Just something from my limited experience, but sometimes the 2nd meet is not as anticipated. Not necessarily bad, just not as hot as imagined.
I hadn't hired much, but a couple of winters ago, I decided to get out of the cold and go down south. A guy I had met only once before was going to be in the same city. It was pretty much the reason I decided to go there. I, no doubt, over anticipated what our second time together would be like, because it wasn't exactly the dream come true I built up in my mind anticipating our next meet. My naiveté.
I still hear from him occasionally, and will meet him again if our schedules match, but I'll be a bit wiser.