https://legacycares.org/
The above link will take you to a counseling center that is primarily geared to the LGBT community here in Dallas. (If memory serves me well you’re in the DFW area). Perhaps they can help you locate a therapist who meets your needs. While they provide help for many HIV individuals they also help other non-HIV people. I learned of this organization while volunteering at the Resource Center here in Dallas.
It should be noted that while the Resource Center here in Dallas is thought of as a LGBT organizatino it is not strictly for the LGBT community. To access its services you must be HIV positive. Or, at least, that’s the way it was several years ago when I volunteered there.
Another avenue to explore may be the MCC church here in Dallas. They may be able to direct you to qualified therapists either through their church staff or outside the church in a private, secular environment.