Kody S

You might also try Thomas. Very good massage, incredible body and the softest hands. He is a new find for me and has all you would want

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1059/

I’ve always enjoyed Pasha, his massage (which is amazing), and everything said above is on point.

I prepare for a massage the way I would want some to prepare for me if I were meeting up with them for massage or play: always shower with aromatic body wash/gel, brush teeth, breath mint, trim facial hair (and other parts as needed), plus my best underwear I want the masseur to have a good first impression and know that I’m respecting him and what he does. I would not want a stranger coming into my home or place if business smelling and looking like a swamp and expecting me to enjoy working in less than a hygienic situation. Lol

PM me on the Ginger guy.

Yep that’s the same info I have. I am going to miss seeing him in Capetown.

Yes Jorge at Shangrila was amazing. Sorry he isn’t there anymore.

I have seen him several times in Capetown, SA. Excellent.

This is a very interesting conversation, one reason I appreciate this site. The “will they or wont they” is part of the game. My only issue now with all this (aside from out and out false advertising) is that the game can be expensive and frankly hurtful to some people who don’t get what they thought (hoped?). I see this forum as providing probably one of best guardrails out there for making an assessment on one’s own personal tolerance for risk before hiring.

+1on Carlos

Don’t know what his story is, but he advertises in Norman/OKC on MF but is never there, always “out of town”

Alexei, don’t even have to think about it

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5122/

Michael at Shangri la is shorter, fit and compact, Caucasian, 20s? cute, friendly, knows his way around the body and has good strong hands.

I’ve never read a good review for him.

Saw Michael at Shangrila. Excellent. Very good massage experience.

Who’s good at Shangrila since Jorge and Rodrigo have left.

Same question. Whose good at Shangrila now?

He didn’t mention another spa .

Last time I saw him he mentioned he was going to school to be a barber and I think he left Shangrila to pursue that profession. Could be wrong.

I just got a text from Rodrigo confirming that he is no longer at shangrila.

Yes that’s so sad. Where is he now?

Scam scam scam. Thankful for this forum especially for guys new to hiring masseurs who may not know what’s normal and what’s not.

I actually had a provider go for my wallet to get the money while was undressing. Worst experience ever.

I guess I got lucky because it wasn’t terrible... but it sure could have been.

I’ve been getting massages for about ten years now and I love the experience of meeting new guys most of whom (in my experience) want to please and make you feel amazing. Yes there is the occasional “ridiculously bad” experience but the vast majority are acceptable to amazing, with the mind blower OMG experience thrown in there. It’s those surprises that can be exhilarating. But I will say that I have met some of the nicest and most genuine guys on this journey and made some good friends, ones I keep up with and, guys I enjoy seeing when I can. When you can connect physically, emotionally, and even psychically through touch with a masseur it’s amazing, definitely worth the price if admission. The power and necessity of touch in a world that is increasingly electronic and detached makes the whole experience of massage that much more necessary.

One my absolute favorites!

I need to try him then :

I think this subject has been discussed before, but what is your experience with booking a masseur and when you get there he asks for the money up front? I have been getting massages for sometime now and rarely if ever has this happened to me. It seemed weird even though the massage was in every other respect just fine and as per advertised.

I can share more about the massage if you email me.

So, I’ve seen Chris. Was not a fan. So I may be the dissenting voice here. It’s been a while so maybe things have changed or maybe my experience was atypical.