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Yes, the cheese state is realistic regarding drinking. Loved to visit the supper clubs up in the northwoods. They're actually very family friendly, not just places to just get drunk. A woman I used to work with once told me her son (who at the time she told me this was then in his 20s) took his first steps on the bar at a supper club.

Last escort I hired said he would leave the door ajar and I was to just walk in (no knocking).

Thought they already could.

Agree. I you can join the military, vote, you should be able partake of all adult activities.

When I turned 18, legal drinking age was 18. It didn't change to 21 until after I turned 21. (side note regarding age restricted products: My mother would occasionally send me to the store, when I was around 8 or 9 years old, to get her a pack of cigarettes. I put 35 cents into the machine, pull her brand, and there were 2 pennies taped to the pack, that I got to keep. Not once did anyone in the store stop me from doing this.)

I booked a one hour appointment with a non-US guy at least 3 weeks in advance via email, maybe more. When he got to town on a Friday, he texted me to confirm. I responded that I caught a cold, and thought it best to cancel our appointment, scheduled for the following Tuesday. No real response from him told me he was not happy, and probably would not consider a future meeting.

Very true.

You're not the only one.

Consider whether this great offer will fund your future retirement, or will it just maintain a current lifestyle. If only for today, the money will be gone, but the porn is still there.

I think most of us would prefer a personal appearance.

The video clips help to retain interest too.

In my very limited experience, I've never requested it either way. It just happened. Either I went there, or he went there. I’ve only rimmed three guys, and just briefly. Just one has rimmed me (twice). I’ve discovered I love getting rimmed. One of the three guys I rimmed once planted his ass on my face. I began to think he could smother me, so I started to spank his ass, and he raised it. I think he thought the spanks were part of the play because just as I was leaving, he commented that he thought my rimming was enthusiastic. Next time we meet, I’ll tell him.

Not yet. (and they have both since passed away)

Glad to hear he was a good experience for you. He never responded to my inquiry.

Anyone meet with him in the last few weeks? https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/relaxbynikos.shtml

Until you said this, You could have been talking about Chicago. I live in a condo in a close in suburb, with easy access to the city via the train, and more and more, when I walk through my parking garage, I see more and more Chicago city stickers on cars (just another tax we all pay, not limited to Chicago, but Chicago's "car" tax is in the hundreds, ours just went up to a little less than $50). I seriously considered a move into the city, but a recently passed property tax hike in Chicago, made me think I'll stay put.

I remember when reviews on Masseurfinder would occasionally have a review from a staff member of Masseurfinder. Don't see them anymore, but my impression was the reviewer walked in as any other client, and paid the going rate. I prefer the term "stink eye"

Last two guys I've met, one for only the 2nd time, the other several times, have been very generous with their time and have gone over the hour. Makes me feel I'm more than just a client, and they want to spend time with me.

Two escorts I've met had mothers younger than me. One by three years, the other by almost 10 years.

I'm not so sure. My mother rarely traveled back to her native country, but the couple of times she did, it was days before I could understand what she was saying in English. If a language is not used consistently, it gets a little lost.

Never heard people use borrow in that way until I moved to Chicago, and never have elsewhere.

When I was 9, no more than 10 years old. There was an older kid who lived down the street. He was about 12, maybe 13. It was 50 years ago, so I don’t recall a lot of details, what happened first, or the sequence of events, but I remember 3 things. Whether true or false memories, I can’t tell you. One was we were in his room (a basement bedroom) and we were on his bed, and each of us had our hands down the other’s pants fondling each other. I didn’t know it at the time, but I think what I felt from his dick was precum. I don’t remember thinking that anything we were doing was wrong. Another time, he wanted me to watch when he took a shit. He squatted away from the toilet, towards me, and I saw it just beginning to slowly come out, then, he turned around and sat on the toilet, and I left the bathroom. The other time I remember, it was summer, and we were in his pool (one of those 2-3 foot above ground pools that never lasted for more than a summer). His parents were sitting in lawn chairs about 20 feet away, and his mom was talking to us. We were both at the edge, facing them, next to each other, just our heads above water. He put his hands in my bathing suit, and I in his, all while he was talking to his mother. From that point, all my experiences were with women. I enjoyed them. It was not until almost 60, I decided to “try before you die”, and experience and adult man/man experience, when I also hired for the first time. And yes, I enjoy them too. However, as of this post, I’m still an anal virgin.

Understand. When in my early 50's, my company declared bankruptcy, and the pension plan was terminated. My anticipated pension - cut in half. Too young to retire, but too old to make enough money at the same job to save/invest to make up the lost monthly income.

Never complain about pain. It's always telling you something, but not always something bad. As for being super sensitive, I looked a Medallo's ad, and think he could make a lot of guys sensitive in that area.

I've had several cystoscopies done. Years ago, the urologist used long, thin, rigid rods and moved them around to look inside the bladder. That hurt, some pain after, and a lot of bladder spasms after where I had to get to the bathroom and pee. It would be several weeks each time before I even thought about sex. Stopped going to that urologist after a five years when all clear (there were follow ups for bladder cancer). Talking to my doctor a year or so ago, he thought it a good idea to follow up again with a urologist (just to be sure), so found a new urologist. They no longer use the long rigid rods, but a flexible one so the procedure I had earlier this year was extremely comfortable in comparison to the old ones. Some pressure during, completely fine after. Good luck.