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Just remember, it wasn’t that long ago that they used the exact same reasoning and words to describe gay men.
“Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” - George Santayana
 

100% agree.

Domination play and play that demeans and belittles a partner is relatively common. My past experience has shown me that people in positions of high responsibility and religion tend to like that type of play… They already give orders and carry a world of responsibility… sometimes they want to make no decisions, not be the all perfect authority figure… they want someone else to be that~ The domination and demeaning/slave/power exchange play are the big top and various forms of it play out in other ways in the arena inside: age play, race play, gender play, Adult babies, furries, coach/athlete, doctor/embarrassed patient & other fantasy play~ Various degrees of “depth” can be explored… as with any interpersonal interaction, trust is an issue and there are those who abuse the gift of that trust. So, in the imperfect world we live in, casualties occur but, also there is a lot of mutually satisfying play going on… it may verge on taboo, kink, fetish, the seemingly bizarre but, that doesn’t mean it’s unhealthy for the individuals involved~ They may even benefit from it~   
 I Worked for a bondage studio and did some out of the ordinary play there… there was nothing I did to anyone there who wasn’t seeking that kind of play on their own~ They came to the studio to play our their sexplorations  and fantasies on film while also challenging their own limits as they wanted~ It was always mutually agreed regarding what we were going to be doing there~ I did not push them beyond their physical, emotional, psychological abilities but, also did challenge their boundaries in ways they were enable and prepared for~ 
 Lots of people are racially motivated… sometimes they realize that they are and sometimes it’s part of who they are but, they don’t even know they are doing it. Discrimination isn’t always a conscious thing~ It takes some self reflection and self honesty to know what’s inside of you: how and why~ 
 What seems important to me personally is “the intent”… more so than perfect “non discriminatory behavior”~    
 There is healthy fear that involves discrimination of any given thing and there is unhealthy fear… there is healthy compatibility and unhealthy compatibility~ Same with discrimination: healthy and unhealthy~ an older vulnerable person needs to discriminate between someone they can trust and someone uncaring of their vulnerability and perhaps who is looking to take advantage of that~
 A same sex partnership person may find it healthy in the 50’s to discriminate oneself from those who would have them arrested or locked in a psych ward and placed under heavy medication or given hormone therapy to “cure” their “mental disease”. Maybe that same person loves having a sexual partner now that calls them a fag, cum dump, cock whore, pussy boy etc., where the final result is safety and pleasure rather than physically or psychologically being Ryan white on a fence post~ 
 For me… part of this is all the fine line between accepting of everything and judging of other things, (discrimination): Intent and mutual mind sets can make the world of difference. 
 It’s easy to respond to things… take the time to understand them first before passing judgment~ Understand them within yourself as well others~ 
 Race play may not at all be about race discrimination… but, something more if you look beneath the surface~ Other times can be blatant injustice and hate… but, it’s probably not always one or the other… 

If money is involved there's some acting going on... specially if the provider is told to play a part and engage in some roleplay. 
is paying for sex a bad thing? Some guys simply are busy, have money to spend and get what they want whenever they want by someone they find attractive. 

For the few who have met him it seems like great experiences. If he was in my town... with those blond good looks, phenominal body and gigantic tooshie...  I think I would hit the call back option on the voice prompter! Lol

Yup I did…..and just….WOW….!!!

Well you can imagine….”homophobic”….”first class passanger”……..the perfect combination!!!…..🤣🤣🤣

don't waste your time man!!!.....pm for details....

woof!!!...I just saw his rentmen ad.....what a cutie!!!....and his dick.....for me is the perfect dick!!!, perfect shape......and perfect size........

I sympathize wholeheartedly!
I've found it makes it easier to remember and focus on those guys I have actually met in my life with whom I was smitten from across the room because they were visually a "type"...but within a few conversational back-and-forth exchanges I then heard a voice inside me saying either: "Uh, oh" or "Yuck" or even on occasion "Danger! Danger!"
That's a "type" too! The type where the packaging does not match the expected contents. That's a type that I simply don't want to engage with and a type that the members of this site act as a sixth sense to help identify.

SUPER nice guy. AMAZING BODY. Great conversationalist.
 

OK guys… y’all know the rules. Keep the politics in the correct location. If it continues, I’ll be cleaning up the thread and handing out warning points. 

The point has been made on preferences.  They’re noted and it’s time to move on. 

