Kody S

Some years ago while traveling, I contacted a provider for an incall at his studio. His published rate was reasonable for a basic therapeutic massage.  I did my usual googling and internet research as well as this forum. Not much info but no red flags either.  I got there, undressed, got on the table, and he started.  He was a large hunky guy, muscular, and someone I felt like I should be attracted to but wasn’t.  At all. He started all his clothes on and in the middle of the massage he whispered that for twice the price I could touch him. I declined because the massage was doing nothing at all for me.  Then he started doing more sensual strokes, I said no, again zero chemistry. And then he said he would take his shirt off and I could touch him for even more money.  Are you kidding me? Masseurs have massages me naked for half of the original price. Anyway, when I declined again, he stopped massaging went to my pants on the chair and started rifling through my clothes to get my wallet claiming it was because I had the money and just didn’t want to give it to him.  I was outraged. So I got up, and snatched my walled back, and told him the massage was over, and he acted surprised.  I just got enough clothes on to get to the car and out of there.  He didn’t go off on me but it was clear he wasn’t used to being turned down. It was humiliating and degrading and scary.  I hate upsells with such a passion.  And that experience taught me a lesson about being really clear about expectations and boundaries up front. 

Agree!  My session with him was fantastic all the way around. One of the very best. Amazing.  Sexy AF is right per @Client1985. PM me for details.  

Yes.  Although beefing up a bit too…

You better go HK MEN at 52 street as l know ,they are same

Some years ago while traveling, I contacted a provider for an incall at his studio. His published rate was reasonable for a basic therapeutic massage.  I did my usual googling and internet research as well as this forum. Not much info but no red flags either.  I got there, undressed, got on the table, and he started.  He was a large hunky guy, muscular, and someone I felt like I should be attracted to but wasn’t.  At all. He started all his clothes on and in the middle of the massage he whispered that for twice the price I could touch him. I declined because the massage was doing nothing at all for me.  Then he started doing more sensual strokes, I said no, again zero chemistry. And then he said he would take his shirt off and I could touch him for even more money.  Are you kidding me? Masseurs have massages me naked for half of the original price. Anyway, when I declined again, he stopped massaging went to my pants on the chair and started rifling through my clothes to get my wallet claiming it was because I had the money and just didn’t want to give it to him.  I was outraged. So I got up, and snatched my walled back, and told him the massage was over, and he acted surprised.  I just got enough clothes on to get to the car and out of there.  He didn’t go off on me but it was clear he wasn’t used to being turned down. It was humiliating and degrading and scary.  I hate upsells with such a passion.  And that experience taught me a lesson about being really clear about expectations and boundaries up front. 

Some years ago while traveling, I contacted a provider for an incall at his studio. His published rate was reasonable for a basic therapeutic massage.  I did my usual googling and internet research as well as this forum. Not much info but no red flags either.  I got there, undressed, got on the table, and he started.  He was a large hunky guy, muscular, and someone I felt like I should be attracted to but wasn’t.  At all. He started all his clothes on and in the middle of the massage he whispered that for twice the price I could touch him. I declined because the massage was doing nothing at all for me.  Then he started doing more sensual strokes, I said no, again zero chemistry. And then he said he would take his shirt off and I could touch him for even more money.  Are you kidding me? Masseurs have massages me naked for half of the original price. Anyway, when I declined again, he stopped massaging went to my pants on the chair and started rifling through my clothes to get my wallet claiming it was because I had the money and just didn’t want to give it to him.  I was outraged. So I got up, and snatched my walled back, and told him the massage was over, and he acted surprised.  I just got enough clothes on to get to the car and out of there.  He didn’t go off on me but it was clear he wasn’t used to being turned down. It was humiliating and degrading and scary.  I hate upsells with such a passion.  And that experience taught me a lesson about being really clear about expectations and boundaries up front. 

Amen! I am not hiring a provider for their intellect or social theories. Not that I snap at someone for a little basic idle chit chat, but I look forward to the silence or background music.
I spend a lot of my day thinking and responding to people. It's NOT relaxing. On the contrary, it's work and that why they have to pay me to do it! Hell, if it was FUN, I would spend my day doing it for free!

