tanman4u

I'm glad of your input. I only wish I understood your output.
 
Gman

beg to differ.
 
i have a complete "client" profile and because i live in a rather crowded market (New York City) escorts who contact me jump to the front of the line for me. and if they have actually read my profile, i am super likely to hire them.

All 6 are beautiful but only this guy realizes how much better it looks when you're looking "at" your phone in the mirror and not at it in your hand.

All 6 are beautiful but only this guy realizes how much better it looks when you're looking "at" your phone in the mirror and not at it in your hand.

I've seen many mom-and-pop cafes receive five stars because they did everything well within their category......

compare to other businesses within the same level for reviews......a Motel 6 compared to the Four Seasons is silly and entirely inappropriate....
 
you did it just right, @tanman4u

I pop my hip replacement at the sight of a hot guy. Fortunately, I've learned how to reduce it.

I discovered the joy of having weed delivered right to my hotel in California last year after a quick online "consultation" with a "medical professional".
 
I'm heading back that way soon and plan on making a re-order. I've never had the availability of choosing from different strains or types so I'm just wondering if there's any in particular that you like for enhancing having sex?

Well I was wondering if this would wind up being aired out on Daddy's, so here goes.
 
I'm the attempted hirer here.
 
I only hire when I'm traveling and that frequently means only having time to hire once per trip, not due to monetary reasons, but time constraints. When I'm traveling I'm doing safety training all weekend and it's pretty rigidly timed out. I have very little free time. I also no longer get along on a couple of hours of sleep a night if I'll be in charge of running this training the next day.
 
As Mocha pointed out we did hookup a couple of years ago in Las Vegas. It was the first longer-than-an-hour-or-two meeting I had ever planned on. We were going to have dinner at a steakhouse then head to my room. Everything was set and a date and time was agreed upon. He was driving with a friend from somewhere in the area and started running late, and had to check-in at their hotel, then get ready, then get to me, etc. So I had dinner by myself and hooked up with him for a couple of hours later that night.
 
So we kinda kept up through PMs here discussing various subjects. I've always liked his style here on the forums and felt like he got a bad rap for bitching so much.
 
On April 8 I sent an email asking if he was going to be in his home town of Orlando later in the month (27th-30th).
On April 10 he answered "....I say put me down for this month, as I’m here now. I may go out of town in between now and then,b but I have some things going on here in Orlando that I need to stay tended to. So if I do go, it would only be for a couple weeks."
On April 11th I wrote that Friday the 27th would be the best for me for a variety of reasons. I did say in that email "I'd really like to be crashed out by midnight as I have to be on my feet doing the meet-and-greet thing all day Sat and Sun. If Friday night isn't good for you Saturday or Sunday night would work just not quite as convenient. "
On April 22nd he emailed me his rates which included one-hour, two-hour, evening, and all night sessions.
On April 23rd I reiterated my desire for an "evening" and told him I would let him know how early on Friday I'd be free.
On April 25th he emailed me: "
Hey there Kevin, just following back up with you. So give me the run down on your availability in Orlando again. You mentioned Friday night you’d be getting in, or is Friday the 1 night you’d be able to meet while you’re in town?
On April 26th Mocha texted: "just noticed you said you’d be in Orlando Friday thru Monday. So I take it Saturday will be open for you as well? I ask because I’m traveling back from up north tomorrow and on Friday...and would prefer to leave a little buffer time and meet with you Saturday or Sunday even if possible. Either way, let’s go for it"
On April 26th I answered "I can be available Saturday night. My flight on Monday is really early and I’ve gotta pack up all the training materials etc., that I’m traveling with Sunday night so that night is out."
 
At this point I did something that I thought was pretty creative and a great way to communicate my wants/needs/fantasies that I hoped the evening would provide. I did it by pre-writing a Daddy's review. I then sent it to Mocha reminding him of one of the mottos of the boards here "communication".
 
At this point I had purchased a quite nice bottle of Pinot Grigio which I remembered he liked and had identified a nearby restaurant that I knew and loved for dinner and had managed to weasel out of a dinner business meeting. I had also tired like hell to remember (and research here on the forum) what his favorite lube is. I remember a thread a long time ago about him having a bottle swiped. I thought I was being pretty thoughtful to remember the wine he likes and the lube thing. I also remembered he likes spiced bourbon with OJ. I offered to have an Uber pick him up and deliver him back in case, like me, he was planning on drinking.
 