That's your opinion that they were trying to overthrow the government, it certainly isn't a fact or anything close to the truth. It's not any more true than the stories about how those of us who supported the BLM protests are Marxists who are trying to turn the country communist or socialist.   
Our media -- on both sides of the aisle -- are creating false narratives and misleading headlines all because the more Democrats and Republicans are divided the bigger their ratings are.   It's ridiculous.
But my goal wasn't to turn this into a blue vs. red political thread.  I just think nixing someone whether it's on here or in our everyday lives because they are in the other party is short sighted.   Adam is a great guy and certainly isn't plotting to overthrow our government.  🙄

Supporting overthrowing our government is a bit more than just a different political view.

He's a great guy.   I truly can't understand anyone refusing to meet someone (whether it's this or just in general friendships) because they have different political views.   It's really shocking to me that people have gotten to the point that they can't handle other people having different viewpoints on things.  It's the very definition of being narrow-minded and/or intolerant.  
Anyone who passes on Adam for that reason is only hurting themselves.  

I’m planning a trip to Dallas, and I was intrigued...but...a gay right-wing Republican? 
 
Pass. 
 
Thanks for the warning.

I was just browsing the threads on him and came across this one.  I hired him pre-COVID and am thinking about hiring him again.  Pics and ad are spot on accurate.  Nice guy, amazing body, good in bed.  I don't care about his politics, I'm not hiring for political discourse.  

Another change: When I hired him he was a bottom, and he produced evidence each time that he enjoyed it. Now he seems to prefer to top.

I remember him from when he first moved to NYC from Florida. He was a stripper at Club 20. He was so adorable and at this point he was "coming out" as he claimed he was straight/confused. He didn't seem to when I had lap dances with him as he always got hard. He seemed a little embarrassed about it. At the time he was one of the few there that didn't seem to do private meetings. Fast forward and he became a gay porn star working for Sean Cody and is now an escort. How times have changed. LOL.

Nice, almost perfect, body. Nice cock size too. The fact that he's Top only makes him perfect for me. Recent reviewers' accounts were created years prior to his, so legit. Damn, I can't keep adding more guys to my buddy-list forever! ?

Great guy, beautiful body, fun in bed. Always enjoy spending time with him. Can't say enough great things about him. So glad I'm not the type where we have to have the same thoughts on taxes and foreign policy to enjoy each other's company.

I read an article about travelling and how the majority in each race are attracted to their own ilk.
 
It was about the expectation that as a Caucasian male travelling in Asia that not all Asian men chased white men.
 
The stat was something like 10% of Asian men were attracted to non Asians.
 
As a white male, of size and body hair, I know that some men find me attractive and some do not.
 
In bath houses or bars I find some man attractive to me and equally in return. Sometimes it depends on the venue.
 
This is often confused by the money boys who give us a false sense of how attractive we are Percieved as. More likely is they find our money attractive.
 
When I am setting up a hiring meeting I always mention my basic description, similar to mid 50's large bear, some providers never respond, some say it won't work ( which is always preferable). Or go ahead and make the arrangements.
 
Racism is different to sexual racism.
 
Personally I find some Asians attractive, some Indians attractive, I am rarely attracted to African or Native American men, however that does not make me racist as I don't dislike those faces , I just don't find them sexually attractive.
 
I am not a sexist man, but as a gay man I don't find woman sexually attractive but that does not make me anti feminism

Have not really been following this thread. Just glanced over this just now. I am Asian and have never felt the need to disclose that in any situation. I have encountered the looks, being called ching ching Chinaman, had people make squinty eyes in front not me. Yup, all that. But who cares. Life goes on, move on and don't dwell on it. Perhaps the person is prejudice, naive, undereducated but either way, I don't dwell on it. Maybe it may bother me a bit but as long as I am not physically assaulted ( which I never have) then just move on.

Sorta like the way some guys here talk about escorts...  Like they're just made to fuck, but forget that there's an actual human being underneath.

The conversation began as a condemnation of the fetish outright for anyone who participates and saying the op has something wrong with them. Others said that the asian men who enjoy this fetish have something wrong with them as well. By all means, you do what you are comfortable with. I don't think anyone was disputing that? Condemning the whole fetish though and saying it perpetuates racism/oppression in society, as a host of others were saying on this thread, isn't too far off from the second wave feminists who said the same thing in past decades up to today about how pornography and bdsm perpetuate sexism and sexual violence. Condemning any consenting sexual activity between fully consenting adults doesn't strike me as progressive, but restrictive and reactionary. It seems puritanical more than it is woke.