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Damn...if you had only posted his phone number along with this delicious photo ...😜

No. Sorry. I don't agree I would never ask someone to lower their first hour rate. But I do know when I travel I would pay for company of the additional hour rate was reduced after the initial hour. I have done this several times on trips where I book a massage and invite the young man to dinner. If he accepts I will pick up the check and also offer him an extra $100 for his time keeping me company. It gets quite boring sometimes when traveling alone for work.

Seems to me that with escorts it would make more sense to charge more for a single hour and less for multiple hours. You're already at the location and your client has probably already shot his load...so why not hang out and make $100/ hr instead of going back home and making nothing .

The $300-an-hour figure is really more of a $300 a day reality. Most escorts aren't fucking more than 5 or 6 clients a week So based on a normal person's 40 hour schedule you're making the equivalent of $45/hour. But with fewer hours worked .

When I keep a busy workout schedule at my Muay Thai gym, I see a therapeutic masseur twice a month. If I'm making money that month I will treat myself to an additional erotic session for fun.

Although I agree an escort is probably in the wrong business if he's too picky . But at the same time I can understand that there has to be a line somewhere, where you just can't stomach the grotesque possibilities of some humans.

It was a sad day to day goodbye to First Republic. Really the last "gentleman's bank". I will miss the cozy office setting when I sit down in a comfortable chair at a desk with a well groomed service agent. Now Chase will institute their usual formula of cold gray tile and bullet proof glass where you wait in line while some random ESL tries to induce you to "use the machine" (so they can further reduce their staff). Very sad how all customer service is being eliminated. Even for people who have some degree of wealth. You need to be a multi-billionaire now to afford a degree of dignity.

The "two way oral" is gonna be your limiting factor there.

If a massage session ever develops into a full escort session, my "tip" is to double his massage fee. I'm never looking for a discount sex session. I genuinely like a good massage. Sometimes I like the masseur enough that I feel like going further. But I never know that part until I'm already in his company.

Most Annoying Masseur Behavior You've Experienced: Trying to jerk me off when I'm not even hard. ( Read the room, man ) 😒

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Actually several members have offered you constructive criticism and you consistently view their responses as demeaning, belittling and condescending. So you should probably just stop asking questions if you don't like the answers.

I think the majority of American guys look like the 30% picture. Its a very obese culture here ..so you see plenty of that plus even bigger and sloppier 40% and up guys when you travel through middle America

When you want amazing Korean food, you always head to Queens. I've also had some of the best tacos ( for an amazingly cheap price ) great Italian, and Indian food in Queens. Zum Stammtisch is really the only remaining restaurant in NYC that serves good German food.

I think you can avoid politics by simply realizing it's about MONEY . Nobody in either political party wants to spend the money to deal with with mental illness( and serious drug addictions.) The rest is nothing but lip service.

Was a beautiful man in his younger years. Still holding up although no longer appealing to me personally.

Had his phone number. Texting was weird. Took forever to respond to the most basic questions

Tried to meet up this weekend but his poor communication made that difficult to do.

Jarrod. You do nothing but complain about your business. Lots of people have read your long posts and tried to offer suggestions to your many gripes. I am just one of them. But it seems you don't want answers. You just need to vent and keep repeating the same problems and never adjusting your approach. I'm sure plenty of other members agree. The "comprehending" and "listening" are advice you may (or may not) take for yourself. People are trying to help you but you don't hear anything because you always get defensive instead of listening and learning. No one is attacking you, so you should lower your armor for a minute and think about the things people are saying more carefully. Best of luck.

In North America "average" means FAT (not fit).

I don't have a problem sending a face pic. I see no reason why a provider can't see me before I show up at his door. I wouldn't want to be in the position where someone found me unattractive and was unable to perform.

It's called the escort business. Your problems are borne in the fact that people here are telling how to improve your business model but instead of thanking us your tell us we are all wrong and then you continue to complain you don't have enough business. Rather a vicious cycle you're creating for yourself. If twenty people say you're a horse every day... then maybe you should at least consider buying a saddle instead of insisting you're a dolphin.

Absolutely. Smaller museums try to prevent crowding by requiring a reservation of an arrival time. Most are not very strict about that time slot being exact if you arrive a little early or late ..but you must have the reservation or make one a the door and return later if it's busy.

VERY. Within the year living in LA, I had dozens and dozens of "friends". ... But One weekend I was feeling very sick and weak. I asked my "best friend" there to please check in with me and just bring me some things from the store. "He wasn't sure he had time". I called another ..who said they'd "try". Then another and another and everyone of these people who wanted to hang out when the party was on....couldn't commit to helping me when I was ill. I ended up asking for help from my Nicaraguan neighbor who I barely knew but to say hello when I'd see them outside. They didn't speak a word of English and my Spanish at that time was rough. She brought me soup and her husband drove to the store. Of course they weren't from LA either....so THEY understood the idea of how important it is for the soul to do things for others. The rest it seems are too focused on their own priorities to be able to work such a distraction into their busy schedule of going to the gym, working on their tan, getting a smoothie and/or getting laid. I left a month after that realization.

I don't think you need to BE a dolphin to be concerned about dolphins. "Black" is an identity and a community as much as it is a description of one's skin tone. Anyone from any ancestry doesn't need to be "pure-blood" to feel connections to their heritage.