I hired a guy over a decade ago with whom I had a nice-enough but not especially great appointment until he was getting dressed.  He started insulting me as he was getting ready to leave, and I was honestly left speechless because I had no idea where his vitriol was coming from.  I hadn't done anything to trigger it as far as I could tell, so I suspect that maybe he just had a lot of inner conflict about doing erotic massage work and was taking that out on me on his way out the door.  He has continuously advertised since then but there's no way I would hire him for a repeat, even if the appointment had been more to my liking, after having him disparage me just a few minutes after we both came.

Only once. Handsome guy - good massage. I felt we had a connection. Had great conversation, he had just moved to the area and we talked about various local topics. It was so nice that I returned the following week. He acted like he didn’t remember the first time. I thought maybe he had a lot of clients and it wasn’t as memorable for him as it was for me.  I brought up topics that we had discussed the prior week…he didn’t seem engaged. Then he started talking politics - let’s just say he and I think differently.  I didn’t care..just let him go but after a while of it I said something I thought was tame..like “well I’m not sure that’s 100% true.” He went off….started ranting, claimed I was sympathetic to Nazis, etc.  I ended the massage and he actually acted surprised, saying “are you sure?”  I paid him and he tried to hug me at the door but I turned and left.  Later that night he texted me and apologized….profusely.   Said he was listening to the news and it just built up and he exploded.  I was kind in my response but never saw him again —he left town and recently returned and is advertising.  If I saw him again I doubt he would remember me but I don’t want to go through all that again. I still think about that first time though…it was nice - no sexual stuff other than HE but just a good conversation and connection…or so I thought.
 

One of mine too.  All ways works for me. 

I've seen Jason 3 times in the last couple of months.   He is an excellent masseur that is clearly trained - I would definitely say sensual but I would not say erotic (ymmv).

I’m excited he’s stateside now. The first time I saw his profile he was based in Shanghai I believe. I added him to favorites in hopes of one day having a session with him. Very happy he’s in NYC now and plan to book a session with him next time I’m in NY. 
 
Please post any other experiences with him. 

Agree!  My session with him was fantastic all the way around. One of the very best. Amazing.  Sexy AF is right per @Client1985. PM me for details.  

I am going to try to book with him this week.  So far he is very responsive and seems like a nice guy and legit. 

I am going to try to book with him this week.  So far he is very responsive and seems like a nice guy and legit. 

Agree!  My session with him was fantastic all the way around. One of the very best. Amazing.  Sexy AF is right per @Client1985. PM me for details.  

I am going to try to book with him this week.  So far he is very responsive and seems like a nice guy and legit. 

I am going to try to book with him this week.  So far he is very responsive and seems like a nice guy and legit. 

I am going to try to book with him this week.  So far he is very responsive and seems like a nice guy and legit. 

Yes have seen Seth multiple times and he gives a great massage and is a very nice guy. PM me. 

I am looking forward to some way to navigate the rates for masseurs on sites like RMasseur that simply say “ask” in the rate slot on their profiles.  I know it varies but if info could be shared as a “price range” excluding tip that would be helpful.  

Well said! A proper massage is important and needs to be done by someone who recognises that massage is an art. It’s not just rubbing your baby oiled hand up and down his back to kill time while you check your phone for insta  likes and the mirror for your abs.
A masseur knows that sensual massage is a seduction, to be savoured by his client. He knows it’s to  enable him to learn about his client’s body and what turns him on so that when the time comes for his client’s climax he can press all the right buttons to get the desired response. 
Hire a masseur, because the journey is at least as important as the destination. 

 

I never go into it expecting anything more than a massage although more than a massage often happens. 

Because my main goal is a good massage on a table from a trained professional; not from a kid with a gym membership who thinks that and his looks is all he needs to call himself a "masseuse". (Yes masseuse. How many ads have you seen where the guy says he has training but doesn't know what to call himself.)
If all I wanted was sex I'd hire an escort.