seaboy4hire

there's no need for escorts to come here and defend their rates to perfect strangers
 
if you price yourself high and can get it, go for it. it ain't for everyone and you just gotta figure out what suits you and who you see best

Big Stud American Pharoah to Get $200,000 a Pop in Breeding Shed....
 
Now how is this rate for an escort???
 
http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-11-06/big-stud-american-pharoah-to-get-200-000-a-pop-in-breeding-shed

What if its a visiting escort from an area where $300 or so isn't the norm?
 
Hugs,
Greg

I live in NYC and don't mind paying 250 approximately. There are quite a few really good guys you can find at that price level. If the guy truly is great, I tip well which would bring the compensation in the 300-400 range. But I am reluctant to agree to 300 as the 'base' rate.

Girl! Hold out for dessert! ICE CREAM!
 
Hugs,
Greg

I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.

I've paid 300, even 400, and I've paid 150. Once again it bears repeating, price does not necessarily equal quality of services rendered. Many would like you to believe otherwise, but the facts are irrefutable....http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/yes.gif

I'm not easily swayed by others as to my voting on anything or for anyone. Thus, a celebrity's endorsement would have no influence on me. And, if I lived in Ohio, I would cast an affirmative vote on the measure!

Semi truck drivers have random piss tests already and it's already illegal for them to use drugs along with a few medications cause it could impact their driving abilities. I would imagine that the same holds true for some of the other professions you mentioned as well.
 
Hugs,
Greg

I am all for legal weed anywhere & everywhere.....regarding Nick Lachey's involvement in Ohio advertising.....apparently he's maybe a member of a business group who would / will benefit financially from legal in Ohio.....
 
http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2015/10/30/nick-lachey-could-get-rich-growing-pot-in-ohio/

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Nope. I don't allow myself to be swayed by celeb endorsements.
 
Hugs,
Greg

I have a question, not to anyone in particular—just to the world of escorts at large:
 
Why won't you cum in my ass?
 
I play safe. I insist on a condom, either the traditional sort or a "femdom"/female condom. I don't want you to bareback me, or vice versa. I am as disease-free as one can be, having been spared all STIs (including herpes, which is nearly miraculous, it seems). I am a good-looking man, middle aged and nicely built, without curious neurotic habits that might make you go limp, and have a fine ass (if I can compliment myself without appearing to be too conceited). I am polite, respectful, and get money matters over with at the beginning. I take you to dinner, amuse you, and keep it all lightly friendly. I'm not looking for love (got that already). While I do get sex elsewhere (from my husband and boyfriend), you're my extra-special fantasy for a few hours...a bit of sexual theatre...pornography incarnate. I'm a nice guy who dresses well. (Really!) But I enjoy hearing, seeing, and feeling a guy lost in the throes of orgasm as he clutches me tight while he fucks my ass. I could make you promise to cum in my ass at the outset, but that just doesn't seem right somehow. And it has no guarantee attached.
 
So, what gives? I've set the stage for a pleasant evening or more. I've made sure my hygiene is impeccable. I give great oral, kiss like a fallen angel, and genuinely enjoy sharing our common humanity. Even my whispered suggestion, "You can cum in my ass", goes unheeded. You pull out and unload all over me. Which is great and fine, but it's not quite as exciting as hearing you grunting in ecstacy, feeling those nearly uncontrollable thrusts and shudders, and fearing—just a tiny bit—for my ribs as you try to grasp me tighter than seems humanly possible.
 
Is it barebacking? Has it become so common that cumming in a condom is impossible? Too many clients? (I usually book evenings or overnights.) Fear? Any ideas?

I agree with jawjatech, you sound like a dream client...and whatever rate he offers, I'll undercut it by 10%.
 
As a hardcore top, I love feeling a bottom cum while I'm fucking him. Not exactly analogous to the feelings
you describe above, but damn close. It can be intense and amazing, and I think I understand what you're
trying to describe.
 
However, I don't enjoy coming in a condom. I play safe, but I've always hated the feeling. Fucking?
No problem, condoms don't bother me at all. Cumming? I don't just dislike it, I hate it. I always feel
like my balls aren't free to empty all the way. Worst part is, the more turned on I am and the harder
I cum, the worse the sensation gets. Sometimes, it's even a little painful. So the times I'm having the
most fun always end on a sour note if I try and cum in the condom.
 
So it's become almost routine for me to get as close to cumming as I can and then pull out, rip off the
condom and finish off by hand on the bottom's ass. At this point I'm so into it, it almost qualifies as a fetish.
 
Also, for much of my adult life, most bottoms wouldn't let you cum in their ass, even with a condom
on. That's changed significantly in the past decade, but at the time it was a big deal, and I got used to it.
 
I've noticed a few bottoms get disappointed by this. Some go as far as to blame themselves. As if their ass
wasn't good enough to get me off 100%....which of course is insane.
 