So I spent Friday night, not having a date with Mocha but editing a bunch of videos which took me till 230a
 
April 27th Saturday just after noon I get a text "Just a little heads up on my end 7p may be too soon for me to meet . I will be traveling this afternoon."
My answer "I just really need to be crashed out by midnight....." In my mind this is starting to sound a LOT like the previous meeting we had.
I asked "so what do you think is a realistic time for tonight?"
His answer: "9:30-10p. I'm supposed to be getting into Orlando around 745p" At this point I didn't know he was driving and assumed the airlines had really fucked him over.
My Answer: "That's going to be too late. I was really hoping for the whole evening thing"
He offered a prorated all night rate. If I had been on vacation I would have jumped at the chance but an overnight does me no good. He also offered Sunday anytime but there was no way I was going to try to make that work.
At that point he joked that he had something that would keep me up (just to be clear we're not talking drugs here). He said "Florida nights end at 4a LOL"
My answer: (still thinking we're now looking at 930-10), "I'll be ready. We can still start with drinks at the lobby bar. My floor is card access only"
He wondered if there was another restaurant in the area that was open later as he would be hungry when he got there.
At 9:30p I texted him asking how he was doing on time?
He said he was hoping before midnight but was "pushing almost 1130p"
I told I can't go on for a second night of only a couple of hours of sleep.
He texted around 1140p asking if there was anyway we could get together on sunday.
 
Dude, if you'd been driving for 9 hours or whatever you said upthread here do you really think you would have been down for a several hours of time with me?
 
In the meantime having "prepped" my self for what I was hoping would be a wonderful couple of hours enjoying my favorite hobby (black dick), I had hopped on Rentmen and discovered a very hot black top that was nearby and ready. Made the call, he was there in a few minutes. It wasn't the passionate evening I had hoped for but wow did he deliver when it came to black dick. And I was indeed crashed out before 1a.
 
When I mentioned that I had hired someone else I just wasn't thinking about how much that sounded like I was bragging about it. Part of it was to be clear that I had now used funds that I had planned for our evening. I can see where I come off sounding like a dick by saying anything about it.
 
So that's my side of all this. Unfortunately this is now two times that I've really tried to put together an awesome evening and it just didn't work out. I think I'll stick to one hour and done from now on.

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Well I was wondering if this would wind up being aired out on Daddy's, so here goes.
 
I'm the attempted hirer here.
 
I only hire when I'm traveling and that frequently means only having time to hire once per trip, not due to monetary reasons, but time constraints. When I'm traveling I'm doing safety training all weekend and it's pretty rigidly timed out. I have very little free time. I also no longer get along on a couple of hours of sleep a night if I'll be in charge of running this training the next day.
 
As Mocha pointed out we did hookup a couple of years ago in Las Vegas. It was the first longer-than-an-hour-or-two meeting I had ever planned on. We were going to have dinner at a steakhouse then head to my room. Everything was set and a date and time was agreed upon. He was driving with a friend from somewhere in the area and started running late, and had to check-in at their hotel, then get ready, then get to me, etc. So I had dinner by myself and hooked up with him for a couple of hours later that night.
 
So we kinda kept up through PMs here discussing various subjects. I've always liked his style here on the forums and felt like he got a bad rap for bitching so much.
 
On April 8 I sent an email asking if he was going to be in his home town of Orlando later in the month (27th-30th).
On April 10 he answered "....I say put me down for this month, as I’m here now. I may go out of town in between now and then,b but I have some things going on here in Orlando that I need to stay tended to. So if I do go, it would only be for a couple weeks."
On April 11th I wrote that Friday the 27th would be the best for me for a variety of reasons. I did say in that email "I'd really like to be crashed out by midnight as I have to be on my feet doing the meet-and-greet thing all day Sat and Sun. If Friday night isn't good for you Saturday or Sunday night would work just not quite as convenient. "
On April 22nd he emailed me his rates which included one-hour, two-hour, evening, and all night sessions.
On April 23rd I reiterated my desire for an "evening" and told him I would let him know how early on Friday I'd be free.
On April 25th he emailed me: "
Hey there Kevin, just following back up with you. So give me the run down on your availability in Orlando again. You mentioned Friday night you’d be getting in, or is Friday the 1 night you’d be able to meet while you’re in town?
On April 26th Mocha texted: "just noticed you said you’d be in Orlando Friday thru Monday. So I take it Saturday will be open for you as well? I ask because I’m traveling back from up north tomorrow and on Friday...and would prefer to leave a little buffer time and meet with you Saturday or Sunday even if possible. Either way, let’s go for it"
On April 26th I answered "I can be available Saturday night. My flight on Monday is really early and I’ve gotta pack up all the training materials etc., that I’m traveling with Sunday night so that night is out."
 
At this point I did something that I thought was pretty creative and a great way to communicate my wants/needs/fantasies that I hoped the evening would provide. I did it by pre-writing a Daddy's review. I then sent it to Mocha reminding him of one of the mottos of the boards here "communication".
 
