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I have always said: "If it weren't for prostitution, ugly people would never get laid".

Well certainly fucking fresh peach is more desirable than jamming your cock in some dried apricot. When I was in my 20s everyone wanted to fuck me. When I was in my 40s everyone want me to fuck THEM. Adapt or admit defeat

I am perfectly content with condoms. Which my doctor recommends.

Well...for starters that's not my Grindr photo is it ? That photo is from years ago when I first started using the forum. Secondly the fellow who started this conversation did NOT describe himself as a "bear". He said "beefy". Maybe a minor distinction but there is a difference.

https://news.yahoo.com/sex-revenge-porn-webcams-firing-180602723.html In this New York Times article Adame insinuates his situation is a matter of being "prudish" but when confronted with the key to his firing he "doesn't want to discuss". If you want to do a real mea-culpa you need to man up and admit you made a mistake. Not call your employer prudish because they don't like you getting gang fucked with your employers name written across your naked body while you snort meth ...and WILLINGLY posting all that ONLINE !! This little dude has some mental problems.

Nice looking guy..but $250 for a massage ? Would need stellar reviews ( of which there are none ).

It was used to bring down the Governor of New York State - Eliot Spritzer in 2008. They never followed through with the charges but the allegations destroyed his political career.

He's looking for a rich sugar daddy. Available for "good conversation and organize a pleasant meeting or trip". He ain't selling tickets to ride his ass.

I consider the "whatsapp" ONLY to be a red flag for business purposes I don't trust people who make it difficult to trace them when things go bad.

Cute couple I remember taking the family to Turkey....I kept thinking I need to come back here alone. Lots of handsome men. $ 800 for a three-way seems like a lot, unless somebody can give glowing reviews.

Ah...ok. Got it. You should have said so ! You just have a bit of a learning curve ahead of you. I just went through this recently, mentoring one of my old wrestling buddies from high school who left his wife of 25 years and finally admitted to himself he was gay. He didn't know where to start, to meet cute young guys, because he's now a 50 year old beefy man. So....I can say that if you're an older man who likes younger men, you aren't necessarily out of luck. There's someone for everyone, as they say. We all know that most men are very visual, and so the Instagram hotties look for other Instagram hotties. But not every gay man is wired the same, and there is definitely a community of young pleasant looking guys who want more than a quick hook up / don't feel they can attract Instagram models either & find "dad bods" sexy. I had an older client many years ago (gay man) who used to flirt with the waiter when we'd be out at dinner. He was in his 60s ( me in my late 20s) and I always marveled at the number of times he's get the young handsome waiter's digits. I asked him once how he gets up the nerve...his answer was iconic: "What's the worst that can happen ?...they just say no". *classic* He was so right. NEVER assume you can't attract someone until you try.

I generally don't do the quick hook up thing. If I am interested, I will spend a little time getting to know someone first. So in MY experience ( which is not limited) I have found 90% of the young guys who say they are into older men, share stories of an absent father. Either raised by a single mom, or victims of an abusive or neglectful dad. As we all know, younger gay men don't have a lot of patience and tend to jump from one anonymous hook up to another. Most of these young "daddy-seekers" get no emotional satisfaction with being used and tossed to the side...so when I do meet someone young who is a good match, they generally want to attach for some amount of time. Which is fine by me, as I don't have time to be wasting endless hours looking for my next bit of fun.

Does he ? I think Dmitri passed the "twink" expiration date. He's looking more masculine and mature these days. Still handsome, but not twinky. https://www.instagram.com/dmitry_osten_rus/

* wow * That would be a great find if this handsome hunk actually knows massage !

I'm not denying that social changes come and maybe some day the Christian ethics of "old white men" will be in the dust-bin of history. RIGHT NOW that's not the case....and Adame crossed the line not by a little but by a lot. So he got canned. As a " sex positive" old white man myself , I am not surprised and I am generally unsympathetic to his whining about this being "unfair".

We have to agree to disagree, because I have a very different experience that you do. My inbox is full every time I log on to Grindr.

Why would hooking up with someone from Grindr be "awkward" ? Do you ONLY have experience with transactional sexual encounters ? Unless you're a monster...there's someone for everyone on Grindr.

Old white men invented morality. True. So we are generally in tune with the expectations. Call me when the country is taken over by young non-whites. Until then ...these are the rules that we all need to follow

Then maybe I get more attention because I'm not gay. My Grindr heading is Bi Top Dad. I get dozens of responses each time I sign on. My age (51) is clearly posted. I don't agree that you are drastically limited over 50. You may just need to lower your expectations about getting exactly your type. That's what Rent.men is for .

My real age is posted on my Grindr profile.

Not debating you. My comment was that I get dozens of messages. I didn't say I was MEETING dozens of guys every week ! Who has time for THAT ? Plus most of these guys arent a match. Point being, that just because you are in your 50s you're not precluded from being attractive to younger men. That's just a ridiculous thought. If you're 50 and grotesque thats another issue...but the fellow posting this question did not indicate that was the case.

I agree. These photos look like this fellow had been previously living off someone's generous sponsorship. Now he's ready to give randoms a "blowjob they will never forget ". Looks like a hard fall from the playground slide to me

I am guessing those of you who are defending Adame, are doing so without knowing the extent of his misbehavior. When you're a public figure like a news anchor, you can't just behave like this. This goes way beyond the "sex positive" moniker he tries to sell as an excuse. The fellow self destructed. Sad ...but he ain't getting that job back

Who said their guard is UP ? Not sure what your asking about .

I believe that all depends on your Geography. I'm in NYC. 51 and I have dozens of guys messaging me every time I log on.