MikeyGMin

I’m sure none of you REALLY know what a pimp is.

I happen to agree with you that there is a space in this industry for managers who are very much not pimps. They take on the work of answering all the many messages, screening clients and particularly provide benefit if there are language issues. I also agree that control is the key distinguishing factor -- not the arranging of the clients.

However, you take it too far in proclaiming that none of us could really know what a pimp is. That's just silly. You don't have to be a drug addict to know what a drug dealer is. You don't have to have been molested to know what a pedophile is.

Last night we had the kiss between the two gay characters. Sweet! They really got into it but the scene was way too short!

Way too short after all that buildup!

Now my little old man is wondering why dad is crying.

Dogs have been one of my life's greatest pleasures and biggest heartbreaks. I can only hope he goes as peacefully.

RIP Ben.

Puppetmasters usually dont come out winners !

Derrick pulled it off in season 16 and Dan all the way back in season 10. They were both Puppet Masters but they remained loyal to a core that supported them in the jury. Their social game was good enough that when the opposing side was in power, they were not the target (Derrick) or could sweet talk themselves out of it (Dan.) They had very little blood on their hands so very little animosity in the jury.

Bump. Has anyone taken the plunge since he's been in Houston? He's reached out to me based on a prior communication, but I'm not getting a warm and fuzzy. I think the pictures are probably accurate, but no indication that performances up to par.

Take my word, @Corporate Shill, if you'd tried watching Josh's season, you'd likely tire of it very quickly. Paul, the only returning player, got everyone to follow him and each and every time one of them went against him, they were the next houseguest voted out! No one (except perhaps Jessica and Cody) even tried to play the game!

 

He got everyone out until they were down to the final three, Christmas, Josh and himself, believing he could get the jury vote over either of the other two. Surprise Paul! Once the jury members compared notes, their votes were directed at making Paul the loser over Josh. So it was not so much that Josh won, but that Paul lost. I truly believe that if Christmas (who was on crutches after an accidental injury sustained early in the game, so unable to participate in many of the competitions) had been sitting with Paul in the final two instead of Josh, she would have been the winner!

 

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At least in Paul's first season he had the redeeming quality of being in an unfortunate early Alliance that made him the underdog narrowly escaping eviction each week. If I remember correctly he suffered the same fate. Making it into the finals but being hated by the jury,

It doesn't hurt to pay some compliments, just don't sound obsessive. "I think you are really hot" "I love your smile" "I'm a big fan of your porn work" are all good.

Lol. There's not a man alive who doesn't like a genuine compliment. (Okay. There was poster here a while ago who couldn't stand any kind of comment good or bad.)

I see a young man who has an absolutely PERFECT body -- for my taste. At some point I invariably take it all in with my eyes and tell him that he's perfect. He blushes and claims that he is not, but I can tell he likes hearing it.

I'm not sure of the logistics of even attempting bringing someone to me.

The logistics of going to see someone you have never met are soooo much easier. As long as you are going to a city that has other escorts available to become Plan B, you also avoid the risk of putting all of your eggs in one basket.

I learned this lesson the hard way. I had communicated with a young porn performer quite extensively through Twitter and felt like I had a good sense of his personality. Within hours of him arriving, one of the very things I found fun about him -- his quick wit and smart ass personality -- became very annoying. It was a disaster but I had all my eggs in that one basket and just had to grin and bear it.

Mr. Purefoy also let it all hang out in Rome.

I've always thought that James Purefoy was one of the sexiest actors out there. Ever since his small role in "A Knights Tale." The scene where he proclaims Heath Ledger a true Lord of the Realm and says, "My word is in-con-test-able!" Swoon. I've tried to watch everything he's been in. He was a sexy beast in "Rome."

Quick update guys.

 

I must say. For someone who say he isn't gay and never fooled around with other guys, he sucked cock really well

 

And yes, there was a “gift” involved.

