30somethingsexybear

Very sexy jock bod on this guy. A twunk for sure

Not listing kissing equals no deal.

he says he's very much into kissing.

I'll say it again, you guys are great. I'm thinking he contacted me and offered such a low rate for 3 days because he planned on doing his own thing. Had I known about that in the beginning, I could been better prepared for it but still wouldn't allow a bunch of twinks in my house. Two-night overnights are really too much time outside of sex and they just become annoying people anyway. Knowing I'm a once-a-day sex guy also lets me know my expectations. I feel better, won't let this guy talk me into coming back again, and I know more about my expectations to convey to the guy.

 

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to.

 

I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge.

This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you.

 

I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point.

Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

I'm meeting with him in NYC later today. Will let y'all know how he is

yes looking forward to hearing the details, is he top only or vers?

Seems like he's only into muscle worship. Cool for some but for me it's a big Yawn. If you're not giving up that muscle ass for my enjoyment then they're dead to me LOL! :p:p:p

Tommy Reagan- great when he showed

Brenner Bolton- good

Jason Gunner- big f**king jerk! Don’t hire

Mason Lear - great guy.. geat lay!

Ace Era- best ever!

ALways wanted to meet Ace but he was in and out of the business so fast and also disappeared from escort work too it seems. He was such a pig and so classically beautiful. Usually to get as piggy as he was one has to get almost middle aged, he was very advanced for his age.

Damn! Sign me up! I definitely want to know more about this type of establishment in Japan.

wish there were places like that in America or NYC or LA

Really not sure why providers choose to post "head shots" instead of natural, everyday pics of themselves ? They are not auditioning for a modeling job. I know I want to see them in a natural setting doing natural things, not posing in a photoshopped concoction.

here here!

Went last night and the energy was great and the guys were hot but it was soooooo packed and they closed the smoking room so there was even less room and it was so hot I was afraid someone was going to pass out. The space just can't handle that many people. I was going to go for a dance but once we entered the area after the narrow hallway it was even hotter. I had to say no and go back to stand near a fan lol. Towards the end of the night when people were clearing out it got a little better but be prepared. Wear very light, breathable clothing and bring paper towels or something for the heat. Also tip your bartender Josh as he was working so hard making sure ice was available as it was needed! Tim was also busting his buns dragging Ice everywhere as well as a bar back (whose name eludes me at the moment). The music was so fun by the bar but be prepared to BYOB and to be very very sweaty. In a good way and not in a good way at the same time lol

Do you mind sharing the “gold nugget” that made them stay? Money?

being 33 is probably helpful

It's like a burlesque type of thing.

Strange question, but how much dancing goes on at the Buffdaddy events? I have a friend who is interested in making money stripping. Has no issues walking around naked, but is not confortable dancing. He has an amazing body and package though, and has no interest in escorting.

If he has an amazing body and package I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be asked to Dance if he doesn't want to and having no interest in escorting is fine but he needs to be comfortable with being pretty accommodating as most of the guys who work there are happy to escort and also go the extra mile in the private rooms etc. If he thinks the patrons will just squeeze his muscles and give him 20's 50's and 100's for it, then BuffDaddy's may not be the place for him. I'd recommend Adonis parties but not the nude ones. The bar parties Adonis does is more suitable for the type of guy you are describing.

I would say go to one of BuffDaddy's shows (go to the part of the forum for male strip clubs and there will be threads there for you to see what we are referring to) and most if not all of the guys there are very happy to do private shows at hotels etc.

The guys there are a bit more rough around the edges than the ones you'll see in NYC and much less attitude, cheaper prices for time and they typically are much more eager to please as they know supply is very high so you gotta work a bit harder to please fans.

Does it matter what he did or does that just add to the thrill of banging an ex-con just out of prison? ?

Yes a true pig you are, I am a fan of this! lol

"The AIDS epidemic is costing me money... al those guys who died in the 80's now would be old and hiring escorts"

 

That was his comment when I told him I got lucky to be in a monogamous relationship in the 80's... It was a first hire I had tonight, I won't see him again.

I think that line falls under what I would call "Just because you are correct, does not mean you should say it" category

I've fantasized about him for years … and it looks like he's taking the plunge to the gay side .. https://www.nachovidal.com/videos/new-gay-section

 

He's definitely always been a free spirit I'm sure with all of the TS and he shot gay scenes as a director but he's too old to be doing gay scenes now. If he's poz he probably will just stick with directing and having sex with models etc off camera like he's done in the past.

so... I see ads for "Primoboys" at Atlas now. So has adonis been traded for Primo ?

Probably but Primo boys were the ones that got Adonis/Spunk bounced from Fairytail lounge, they must be giving the bars better deals on money splits house fees etc. but there is a reason that Fairytail went from Primo Boys to Trans parties every night of the week and pushed out Primo boys so Atlas will soon see the error in their ways if that is the case. Tim consistently brings in the top talent from around the country and though his parties are like a nanny state and nickel and dime you, the quality of the guys are there.

Seems from his ad like he's a "stand there and get serviced" type of straight guy. If you're into that.

I second this! Lots of fun shenanigans can go down at the Long Island location. It's very seedy but to me that adds to the experience

providing a pic of the dancer would probably help you out in this instance

The difference with FT is they were guys I did not want to leave me alone.....23 yr old blond bodybuilders with angel faces.....yes...massage my cock and put your butt on my leg all you want ! The sweaty over-tated steroid Dominicans were fewer there than other places.

You must have come on specific nights because Fairytail was the most Dominican featured out of all the places that had dancers, ESPECIALLY when Adonis was no longer doing parties there but even before. You just got very lucky. Like I said if you are looking for more white guys then just follow Tim's parties, he brings more white meat than most.

But all the other places are special events and almost all Dominican clones: steroid muscles and tats. Monster is lower than that. Fairytale had a great equal mix of Europeans, US country boys, and Dominican muscle clones willing to go behind the curtain and do anything. I found the guys at Fairytale much better looking than those at Monster and Monster is sort of trashy and low-ceiling in the basement. Not sure if it's 100% private but most of the Adonis lapdances parties aren't.

I wouldn't call those other places special events, they're there every week and Monster is twice a week and Atlas is three days week and nowhere has one dark room with a couch that I'm afraid of getting bed bugs. Pieces isn't all Dominican, that was Fairytail after they fired Luis and Dan who ran Spunk and Tim who ran Adonis. Fairytail never had this variety you speak of, it was all Tim and Luis who brought the variety in, If you are looking for more variety then just go to Tim's parties as they have a less all Dominican, all the time roster and he always brings in quality guys for his Nude parties but yes, THOSE are events.

Please tell me Monster isn't the last regular go-go/private dance place left. Monster 2 yucky for me, guys and bar. One more reason to not go to NY.

 

I mean, did you think Fairytail was better? That place was tiny and the lap dance "area" was a mess! Monster is way better a venue for boys who are shaking their junk.

Wow, thanks for the details. I guess the owner could not handle the competition.

Or the owner realized there is no point in having the competition when he can have a monopoly on a niche that pays more and is less demanding. Money talks people!