At this point I had purchased a quite nice bottle of Pinot Grigio which I remembered he liked and had identified a nearby restaurant that I knew and loved for dinner and had managed to weasel out of a dinner business meeting. I had also tired like hell to remember (and research here on the forum) what his favorite lube is. I remember a thread a long time ago about him having a bottle swiped. I thought I was being pretty thoughtful to remember the wine he likes and the lube thing. I also remembered he likes spiced bourbon with OJ. I offered to have an Uber pick him up and deliver him back in case, like me, he was planning on drinking.
 
So I spent Friday night, not having a date with Mocha but editing a bunch of videos which took me till 230a
 
April 27th Saturday just after noon I get a text "Just a little heads up on my end 7p may be too soon for me to meet . I will be traveling this afternoon."
My answer "I just really need to be crashed out by midnight....." In my mind this is starting to sound a LOT like the previous meeting we had.
I asked "so what do you think is a realistic time for tonight?"
His answer: "9:30-10p. I'm supposed to be getting into Orlando around 745p" At this point I didn't know he was driving and assumed the airlines had really fucked him over.
My Answer: "That's going to be too late. I was really hoping for the whole evening thing"
He offered a prorated all night rate. If I had been on vacation I would have jumped at the chance but an overnight does me no good. He also offered Sunday anytime but there was no way I was going to try to make that work.
At that point he joked that he had something that would keep me up (just to be clear we're not talking drugs here). He said "Florida nights end at 4a LOL"
My answer: (still thinking we're now looking at 930-10), "I'll be ready. We can still start with drinks at the lobby bar. My floor is card access only"
He wondered if there was another restaurant in the area that was open later as he would be hungry when he got there.
At 9:30p I texted him asking how he was doing on time?
He said he was hoping before midnight but was "pushing almost 1130p"
I told I can't go on for a second night of only a couple of hours of sleep.
He texted around 1140p asking if there was anyway we could get together on sunday.
 
Dude, if you'd been driving for 9 hours or whatever you said upthread here do you really think you would have been down for a several hours of time with me?
 
In the meantime having "prepped" my self for what I was hoping would be a wonderful couple of hours enjoying my favorite hobby (black dick), I had hopped on Rentmen and discovered a very hot black top that was nearby and ready. Made the call, he was there in a few minutes. It wasn't the passionate evening I had hoped for but wow did he deliver when it came to black dick. And I was indeed crashed out before 1a.
 
When I mentioned that I had hired someone else I just wasn't thinking about how much that sounded like I was bragging about it. Part of it was to be clear that I had now used funds that I had planned for our evening. I can see where I come off sounding like a dick by saying anything about it.
 
So that's my side of all this. Unfortunately this is now two times that I've really tried to put together an awesome evening and it just didn't work out. I think I'll stick to one hour and done from now on.

I'd like to take it much further than that and say THANK YOU Guy for sticking up for freedom of speech.
 
https://www.theverge.com/2018/3/23/17155110/craigslist-personal-ads-anti-sex-trafficking-bill
 
Anybody who runs a website is now vulnerable. Whether it's Craiglists personals or Twitter missed connections, it's understandable that many are making a decision to just go silent. That is a sad day for freedom of speech.
 
So every day we get to come to this online community is also a reason to celebrate and be grateful.
 
We haven't stopped being a country governed by the rule of law, judges, and juries. Lawyers can argue whatever they want, and politicians can pass misguided laws. But that doesn't mean rule of law or elections or common sense just goes away.
 
My hope is that we all double down on fierce devotion to freedom of speech. Part of the problem with Backpage is that while they used freedom of speech as a defense, it appears they actually were making millions of dollars in ads involving sex trafficking. I don't see ads like that here. So every day we are practicing and defending freedom of speech, I think the purpose of this forum speaks for itself.
 
My hope is that we also all double down on fierce devotion to fighting sex trafficking. Whether you call it FOSTA or SESTA, the key words in both bills are sex trafficking. The core goals are to stop enabling sex traffickers, and to empower the victims of sex trafficking. It's pretty clear that how we do that is going to get way more complicated for a while. Forget for a minute about "facilitating prostitution." We've now just entered a Twilight Zone were there are AI-based website filters that will try to figure out whether people talking about going to a floral shop or buying a used car online are actually sex traffickers in disguise. The dust hasn't even begun to settle. And at least one company - Recognant - is selling the idea that up to 20,000 words or phrases may be suspect. It's understandable to me why some people or websites might just prefer silence if there are now 20,000 unique ways to sound like a sex trafficker.
 
