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You were supposedly 28 years old, 15 years ago when I met you !! 28 + 15 = 43 Stop gaslighting everyone. We get it. You want to advertise as a young guy. But the Forum here isn't buying what your selling. So you can stop trying. I'm sure you are still ok looking for your age. But clearly you're not "late 30s". Even your photo above shows the body of a man in his 40s. There's plenty of men who like a mature man. I see no reason to pretend to be what you're not.

Well... Thank you for that sermon. In REALITY: most businesses that take a lot of cash, do NOT report 100% of their cash income. Although I do appreciate the ideology of being honest. When it comes to the Government ...your "honesty" needs to be modified to avoid being fleeced. When you have mixed income (credit cards, checks and cash) or when you are an ALL cash business...what you do is look at what you SPENT...and report THAT. Because that's what they look at if you're ever audited by the IRS. You never want to be in a situation where you claimed an income of $30k but you spent (on record) $45k that year. That's a red flag for an IRS investigation. And to be clear, I'm not talking running up your credit card. If you haven't paid down that credit, you didn't actually spend it. I mean whatever they see coming through your accounts as cash you had...they wanna see that (at minimum) on your report. Your friend should also be aware there's a minimum income bracket below which no taxes are owed. Above that point, if he can't make business deductions to cover the excess, then he's going to OWE taxes, not "get a refund".

Correct. And refreshing.

Seems to me it would be easier for a provider to spread his legs and look away when he's got some rando he's gotta sexually satisfy. Keeping it up as a TOP while you plow a 68 year old, beached whale is more of a challenge. So perhaps it's just easier to lay there and let them do the work, after many encounters with unappealing clients.

Thank you "Yoni" for suddenly feeling the need to discredit everything that everyone's said about "Sagi" (whos real name, as I recall, is Yani). Amazing how he "looks the same" as his photos from 2009. He clearly has found the fountain of youth and drunk from it.

Well ...unless he's been paying a quarterly estimated income tax, he's not getting a "refund". You only get a refund if your actual income is less than your estimated income deductions by an employer (or installments if you're self employed).

I don't think it's a mark it up / mark it down sale-price situation as much as they want your business MORE when you're an easy lay. So it's an incentive price for the 40 year old fit daddy and an extra fee for enduring the 68 year old sweaty whale with saggy balls... I didn't collect any photographic evidence here on C.o.M. but I do pay attention to some of the gentlemen here. Age and physical condition are sometimes shared...so I have a visual picture in my mind of a few people who like the same providers that I like.

Nice kid. Pix are accurate. Massage was ok. Probably a better match for a deli meet anyway. I had a better time after the massage 😉. Rent.men profile posted above. Asking price was within normal range for Manhattan. I would repeat.

For those with a fetish for being molested by their creepy old uncle.

So if he's not so hot...then why would anyone WANT to kiss him ? 🤔

No. Unlike many people here, I have no problem providing photos of myself before a meet. Even when I initially reach-out I say I am a "53 y.o.athletic/healthy married bi male". That description often leads to being quoted a reasonable rate and sometimes launches a request for photos. That further gets me a better rate, becasue I don't mind sharing a photo. They sent me theirs. Why not send my own.

I disagree on both points. I have run across MANY examples where members here paid significantly more than I did. But those clients were also much older and fatter than I am. That said.... the industry is sort of split between providers who can fuck anything that moves and those who are more selective about their clientele. It's neither a good or bad business practice just a different skill set for each. Some will hold their nose and close their eyes for extra $. Other's just will decline the customer. And some will offer discounted rater for younger, better looking men who have provided photos to prove they are an easier meet up. What I DO agree with from @marylander1940 is that a weekly or monthly client will often get better pricing for regular service.

This is funny mainly because it's not necessarily untrue. 😉

Well...unless I'm mistaken, you're not bisexual...so I don't think YOUR experience as a gay man would be the same as mine. Geography had a lot to do with our experiences too. I live in NYC, where straight men are not always so afraid to express camaraderie with people of another sexual nature. I speak only from my own experience and don't suggest everyone's experiences are the same. But I can say quite clearly that the most disparaging remarks I get about being bisexaul come from gay men, not straight men.

Am I ? I don't think that's true. There are several men here who identify as bisexual. Gays never believe me. Straight people accept the bisexual classification more readily. For some reason if you like to suck dick the gays expect you to immediately join their club.

Gay" is a moniker used for "homosexual". You and I seem to be using different definitions of the word. There is no "ridicule" intrinsic to the definition I am using.

Sorry. That's just NOT been my experience. AT ALL.. My straight friends are FAR more accepting than most of the gay people I meet who roll their eyes when I say I'm bisexual. There are several gentlemen here on C.o.M. who have done the same. It's sad because you'd think that gay men woukd be less judgemental. But they arent.

Two of these photos were very the same ones I saw 15 years ago when I met him. Ancient history at this point.

Thanks. He's still very handsome after many years in the business.

I'm about the same age as you. Never had a problem with safe sex and I still don't. I literally used to teach a workshop with a safe sex outreach program for gay men to learn to avoid HIV transmission. Now it seems everyone is avoiding HIV with PreP but couldn't care less about the damage every other STI could and will inflict on their bodies. So..no. I don't feel jealous. I feel sad for these kids who have blinders on.

I understand that. Maybe it should have been. In my experience, a lot of closeted men struggle most with the gay=effeminate narrative. I would never suggest to anyone struggling with their sexual identity that they must make a binary sexual selection. There's a huge range of gray-area sexuality for many people. It can cause a lot of confusion to push someone to label themselves as "gay"before they have accepted that moniker for their own life.

Bisexuality isn't a label. It's a human condition with a wide range of expressions. I don't subscribe to this idea that you need to pick a side. Lots of men lead fairly mainstream heterosexual lifestyles but have desire for same sex encounters. Those who are conflicted about those feelings often express that conflict through homophobic rhetoric.

Marketing the "maybe". I might be gay.... ....me too !!

Great photos. There's quite a lot of handsome men coming out of Columbia lately. Reminds me of the rush of Rio de Janeiro rent boys in the mid 2000s.

Homophobic gay men is nothing new. But curious what you mean when you say "he's telling me he's gay". What is it you said to him that made him defensive ? His attitude that there's "no such thing as bi" is an emotional storm cloud for many men who identify as straight but also enjoy sexual contact with male partners..so any kind of teasing can come off as humiliation rather than humor. Personally, I avoid labels of gay and straight and view everyone as being potentially flexible in terms of attraction and how they choose to express themselves to the world. Sadly, homosexuals themselves are quick to suggest that sucking one dick automatically makes you gay as if there's no gray area in one's identity. So this can be frustrating for bisexuals.