Merboy

I'd pay top dollar if there were just top dollar guys. The selection on RM is not very good. Where are the fitness models with strong reputations and reliable explosions of cum? Where are the celebrity guys that were so common to see but have disappeared to squeeze money out of OnlyFans members? The industry itself is in a collapse. The world is changing. This isn't worth it anymore for both consumers and providers... and we're in a f-ing Plague - and hand on hand body on body interactions are a risk... so I'd say many have probably left this world behind at least for now. its still the world's oldest profession and the number of lonely, horny, sad people just seems to increase with time. Eventually the industry will reinvent itself.

He's aging like all of us, but the new photos are great. Never got a response from him tho.

Good Lord, have i been naughty this year, Santa.... spank me 😛

To all of you that celebrate it and don't, i wish you all a wonderful holiday season and a very happy new year, I pray today that 2022 is the year that COVID subsides and we can all take off these masks and see each other's beautiful faces... I pray for all of your health and wealth as well 🙂 - Merboy

I want to lick maple syrup off of Gavin's body. Has anybody here seen that body in action in Sex Lives of College Girls? omg.

How on Earth did I forget about Chris Hemsworth?!!?!?! Thor, and a koala!

For me, the answer's easy - a mil - and I'd change my life for the better. I'd go to school first thing and become something in this world , make something of myself... get my degree. But If I was rich already and had a great job, I'd go with the second option of course, and the five celebrities I'd have sex with are the following: Gregg Sulkin, Zac Efron, Gavin Leatherwood, Nick Jonas, and Michael B. Jordan - all sweaty and oiled up and all fucking night long 🙂

what do you honestly choose and do you eventually regret your decision?

Maybe "The Amelia Earhart Story" - because my G spot got lost, has never been found, and nobody's gone looking for it ever since.

I can't do it with a movie title but I can do it with a Broadway showtune title, and that's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ob4ZmHKbD28

I totally love this. Love is love, human to human yes

She worked at a place that I go to for a little while. She's also much younger than I am, but i'm probably her age developmentally. So I have no experience in dating or really true intimacy for that matter (aside from the very brief visits with the male escorts I hired) whereas she probably does.

Okay so I'm very sexually attracted still to men, such as this guy: But this girl is so beautiful and I would love to be in a relationship with her: (actually i want to scrub the makeup off her face and then kiss her passionately) so maybe I'm bisexual. The attraction to men has been fading, while the attraction to women has been growing.

Hi. Merboy here. I just wanted to say that I've been having a very hard time lately, and then something also happened- there was a girl that I knew briefly but she's all I could think about once she left. I was clearly very attracted to her and yes I would like to go on a date with her. So, the issue is I've never ever been attracted to a woman before - I've always had an intense sexual attraction to men, so what's going on here? Can someone help me? Thanks

Nothing. They work so hard for that body, why cover it up?

There are some countries where the Constitutions would permit this kind of policy. The United States is not one of those, and I don't agree with the heavy-handed mandate approach. I think ideally if there was a vaccine that every single person in the country agreed was safe, then you probably wouldn't need to force people to get it. I just don't like the idea of the government having this much power to regulate what goes into people's bodies. It just doesn't sit well with me. I strongly support science, I support social distancing whenever possible, and the wearing of masks, but I think we need to try a different approach. Many of the most hesitant to get the vaccines are religious conservatives who believe it is literally "Satan juice". It's very hard to argue with them, or persuade them to take the vaccine, and the idea of the Federal Government in the U.S. mandating something like would be a massive overreach and deeply unpopular. It would sabotage the CDC more than it would help it. It would not help us get closer to the day when COVID becomes more like the flu in that it doesn't disappear - maybe ever - but it is contained and containment, to the point where we no longer have to live in so much fear of catching it, is the realistic goal, not complete elimination. Eventually we'll have to relax the strict mandates and government orders, and let people self-isolate when they are sick or feel like they are getting symptoms, and the masks would be then optional, maybe encouraged in certain areas like packed cities, but optional for wearing them, and I bet a lot of people, especially older people, would continue to wear them outside for the next 5-7 years, some of them probably will always wear them. This Plague has changed all of our lives, and it has changed the world. There is no going back to pre-COVID, but post-COVID can be realized.

