’re as into the sex as you seem to be, but if you’re not, then your acting abilities are right up there with Meryl Streep.”  Spending an evening with Kristian is like spending an evening with a longtime friend who just happens to be packing nine rock hard inches and who constantly wants to have sex.  If anyone wants additional info DM me.  

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

I get that a pouty look can sometimes be hot, especially for someone promoting themselves as an alpha-male power top, but unless there's at least one pic of the guy looking happy and/or pleasant, then chances are slim I would ever contact them.
 
The whole "duck lip" thing I don't get at all - unless, of course, someone is promoting themselves as being very "Jersey Shore" (God forbid).
 
My personal favorite is when every pic in a guy's Rentmen ad involves him giving the finger to the camera and/or looking like he's about to assault the camera (or the person holding it). As much as I like aggressive tops, I ain't inviting THAT GUY to my hotel room.

I've been obsessed with this topic for as long as I can remember, and while I've seen some truly impressive ones over the years, Trigga in Phoenix absolutely takes the cake. It's basically the size of a 16 oz. can of Miller Lite, and - no exaggeration - weighs about two pounds. And unlike many dicks that are 9+ and mega-thick, Trigga's gets - and stays - as hard as a rock. It really is a sight to (among other things) behold.
 
https://rentmen.com/Trigga

I've hired Tony several times in the past couple of years and have had nothing but good experiences with him. He's always been nice and pleasant to deal with. And we've always had a great time together.

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

"I'm just really surprised that you're Asian - you sound so white on the phone."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

I've always felt that most escorts fall into one of two broad categories (with some overlap, but ultimately most guys fall more so into one category than the other) - (1) guys who escort because of the money, and (2) guys who escort because of the sex.
 
The former are much more likely to ask for pics. Being escorts, they're still probably very open sexually and sex-positive, but ultimately it's more of a business for them and that's fine. I have a day job too - though if money wasn't an issue, I'd just as soon be doing something else. I still enjoy what I do and I'm good at it, but ultimately, it's the money that keeps me coming to the office every day.
 
The latter category of guys - and they tend to be few and far between - are much less likely to ask for a pic, because for them it's about the sex. I actually know a few who have said they prefer *not* knowing what the client looks like because they get off on the excitement of not knowing until they meet. Almost all of the superstar escorts fall into the later category - Tyger, David-SF, Andrew Justice, Kristian, Iron Maus, etc.
 
If you're used to dealing with the latter category of guys, it can be a bit surprising and off-putting to be asked for a pic, even though I totally understand why guys ask - and in fact, I typically *offer* to send one before meeting someone new, just because I feel a lot more comfortable going into a meeting knowing that the escort knows what to expect and is cool with proceeding.

I've always felt that most escorts fall into one of two broad categories (with some overlap, but ultimately most guys fall more so into one category than the other) - (1) guys who escort because of the money, and (2) guys who escort because of the sex.
 
The former are much more likely to ask for pics. Being escorts, they're still probably very open sexually and sex-positive, but ultimately it's more of a business for them and that's fine. I have a day job too - though if money wasn't an issue, I'd just as soon be doing something else. I still enjoy what I do and I'm good at it, but ultimately, it's the money that keeps me coming to the office every day.
 
The latter category of guys - and they tend to be few and far between - are much less likely to ask for a pic, because for them it's about the sex. I actually know a few who have said they prefer *not* knowing what the client looks like because they get off on the excitement of not knowing until they meet. Almost all of the superstar escorts fall into the later category - Tyger, David-SF, Andrew Justice, Kristian, Iron Maus, etc.
 
If you're used to dealing with the latter category of guys, it can be a bit surprising and off-putting to be asked for a pic, even though I totally understand why guys ask - and in fact, I typically *offer* to send one before meeting someone new, just because I feel a lot more comfortable going into a meeting knowing that the escort knows what to expect and is cool with proceeding.

I think you should apologize to your partner about not being open and honest with him about your extra-curricular affairs. But I don’t think you should apologize for having them. IMHO, celibacy is not a reasonable demand to make in a relationship; honesty is.
 
After you have apologized and given him some time and space, he will hopefully back down on the threats and instead become open to a more constructive dialogue. If he insists on divorce, I would not assume it will all be on his terms, at least not without speaking to a family law attorney in your state.

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."

Exchange with a Brazilian escort in Europe just last week:
 
"Why do you have two identical iPhones?"
"Because my wife would be pissed if she knew I was fucking girls."
"Um, you mean guys?"
"No, she's ok with me fucking guys, she just doesn't like when I fuck other girls, but I really like pussy."
"Oh..."