Excellent! It's great to hear that you seized the moment and had a good time. Just sending messages to an Instagram hottie takes some balls, so you should deservedly be proud that you lived the "nothing ventured nothing gained principle."

New Yorkers are pussies if someone doesn't step up and check this guy out.

:D:D:D

I did listen to most of your suggestions to meet in a public place in case he goes Patrick Bateman aka American Pyscho on me. So we arranged to met at Santa Monica pier at 230pm. He lived in the area and I didn’t mind driving. We did the standard greeting Hi hello it’s nice to meet you. He’s even better in the flesh.

 

He suggested we walk around the area and I was more than happy to do that. As we walked he did ask me if I was gay. I told him I was a flaming queen (and a top) which he responded with a hearty laugh. I asked him if he got hit on by a lot of guys either on Instagram or at clubs etc. Pretty much he said but that it didn’t bother him. This time I was the one asking more questions. Are you gay (no). Fooled around with other guys (jerked off with other guys (or so he tells me) and checked out other guys dicks). Have you met any of your Instagram fans (rarely) or accepted any indecent proposals (no but have been tempted a few times). Why did you decide to meet me I asked. He responded because I was a local and I have met some of his acquaintances. He didn’t say friends, just acquaintances. He must have gone through my Instagram posts.

 

I asked him why he suggested ‘spending a few hours with me’. He said in our earlier messages I mentioned to him I’m like the white rabbit in the movie Alice in Wonderland and that I’m always on the run on weekends. He’s a smart hot guy.

 

I ‘jokingly’ told him I thought he was a rentboy on the side when he said spend a few hours with me. He just gave me a grin.

 

We swapped numbers and planned another catch up. I told him this weekend would be good as I’m flying to Australia in 2 weeks for the Mardi Gras.

 

Friday night. His place.

Someone -- either he or you -- is still being very coy about whether the young man will receive a "gift" for his attention.

I am hating on CBS right now. Big Brother is my absolute favorite show, but I cannot stomach watching anything with Omarosa in it. It physically repulses me.

I am able to 'click' on a client name in the review section of someone's profile on both a desktop and iPhone.

However, I cannot 'click' after I flip over to the mobile version of the site. I go back to the "full site" and am again able to see clients' profiles.

 

I get a fair number of emails from other clients asking about my reviews.

Aahhh. That would be it. I always use the mobile version of the site on a mobile device. Good to know!

"Conversations" shouldn't be considered private.

Well, yes and no. I think of them as personal messages. Of course the system admins can look at them, but I consider it extremely bad form to reveal the contents of a PM on the open board.

Thanks. I don’t think you can do that on the mobile app so I’ll try it on my laptop.

You are correct. I have never been able to figure out how to do it from a mobile device. Maybe someone smarter has figured it out, but it's very easy from a laptop.

I noticed on my last trip to Costa Rica were using the slang word "bae". It means "dude" there. Oops. The word is "mae" not "bae"

That's funny. A Venezuelan friend of mine was just telling me the other day how much that annoyed him when he was in Costa Rica.

One of my favorite things in the world to do is to get this Venezuelan, my Costa Rican friend and a couple Mexicans "discussing" who speaks the best Spanish after we've had a few drinks. It is hilarious.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=boo

 

I've heard the word "boo" used lately. It means boyfriend. It comes from the French beau.

These days it comes closer to meaning something along the lines of "babe." It's just a mild term of endearment. I suppose it could mean boyfriend if you say something like, "he's my boo" but it could just as easily mean "he's my close friend."

You cannot.

You must sent the admin a message and they can.

 

 

About 3 weeks ago I posted a nice review for a guy who wished to keep a low profile. He asked me to delete it. I looked into it and found that only admins can delete then. The removed it immediately upon my request.

This.

Unless you deleted it, you should still have an email in you inbox from the Web Master telling you that your review has been posted. You can reply to that email and explain the situation and they will undoubtedly delete it.

