Shawn Monroe

THIS MAKES SO MUCH MORE SENSE NOW AS SOMEONE WHO LIVES IN ATLANTA. it feels like it randomly exploded in the last 1-2 years and so many guys I’ve never seen before. there are also some surprises-I thought dallas, Houston and Chicago would be higher. time for me to move again.

This is the answer 😍

Yes

So I believe what happened is that Google realized reverse image searching would pull up results that may show PII (publicly identifiable information) and it may have turned into a liability for them. There are workarounds but I believe this is why

Thank you. disruptive - especially if you’re returning a missed phone call. but a lot of people don’t have good phone etiquette. They don’t know how to have an efficient conversation, they’ll meander and continue doing the other thing they were doing before the phone call started, and you’re just holding a phone up to your ear and waiting. when I started, I’d try to take and return phone calls. But when I realized how uncourteous people could be, I all but stopped.

Maybe they are in an appointment?

Don’t check out. Just leave and they’ll automatically check you out. Or you can do it on an app if it’s a chain.

That would have been long before SESTA / FOSTA. although SESTA / FOSTA brought in the current wave in changes on masseurfinder - no shirtless pics, no hands in pockets, and so forth.

This is how we met back in the day! Haha

I guess it makes sense? No one could really articulate the difference between all the massage types anyway. Although the dates are no coincidence. Reminds me of when SESTA / FOSTA passed and everything changed the exact same day.

I can only speak for Shawn, but I don’t look down on clients. I’m going to assume my peers don’t either.

Let’s not forget the client side of this too. I’ve been booked for massage only appointments on Rentmen, and massage+more (or just more) on rentmasseur. some clients THEMSELVES may look down on paying for sex / an escort, but ironically see nothing wrong with going to a masseur and asking about extras. Even those types of interactions are talked about here. sum that all up to say that there is a vein diagram like @Simon Suracisaid. But it isn’t driven by providers, more so by clients. And providers trying to meet client demand.

Yeah, it’s not like you can blame this one on escorts. Maybe porn describing everyone as at least 7 inches. But not on escorts.

I have been asked to make change. It’s rare but it’s happened. So I just make sure to have something to break down a $20 at this point.

Most (keyword: most) of us don’t have ulterior motives and try to be as descriptive as possible in our ads. in most cases a longer session means just that - something longer than 1-2 hours. It usually doesn’t mean drugs. That’s usually voted somewhere else in the profile. you could also ask them what “longer session” means, since a lot of people have different definitions of different things.

Typically as they are giving the happy ending, they hop on top. At least was my experience. 🙂

Definitely makes the business tough. Also hard when RM took the rates off the site, so no one (providers or clients) know what anyone’s going rate is without invasive investigation. It’s tough out there.

I mean you could ask, but when I was on RM, having only nudes or dick pics gave implied permission for people to ask just for more pics or not set up appointments. Setting his ass as his main pic is like 10% weird, but he’s presenting himself as a full person and not just a dick

Exactly. He asked a question he already knew the answer to, knew his answer for, and knew outright the response he’d get.

Not necessarily - check with to confirm. I pulled my ads for about a year when I was diagnosing and going through being diagnosed with MS and it all got to be too much. I still have my regulars despite not advertising as much.

I’ve done this before. It’s a part of the business. Sometimes it can be fun and easy work. I wouldn’t turn it down but definitely understand if it isn’t your specialty.

Still doesn’t have things like hours of availability, and options to put in rates other than 60 mins.

Don’t be that person. Treat that question as if it was rhetorical.

I have some like this too

1) PARTICIPATE. 2) know your own body and have an active idea of what you want out of the experience. Or even baseline, what it takes to get YOU off - not just to get us off (if that’s your thing). That’s ultimately what we are for - to make you happy.