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You don't get eggs that look like him at Aldi...you sound more than a value shopper, just plain cheap. As I have said time and time again this sport is not for pensioners. $350 is a regular rate in most places. Now whether he is your type or lives up to his promises, different subject, but $350 is on the low side of regular rate in most areas. 

In general, he can call himself whatever he wants.  My only concern is how he acts with me. The worry, however, is that a self-identified "straight" guy might have unexpected limits and be less free in his actions. This can be disappointing.

This may be 2023 but a lot of guys still have a hard time coming to terms with identifying as gay. Not everyone, especially in some more rural or less sophistcated arenas are so warmly accepting of gays. Guy I see is late 20's, drop dead good looking and if you met him on the street would tell you he's straight. After almost a year and lots of discussion (before durning and after amaxing sex) he will talk about how hard it is to admit he's gay. So I think there is some of that going on. The world has changed, but not that much. 

Just read his reviews. Many clients warning red flags. One client issued a stark warning in October about his scams. Said "you have been warned" in caps.
Which raises the question. Did you read his reviews before sending him $2000?

He looks like a good looking gay guy, but nothing I would pay for. A friend's husband. 

I’d put him under nothing outstanding, nothing bad.

Please keep us posted right into the New Year.I have no plans tonight & this is more entertaining than Anderson Pooper & Andy Conehead. 

Life is full of risks. The likelihood of being videotaped in an Airbnb is pretty low. Who would be bothered sitting thru hours of mundane footage anyway?

Do you really think anyone cares enough to bother doing anything with a tape ? You could be running for president, have all sorts of tapes exposed and still win. I prefer to stay in hotels for the convenience but the rignt guy in an AirBnB works for a me just as well. 

Wow, this is quite a thread, from just a few questions about the Seeking website. I have had several very successful arrangements including one that I am in now with a fabulous guy. A couple of observations, while you may be atttactive or in great shape, you're probably still a grandpa in their eyes . That's okay, they signed on for that. Treat them with respect and you will get the same in return. Turn the feelings of jealousy of other things they do around. Would you really want this twenty somethng guy with all the issues that go along with being that age around 24/7? Even if they are the next Jamie Dimon the issues facing that age group can be exhausting for those who have been there done that ! So if they see other guys or travel without you, be happy for them, not jealous. Don't ask questions if the truth will bother you.  You may remember the movie Saving Private Ryan, when the young soldier Matt Damon, morphs into the old man in the Normandy graveyard. We all had our turn to be Matt Damon. Now even Matt Damon is looking a little "older" . Gay men can be a petty jealous group, try to rise above that. Personally I am glad that I have the ability to hire or arrange with these guys and am not figuring out how to retire on Social Security. Four or five days every other month is plenty.  Zadun in Cabo San Lucas in February will be  lot more fun with this guy than with my peers even though they would pay !  Some people can get just way too involved. Be glad for th opportunities that modern technology and communications have brought to us. 

Wow, this is quite a thread, from just a few questions about the Seeking website. I have had several very successful arrangements including one that I am in now with a fabulous guy. A couple of observations, while you may be atttactive or in great shape, you're probably still a grandpa in their eyes . That's okay, they signed on for that. Treat them with respect and you will get the same in return. Turn the feelings of jealousy of other things they do around. Would you really want this twenty somethng guy with all the issues that go along with being that age around 24/7? Even if they are the next Jamie Dimon the issues facing that age group can be exhausting for those who have been there done that ! So if they see other guys or travel without you, be happy for them, not jealous. Don't ask questions if the truth will bother you.  You may remember the movie Saving Private Ryan, when the young soldier Matt Damon, morphs into the old man in the Normandy graveyard. We all had our turn to be Matt Damon. Now even Matt Damon is looking a little "older" . Gay men can be a petty jealous group, try to rise above that. Personally I am glad that I have the ability to hire or arrange with these guys and am not figuring out how to retire on Social Security. Four or five days every other month is plenty.  Zadun in Cabo San Lucas in February will be  lot more fun with this guy than with my peers even though they would pay !  Some people can get just way too involved. Be glad for th opportunities that modern technology and communications have brought to us. 

But not for this guy....

There are guys that are a bargain at $500, he does not appear to be one of them 

Hotest man on RM? Not with those tatoos . 

I didn't say fat, I said chubby... chubby can be kind of cute... but then so are some muscle boys. I tell you one thing, it sure got the dialog going!

No one said anything disparaging about this guy, just his rates. He's more than attractive just maybe a little unsure of hois worth in the marketplace. Some of the pictures make him appear to be part of the "gay scene" which may or may not add value, depending on your personal preference. And RM is an online shopping tool, so while these are real people, they are also a product. 

But not for this guy....

Although he doesn't have model looks...I would disagree that he's JUST "average".
He's a pleasant looking fellow and I don't think everyone charges by the inch. 🍆
His only fault is confusing his expectations of how a rich sugar daddy works with high escort rates.

average twinkie looks, average dick, inflated ego ... one can wish him well and hope he grows up soon
 

Because this is what people do when they're shopping.
"Oh wow look at this one " ..or
"No..no..who would buy this ?"
Escorts present themselves as a product so discussions are treated as any other shopping excursion.

I have literally zero interest in a self-involved, delusional Gen Zer, who clearly wants to be a trophy "wife."

There are guys that are a bargain at $500, he does not appear to be one of them 

He is hot and sweet but you get the impression you are one of many in a long line of clients. He does make sure you enjoy yourself. 

Looks more like a drama queen than a cute bro

Looks more like a drama queen than a cute bro