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I have to disagree. Maybe in certain parts of America. When I was a kid, and you went to the public swimming pool...you would go to the locker room after /undress/ walk naked into the shower ( with my father ) and rinse off. When I was in High School, we undressed in front of one another/ showered in front of one another. Never even held up a towel. Same in college (Syracuse University) but at University you'd encounter students from other cultures who WERE more modest. None of the Americans I encountered had any issues until the 2000s.

There are escorts who are also good masseurs but I don't think most masseurs are in the business of providing faux-romantic-interludes. There's an exception to every rule, but I think as @BuffaloKyle stated above, you may find what you want faster on Rent.men and search for massage.

I think this thread may help a lot of us who may have struggled with keeping friends who happen to be gay.

Good find. I do love a pocket size, bottom boy. 🍑

Now in New York. I agree about the body art. Beautiful body, cute face....WHY would you ruin all that with such ugly choices of tattoos ? Very sad. Still kinda fuckable tho.

I've approached several models and "porn performers" on Twitter. Simply asked if they would be interested in "collaborating off camera with me". Those who DO escort respond. The rest tend to ignore me. Doesn't hurt to ask. Just a matter of doing it in the right way as to not put them at risk of getting shut down.

I can't speak for P-town but Fire Island is beautiful and unique even if you DON'T go there to snort a lot of meth and fuck a bunch of strangers in the bushes.

Exactly. Point being that I know years ago...that Equinox used to be pretty active in the steam room. I've had more than one B.J. there. ( By the way....Alan likes to swallow ) 😋

Great body.

YMMV is the correct answer

Salvador is cock-a-block, full of incredibly sexy, dark skinned men who are available "rough trade". I used a tour guide who helped me safely make arrangements with a few (who wouldn't stab me after ...or during sex). Some very hot men. Most identify as gay4pay only so don't expect a romantic rendezvous...but there were a few who had the most beautiful muscular bodies I've ever had the pleasure of licking and sucking. It's also an interesting city culturally...but again I recommend using an experienced tour guide to avoid muggings.

Alan Cumming sucked me off at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave. (But that was many years ago when I had a membership before today's ridiculous price structure.)

I feel the same. Pleasant looking...but I don't see myself reaching for my wallet.

I agree with you. I don't feel enlightened. I expected a professional experience revelation.

As I aged everyone wanted ME to top. I'm so out of practice at this point I would definitley want to get prepared...(if the right opportunity knocked)

When I was younger (20's) I bottomed a lot. I knew nothing about douching. Never had an "accident".

I'm sure I've far surpassed 1000 people by now...just asking a question. Not saying there's a right or wrong. I just don't understand what being circumcised has to do with lube. I've never used lubricant except when I fuck. Enlighten me.

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You learn something new every day here. 🤣 In all my years, I've never heard of that...nor do I even understand WHY I would WANT to do that !

Same here. In high school we never wrapped ourselves in a towel. We'd undress, and head to the showers which were a single big tiled room with dozens of shower heads. No privacy at all....so was rather pointless to wrap yourself in a towel only to show up in a room where you're naked with everyone else. Over the last several years, at my fitness center, I've noticed all the young guys in the locker room go through all kinds of gymnastics to keep themselves covered up while undressing, as if they would be raped, if a glimpse of flesh were to be exposed. Even the GIRLS in my High School were not SO demure about changing. When we'd travel to another town for football games, we'd go in our street clothes and change into our uniforms on the bus together as we neared our destination. The girls and boys would strip down to our underwear and have a giggle but nobody acted like they'd be raped over a quick view of some flesh. I personally find this new extreme-modesty very strange. But then I also attended many sex parties in the 90s where everyone was naked and fucking...so yeah..I, personally have ZERO hang-ups about nudity. I find these younger guys to be WAY uptight about it. I wouldn't be surprised if they went under their sheets to get naked during a hook up ! ha

I'm completely lost. Sorry. Maybe the others "get" that comment...but I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm circumcised too. ( 1970's American baby )

I am not judging anyone's sexual tastes. I am curiously asking WHY people are so opposed to condoms. There's a big difference.

Then I'm confused. Fire Island was definitely full of older-in-shape men with money. ( At least in the Pines ) The Grove was full of Lesbians. I didn't see many children. That's the only difference I hear.

I totally feel you, there. I did have some good success in the early days of online hook ups....Manhunt, Adam4Adam and GayRomeo ( now Planet Romeo ) but I agree...Grindr is so full of fakes and flakes it's nearly impossible to actually snag a "snack" anymore.