So there you have it. I'm not sure it helps. I thought it might be interesting to hear the story from the
side of a top, who is VERY committed to keeping his bottoms happy, but sometimes can't.

You have the wrong escort.
 
Keep looking! This is not a rare or hard-to-fulfill desire.

I already had my addiction with drugs after having prostate cancer at 19, I loved percoset ! I am not a Tina user, no one is going to talk me into giving them my money for 1 and for 2 no one will be smoking meth with me !
I'm a jaded bitch when it comes to drugs! My whole family has some kind of addiction and well the change in this family starts with me !
Now, if someone has some medical cannabis I might consider joining your cult, cause bitches love Medical Marijuana

I can't speak on behalf of all escorts, but I am like your friend.
 
I can't imagine sex without kissing. The spring that makes my dick hard is hidden somewhere in my lips. I kiss because I love it and if we meet I will want to kiss you. As my reviews can attest I am a great kisser and do it with gusto... unless, of course, you have bad breath.
 
Onions, coffee, garlic, any kind of food, cheeses, gastrointestinal problems, dental problems, badly affixed dental prosthesis, sinus and other infections. The reasons for bad breath are many, they sometimes are in our blind spot, which means that we may not even be able to think about correcting them. We don't know that we don't know that which we ignore, and therefore we have absolutely no desire to fix it.
 
And of course, the rule number one about bad breath is:
 
He who has bad breath (or bad overall hygiene) is always adamant he is fresh, clean, minty and delicious. You never know when you have bad breath.
 
If you are with me and I am not kissing you, you have bad breath. There is no mystery there. I will let you know, I will ask you to brush your teeth, I will give you mints. If you pretend to brush your teeth and come back and I still don't kiss you, it's because you have bad breath.
 
Believe me, I so wish you didn't, because the session would be so much more fun! It would be hotter and more exciting. I am not lying to avoid kissing you.. I WANT to kiss you. If I am not kissing you... you have bad breath.
 
A cut dick will be clean 95% of the times. Unless you have incredibly bad hygiene and haven't showered at all, sucking dick is an incredibly safer bet than kissing. It's not because it's more intimate, it's just less stinky.
 
Also, a dick will not force its tongue out, trying to stick it as wet and deep into your tonsils, as some people do. If you try to rape my tonsils, if you try to pass on gobs of saliva into my mouth, I will actually let you know that doesn't do it for me. If after ten attempts you keep trying to rape my throat while attempting to push back my face into yours, I will forget about "kissing" and will focus on your dick, or ass.
 
If you are an adult having sex, then you should have a support system. Find a friend to whom you can ask whether your breath smells often. Ask your dentist. Learn proper dental hygiene. Avoid bad breath causing foods and habits, especially before having sex. If you have a beard or moustache, trim it to human proportions and make sure it's impeccably clean, shampoo it carefully to erase smells, brush it to make sure theres nothing on it, Ask your partner if you notice hesitation on his part, and LISTEN to what he says. Don't slobber all over his face, thinking it sexy. Don't rape his throat. Don't force his face in place. Remember kissing is a two way language that requires listening, proposing, and negotiating. Notice when he recoils in horror, notice when he moans with pleasure.
 
If you do all this, I assure you, all good kissers will want to kiss you and won't be able to hold back.
 
And all of those who don't kiss... who gives a shit about them? Who cares!

that's great! like I said, things that are generally true have exceptions. that's why it's "generally".

So I finally took the plunge and went on Grindr last week. I am thirty and scruffy and I get a LOT of messages from really young guys (think 18-20) and not just to chat either... I was actually taken aback by this, especially with the age difference. Thirty isn't that old of course, but still, the difference between 18 and 30 is that of adolescence and fully grown-up.

Living in Los Angeles makes it very difficult to only bike unless you work, shop, eat, in a small graphical area. But who usually suggests we bike or walk and give up our cars? It's usually the government officials or the wealthy that ask us to sacrifice.....you know the people with their government cars, limousines, chauffeurs, private jets, etc. When they start biking, so will I.

Oh that song and video is wringing so true due to some recent events.
 
Hugs,
Greg

That is a thread in and of itself.
 
One thing to love about Chicago: people like to eat, drink, and f*%$.

Some men who are older may agree to this song by Divine relating to younger men......LOL......
 
Some may agree with Divine's theory - some may not. .
 
At least the dancers in this video clip are younger and hot. Quite appetizing don't you think? .
 
Enjoy!!!
 

rvwsnd, you make me homesick.
 
And you didn't even touch on food! Chicago is a fantastic place to put on the feedbag!

I live in a area with a large gay population, young and old, so yes, I get hit on by younger guys a lot, but their motivation is often suspect...I thought Julian's response was amusing.."If I'm screwing around with him, I'm going to have to pay for dinner 'again', I don't mind paying for dinner, but at some point, it's like, I can't really build much with someone who can't 'ever' pay for dinner"