As a community of predominantly older Gay men, we know more than a little bit about being victims of oppression. We know what it's like to live in a country where the way you want to have consensual sex with other Gay adults is a crime. We know what it's like to live in a country where you can't meet the man of your dreams, fall in love, get married, and have the same legal protections as everyone else. We've been in the victim role a lot. So it's not hard to relate to the victims of sex trafficking. One thing I actually like about the current environment is that every American who goes online is getting an education, like it or not, about how this is a national problem that won't just go away.
 
I think the plain meanings of words and the subtext of words eventually speak for themselves. Ultimately, Backpage could not hide what they were doing. Ultimately, I think the best way to thank Guy is to be what we are: an online community of LGBTQ people of every political persuasion that is passionately for freedom of speech and passionately against sexual oppression and sexual exploitation, including sex trafficking. If Guy ever has to defend this website and this community in front of a judge or jury or the editorial board of The New York Times, I think that is our best defense.
 
Walker1 is right that if you don't defend your freedoms, you lose them.
 
For me today is a day to ground ourselves in being a community that respects each other, has nothing to hide, and has lots to be proud of. I'm drinking to that at Oliver's pool party this weekend. Actually, I may drink to it a lot.
 
Thank you, Guy, for guiding us wisely through this storm. I hope we will have many more parties and reasons to celebrate in the years to come.

WOW I actually made it to the end of this thread. From page 1 through 1360. Not all at once of course.

WOW I actually made it to the end of this thread. From page 1 through 1360. Not all at once of course.

WOW I actually made it to the end of this thread. From page 1 through 1360. Not all at once of course.

Are you near a Walmart or a Target? Go stand for an hour or so at the entrance of a store like that and look at all the men entering or leaving. Any of them could be your prospective client. How do you feel about being stark naked in a room with any of them? Can you deal with any of them fondling your genitals? Can you imagine kissing them? Will be able to get aroused and have sex with them - top or bottom?
 
These are the questions you should ask yourself - in all honesty.

I'm a firm believer that the dimensions of Readers' Digest magazine were intentionally engineered so as to fit perfectly on top of the toilet tank.

At home, I never go for a number 2 without my ipad.

You know what I like, second only to the arms of the guys in this post is that most of them are SMILING, or at least smirking. Jeez if I had arms and bodies like that you'd never get the grin off my face.
 
So my chief like is the arms...arms and grin...grin and arms.... My two chief likes are arms and the grin...and the abs.... My *three* chief likes about these guys are arms, grins, and abs...and an almost fanatical devotion to the Pope.... My *four*...no... *Amongst* my chief likes about these guys....are arms, grins.... I'll come in again.
 
smiles to Monty Python

I am with you about the grins. Muscle arms and grins are the best. But for some reason a lot of the guys seem unhappy while having these unbelievable bodies. Maybe they need us to comfort them?

Thank you for the suggestions. I've bookmarked all of them in my Maps app. I normally don't have any free time when I'm on a trip there but this month I actually have two full days (and nights) to myself. In years past I would NEVER venture across the river and into the city. I could only think of MadMax movies. Now that I've realized how quick and easy it is I'm really looking forward to it.

Love Girl Scout Cookies. That was the one I started with when I discovered how easy it was to have it delivered right to the hotel room. I'm especially interested in
Northern Light and/or Somango XL now. Those are the ones that seem to be rated highest for sex.

I discovered the joy of having weed delivered right to my hotel in California last year after a quick online "consultation" with a "medical professional".
 
I'm heading back that way soon and plan on making a re-order. I've never had the availability of choosing from different strains or types so I'm just wondering if there's any in particular that you like for enhancing having sex?

I discovered the joy of having weed delivered right to my hotel in California last year after a quick online "consultation" with a "medical professional".
 
I'm heading back that way soon and plan on making a re-order. I've never had the availability of choosing from different strains or types so I'm just wondering if there's any in particular that you like for enhancing having sex?

Rule of thumb: Trim the bushes out front, and completely remove anything out back.

OK here's a follow-up on why I chose to not write a review. I made a stupid mistake of using my company cell phone to contact him. I usually have a burner phone for when I'm in the states but I'd lost it. A Google search of that phone will lead to my business profile and also another side business I have. Whereas this guy probably doesn't know anything about Daddy's (he's not reviewed) I do know that Daddy will reach out to him for a reply. That's a match to a fire that I'm not willing to light.
 
Also, I note that his profile doesn't show up on A4A anymore in Chicago. I don't remember his screen name so I can't search to see if he's in other cities.
 
So lesson learned.
 
One thing I also learned, from a member here to whom I had reached out is to use Google Voice as a way of using my company phone without it being traceable. I still haven't been able to make it work yet. I think it's because I'm out of the country. It's not saying that specifically but it's also not working.