pubic_assistance

Some of you guys are confusing this situation with an escort hire. @Coolwave35 met this fellow on Seeking Arrangments, not Rent.men. So there should be no relating his financial expectations with those of a high paid escort. I think agreeing to pay someone's rent is an excellent offer. It's like having a trust fund set up. I am not surprised he is fucking his brains out with Coolwave in response to such a generous offer. 🍆🍑💰💰💰🤑

Am I looking at the same profile 🤔? "Hot" ? He couldn't be more ordinary. You can find this kinda guy cruising the toilets at any roadside rest in America. I am confused. Why would you PAY to be with somebody this old and out of shape ? Is this some sort of fetish ?

Because it's a sex club.

Agreed. Sitges is a laid back beach/bar scene. Puerto Vallarta has a greater variety of debauchery available for sex tourism.

When I was young we used to do GHB for private orgies. I assumed that was included in PnP although not as common as Meth.

Thanks @DrownedBoy UHC is already starting the gaslighting and propaganda.

Wow. File this one under: "who would you pay $1000 to fuck"

And where do we find you ? @DamizzonNYC

I've had similar experiences. Hired one fellow for a massage. Ended up fucking him way past the scheduled hour. Invited him to dinner. Returned to my room for another hour of fun. Hung out till midnight chatting and met him the following day at the Tate Modern to see an exhibit we both had an interest in seeing. Then back to my hotel for more sex and then a nice lunch. A very bright intelligent and handsome young man. Who was a university student doing escort/massage to make extra cash. He's working now and no longer escorting but I still see him when I'm alone in London for dinner and a hot fuck.

True. London is expensive. But only central London. You can literally walk to counsel housing flats from every point in the city. I've always found the prices for providers in London to be very reasonable. And the company is usually very respectful too. I usually end up buying dinner and chatting with them after sex. I've met some very bright young men in London who escort on the side.

Love the chick still wearing a mask, FOUR years after the epidemic ended. Brainwashing runs deep in some. Stupidity runs deeper.

All agreed. But... I never minded when (certain) people joined in. And I am not shy about swatting undesirables away. Like you said..there's always that ONE guy who can't read the room and appears out of nowhere wanting to kiss me mid-orgasm...thus ruining my whole vibe. Obviously when I say "public" ..I meant a segment of the public in a bathhouse. I thought that was obvious and didn't need explaining.

Well..THAT is exactly why I don't think a public setting is ideal if a couple doesn't want people joining in. PAY for what you want..don't expect it to randomly happen as you wish, when you're subjected to the general public.

You may be correct. I haven't been to a bathhouse for years. But when I used to go regularly, there would be a LOT of pushing people away if I wanted a one-on-one (I rarely did). Maybe people are more shy and less eager to join than they used to be.

I wonder how many years he's been "29" ? 🤔

Boxing day! What are you returning or regifting? We always called it Saint Stephen's day. It was the day you went to visit family who you didn't see Christmas Eve or Chistmas day. Today is Saint John day. When you visit your close friends for Christmas. ( "Saint John the beloved" was known as the closest and most beloved friend and disciple of Jesus. ) So today we celebrate our most beloved friends. My wife and I are hosting friends tonight. Been cooking yet another holiday meal since 3:00pm today. Schnitzel and Rotkohl mit Spaetzle

Exactly. He used to be kinda cute. Not so, now. I haven't been a member of Equinox since the early 2000's so it was probably 20 years ago...

Africa's a big continent. Where specifically are you interested in ?

He's gonna have a rough 40 if his body looks that grizzled at 27.

Seems that a public setting is the wrong place to be in such control of your environment. I've been a huge fan of public sex for many years and MY experience is that it's difficult to prevent people from joining in when they want to. I would consider hiring a voyeur or two if that's your turn on. You have complete control of the scenario that way.

Except I was the one cumming...😉

Personally...I don't even fuck people, now until after I've spent some time with them first. That's why I prefer to hire a provider for a massage in a first meet.

THAT is the part I find MOST baffling about this situation with @Coolwave35. I simply can't imagine inviting ANYONE (no matter how attractive) to spend a week with me, without having previously met. As I've shared previously here on C.o.M: the most attractive person I've ever had sex with was one of the most boring hook-ups I've ever had. So the possibility of spending thousands of dollars and ending up with a bad lay would give me serious pause in following through with an arrangement of this sort.

Although I've never used Seeking Arrangment ..it seems to me that the premise of the site is that younger men are looking for older wealthy men to "arrange" some situation where by the younger man will offer his company in exchange for a financial arrangement of some kind. Is that correct? If so...it seems to me that there is NO specific format and therefore no expected "hourly rate', daily rate or weekly rate. My impression (and maybe I'm wrong) is that the older gentleman proposes an arrangement and the younger fellow is free to accept, decline or negotiate. I would say.. inviting someone on a holiday cruise is a nice offer. But they are not working during the time spent with you. So offering to cover their normal income, daily, or weekly would be the logical offer. I also am assuming these guys aren't escorts (typically) so why should you offer escort rates ? My assumption would be they have a mainstream job and are looking to supplement their income. So find out what they do for a living and try to discover what their income is. Match that number, offer a fun holiday tour and tip generously on top of that if they let you fuck them once(or twice) a day.

A nice torso and lots of pix of his nice torso...but why no face pix ?