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Let's not start inserting political commentary.

What about tipping well "upfront" feels "yucky" ? If I try someone new and I enjoy them, I always tip generously. That starts the relationship on a good note if you return. I see nothing yucky about wanting to show that you're a good repeat customer.

Or should we start a thread about hot assassins? 🤔

Typically ...no. Sometimes, yes. You cant really assume why communication struggles in ANY relationship of any kind. There are a multitude of reasons why people take forever to get back to you.

All that can be handled legally without a marriage contract. Your only real benefit in marriage is taxation. For gay couples, owning property in common was always insulting when their life partner would pass and you'd need to pay inheritance tax on something that was already yours! With this fellow, you haven't built a life together so protecting him from inheritance tax isn't the same priority. Your home is NOT his home. He IS inheriting it. I would suggest a few years living together and see how that goes before entertaining a marriage contact that could lead to an expensive divorce if the "taking out the garbage" lifestyle isn't as appealing as the vacations together.

Absolutely. Sounds like a script from a movie.

Reached out to him. Sent me an address that didn't exist when I looked for it on Google maps. I questioned him via text about the mistake and he never got back to me. Seems a bit sketchy.

I agree. I feel ripped off. Hate the feeling of a theragun. I would never pay for that. Especially insulting if someone is charging professional rates, over $200.

Marijuana or a good stiff drink lowers inhibitions when preparing for a gang bang. Otherwise scrub your ass and rinse your mouth and go with the flow.

Another one who's been 30 forever.

These two sentences when paired together mean: NO THANK YOU

Why ? What would you get for marrying this person ? If you like someone's company, you stay with them. Marriage certificates don't confirm your love, they confirm your property rights and in most states split your assets 50/50 no matter who came in with what. Unless you have built a life together and/or have children in see no benefit for you in marriage..but a multitude of benefits for your young friend should he marry and then divorce you. At minimum, get a solid pre-nup, but beware even with a contract, judges have been known to call them invalid and push for the standard distribution.

Why do his photos look like they were taken with kodakchrome film in the 70s ?

He says 35....which usually means 42. I am assuming some of the photos are from when he was 32. Nice looking man (or at least..used to be ). But even in his selections of photos you can see they spread over several time periods.

Most insurance companies today are shameless, unethical money-grubbing scams. If you just look at the bonus structures for their CEOs you understand why people always get screwed by their insurance provider when they need it. HUGE proportions of your insurance premium are withheld as company profit and paychecks.

* ooof * Toss this one under "Who would you pay $1000 to fuck" ?

I have a few friends who are allergic to onions and garlic and so is my father. Sadly my entire repertoire of recipes starts with either garlic or onion.....so I can't invite any of these people to dinner under normal circumstances. I find food that doesn't have onion or garlic to be bland. Even though I grew up never eating it all through my childhood because of my father. (Also Pennsylvania Dutch cooking doesn't call for much onion and never garlic) so traditional restaurants in the area are never a problem for him. Nearly Impossible for him to dine at Italian, Mexican and Chinese restaurants.

Photos, Contact info, location & fee...all in a file on my computer. Password protected. (I have teenage kids in the house ). Like @Act25 said. If they were good. I will remember. If they were bad, they are thankfully forgotten.

Apparently not this one.

I think you need to consider the audience. Married guys are likely to have fulfilling romantic lives at home. So, when they hook up on the side....it's more of a down-n-dirty they are looking for. It's like when a famous Hollywood star was caught with a very nothing looking "sex worker", while married to a gorgeous and talented actresses. My female friends, were saying: " WHY would he go with a "dirty hooker" when you're married to one of the most beautiful women in the world " ? MY answer was..."Because he wanted some dirty-dirty sex with a dirty-dirty hooker." He's not gonna get that from his beautiful wife....or may not feel comfortable asking. Men often compartmentalize their sex life into different realms. I know I do.

That would be ME. I have ZERO desire to "kiss and cuddle" with anyone outside my relationship. I'm hiring to get the kind of down n dirty raw nasty sex that I don't get at home. I get plenty of kissing and cuddling from my wife. Sorry if you feel that's dehumanizing. But maybe married guys aren't your best audience.

I don't know if my "sidepiece" action is the reason I stay in my marriage but it certainly helps. I have a super high sex drive and like with every relationship, the sex with your life-partner eventually becomes routine and the excitement dwindles...so the frequency reduces over the decades. Maybe it's just me, but engaging in naughty, dirty, wild sex with others makes my cuddle time with my wife seem even more comfortable and fulfilling. Maybe because I don't "go there" with fuck buddies. So the romantic connection is preserved as only being part of my relationship while the sexual component has changed over time.

Nobody ever looks good with platinum blonde hair except people who are blue eyed (or green) and naturally blonde. Yes...you see SO many gays doing it and living in complete denial of how ridiculous it looks. Do they not have a single friend who tells them the truth ?

Yes. You have. He's a hire. Not your boyfriend. His actions are pretty clear signals that he doesn't want a personal relationship. It's not clear if he'd be open to continuing a professional relationship as long as you learn to respect some boundaries. Like they say: "read the room".

Whomever that is, in the photos is handsome indeed 😍 . Probably too good to be true.