He was one I was with, but only one hour. I sucked him off, swallowed his cum, and walked around Manhattan to my bus with that cum taste in my mouth until I made it to a BK in Connecticut and got rid of it. He was indeed hot and sexy and that body was unbelievably buff, but he lacked any personality that made me want to do anything but just suck him off and bolt out the door. He had an air about him that was kinda idk not that great. I guess you could say he was "nice enough". The body was what brought me though. I never got the impression he was really that invested in the clients' companionship. He did have a nice dick though - or maybe I was just really horny. I didn't even bother to take my jacket off, I just batted my eyelashes, sat by his feet, and then just swallowed him whole... Overall I'd give it a 5/10 though even with a 10/10 body, the whole experience was probably just not worth $300.

I think the escorting world died out five years ago actually. It's just not the same as it was 10 years ago in 2011 and by 2016, you start to see it just decline altogether. When they shut down Rentboy, that did a lot of harm to this industry. The stigma associated with it and the decline in Sex in general in America, but also COVID did a number on everything. It's hard selling your body during a Plague... and maybe this is the new normal, that the escorts are subpar, there isn't a lot of demand from younger generations for sex workers, and it's just too damn fucking expensive for everyday people. You've literally got to be making at least $100,000 to hire these men. That $300 hourly rate's going to go up too - up to $500 or $1,000 for just one hour. Gay guys have it easy. It's a lot more expensive in the straight world. I just don't see muscular hunks on Rentmen that much anymore - all the old ones retired and they have not been replaced with a new stable of studmuffins... they're either at home playing video games, at their gyms working out to tease us and make us feel sad because we can't get fucked by them, or they're in the Middle East of all places (which I'm sorry but sucks and I don't think any American should go to any country in the ME that is not Israel).

"Effeminate" sounds very dated, very pre-Stonewall, as if it belongs in this sentence from 1968: "The avowed homosexual with the lisp wrist tried poorly to conceal his effeminate behavior at the Judy Garland concert last night."

thank u love! thank u..

Thank you so much lonely_john - i know i need help, i am already in therapy so i find it so helpful too.... and I just want to thank you all for being so kind here, this forum is a truly great place to form a community!

Well that does seem a tad too long. Maybe a three month cruise around the world, but only really Europe, some gay-friendly parts of Asia, Oceania, the Pacific Ocean, gay-friendly Latin America, and then North America... I wouldn't want to honestly go to anyplace where I'd get off the boat and then get shoved into a jail cell for being queer... or a place where right after I paid for dinner, the waiters would round me up and put me in front of a court of Islamic fundamentalist judges for wearing too much lipstick or something... those places avoid at all costs (even the infamous trendy "Dubai" or that city the Sex and the City girls went to in that god-awful sequel) and stick to the basics - Italy, France, Germany, Scandinavia, New Zealand, Hong Kong, Thailand, I'd say Brazil but it's gotta be until that nutcase leaves office....maybe Mexico's coasts, like Puerto Vallerta... but the cruise would be nice right about now, as long as COVID was gone.

I have had many friends and even including myself in this I can say that the feminine gay guys - the ones that are very beautiful but exude such a feminine, soft, sweet gentle energy - are just not wanted by other gay men. Everybody seems to want Chris Hemsworth - basically a straight guy that either gives it or takes it with other men... and that's just not the reality of the gay world, which has a LOT of very feminine men who are nice, and then some that are not so nice, but that's like every community. It just seems to be that there's maybe 1 guy that'd be open to dating a femme and then there's 1,000 femmes for that 1 guy... yet there are maybe 50 "straight-acting" men and all of them are going to be sought after by the other "straight-acting" men. You really can't win in this community. And that old idea that masc and femme wind up together isn't happening anymore, at least not in my eyes. No tough hardened butch Marine man is going to want to come out and then be with a delicate little flower man.... or maybe he would and I've just never been a catch myself, and there I go again 😞 Honestly, maybe I don't know what the fuck I'm talking about. I'm so feminine that I'm becoming a woman physically now, and my days in the "gay world" (whatever that was, maybe it was just me and my old housemate playing Harry Potter card games and talking about his attraction to bears) are over and there was really no place for me in there anyway. [My given name here] was never going to attract the kinds of men that he wanted. What he wanted was straight men.... and the more masculine gay men are into the buff masculine gay men... or so it seems. I dunno. All I know is that I could never find anybody in all these years living as a man... and that is a shame because it's better to have loved than never to have loved at all, and I've never had anything. 😞

Not really, but then I haven't been okay since 1985.

Is it just me or all the gays really bitchy as fuck today? On that dopey DataLounge, the Queens are throwing fits and slapping each other silly... Nellies. 😄