I ALWAYS strip completely naked. Seems to me that leaving your underwear on is almost signaling that you don't want that area touched, and it would lead to an awkward moment over when you take them off.

Not intended to be snarky, but the answer is simple. Because I can.

There are beautiful young men -- who would have been out of my league even when I was their age -- willing to do the job. It's the ultimate luxury and I can afford it at this point in my life.

I wouldn't be shy about sending someone a PM in the manor described above. I think the complaints you may have seen recently were related to overly crude or graphic messages. I'm sure some guys love talking about every thrust and spurt that occurs, but you need to know your audience.

I think "massage guys" have it particularly difficult because if you are inquiring about someone what you really want to know is how far he will go. That requires a certain level of trust that you might not have right away with the person you were contacting.

Then, by all means, lets hear the experiences of others who have left escorting and become successful. No one would love to hear of those examples more than me ! Isn't that what this thread was supposed to be?

Clearly there is something going on that has skewed your experience. As @escortrod has been pointing out you seem to have a selection bias towards gay for pay, which in my opinion, means you are starting out with a group more likely to have issues. Also your age. I don't mean that as a put-down, but it means your early hiring days were a long time ago when the stigma was severe, so once again you were dealing with a group more likely to have issues and be desperate.

Right now off the top of my head, my four favorite escorts all have stable lives, career plans either in the adult industry or in another career field. They don't have any drug problems and they all have health insurance and beautiful teeth. They are fit and healthy and know where their life is headed and living life on their own terms.

There has to be a selection difference that makes your experiences so drastically different than mine.

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I would have to disagree here. This would assume both that the other person does not suspect/know about what is going on and that what you are doing is for their benefit. If you are not honest, they may be hurt. Not being totally honest does not give them a chance to make a decision they may wish to make. As I said previously, they may surprise you with the decision they make. Certainly, we all have a right to be selfish. We can have that extra piece of cake or smoke a cigarette when we like. What we don't have a right to be selfish about is a situation that involves the feelings of others so directly. If you feel that you need to have sex with men then tell your partner that. You don't have a right to be selfish and skirt the issue. I have learned this the hard way. I was living with someone and the sex was starting to get a little stale. We talked about it but I did not think it was getting better. So I decided to be selfish and go out very occasionally to satisfy my craving. My partner found out eventually and that was that. The ironic thing was that after he found out he said that he would have been just fine with the occasional threesome and actually he felt the same thing. So, I do not think you have a right to be selfish when it involves the intimate emotions and feelings of others.

I couldn't agree with you more. When it involves another person you don't have the right to be dishonest so that you can have your cake and eat it too. You don't have the right to destroy other people's lives because you don't have the courage to be honest.

One of my nieces has just gone through the trauma of finding out that her husband was playing around with men on the side. I do have some sympathy for older guys who married young in an attempt to suppress their desire for men, but this little scumbag was only 25 years old when they married 5 years ago. There is no excuse in this day and age to go into a marriage with such an important secret.

Yes he has seen pictures of me. He follows me on Instagram.

 

I agree. Meet and greet would be the way to go. I don’t think he has anything sinister planned. He has a famous face and bod :D

Do some reasonable due diligence. Is his Instagram his actual name, can you find anything to verify that name and his address. If that all checks out, I don't see this as a particularly hazardous venture. People meet and/or hook up via Instagram ALL the time.

As far as the expectation that he may have about compensation. You know what he looks like and he knows what you look like. Honestly evaluate the situation using the general norms of hooking up. He's a model with a great body. I assume he's young.

Would you be competitive if meeting him at a bar? Or are you an average guy 20 or more years older than him? If it's the latter you should at least be prepared to compensate him if you are interested in having sex with him. If you've never said anything about being generous and he's never mentioned money, I would not bring it up before meeting him, but if things started getting heated I would certainly bring it up before the sex.