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@marylander1940 contributes more to the site than most people do. C.o.M. has a variety of topics so everyone is free to participate how they want.

This is true. There is definitely a huge effort by the Corporate owned media in the US to spin narratives that benefit their own interests Its sometimes frightening to witness the number of people who believe things that just aren't true because they "heard it on the news". Few people seem to question the obvious bias in news media today. Always assuming that their choice of news-source is going to always report "the truth" as opposed to a viewpoint.

So what term do YOU prefer ?

Who are you addressing?? Where did someone say Palestinians aren't Semitic people ? 🤔

It's good practice to discuss politically charged topics with facts instead of political bias. That's how you avoid fights. This topic is about the optics that Universities use to appear socially "evolved". The risk is that these same universities rely on donations from more traditional/conservative alumni. So allowing anti-seminism to fester in the name of diverse viewpoints is going to get some people, in power questioning your credentials. This isn't the first person of color who got a pass on doing diligence to fill a diversity hire. But when that person crosses a line, the due diligence gets done after the fact. In this case the woman is clearly out of her league and shouldn't be in a position of authority when she can't navigate a delicate situation like the (always) divergent viewpoints on the Middle East and Israel/Gaza in particular.

Are you assuming the lackluster service and fake pix noted from two years ago were going to disappear in 2024 ?

Ignorant. Ignorance is borne in ignoring facts. NYC has become a dangerous place again, after the "defund the police" idiocy took hold. There are definitely parts of town that aren't safe at night anymore. Harlem being one of them.

What do you think of Austin Butler ? He was a cute kid, but his looks are fading fast.

Because nothing says "being closeted" like big sex club parties where random people can witness your homosexual activity and then gossip about you....🙄

Is he ? There are numerous people who are into the occult. He just sounds like he's catering to Wiccan fetishists. A small.market, but a market nonetheless.

I think what hasn't been established here is what @thelovebroadcast meant when he asked about "older". Is that over 40 ? Over 50 ?

Congratulations. You are a truly good and kind person for stepping in and taking on this responsibility. Wishing you continued sucess.

I don't think I've ever met a gay man who was honest about his penis size. They all seem to measure from the tip to their taint instead of their shaft. So it would be surprising indeed to have someone lie in the opposite direction. When someone reports 8 inches I fully expect a dick of about 6.5". If you told me 8 and showed up with a 10 I wouldn't necessarily be delighted. I know lots of gay men seem to be impressed by size but not me. At a certain point i think it looks gross, like I'm sleeping with a wild animal. But that's just me. Throwing it out there as a counterpoint. Bigger isn't always better.

News flash: People are attracted to what they are attracted to. EVERYONE makes judgements about what and who they are attracted to ( and who they are not ). MOST gay men want YOUNG GOODLOOKING providers. That's why MOST ALL "Men's Spas" staff their business with YOUNG guys. FACT We've heard lots of opinions here as to whether NYC is a landscape for the old-man fetish at spas..and the conclusion was that MOST older providers are working independently. There were a few (very few) exceptions to the rule mentioned which is what the conversation is about: "Massage Parlor with older masseurs". Too many people here, keep rattling-on about the merits of hiring an old man without providing any suggestions about where to find one in a Men's Spa in New York. Please stay on topic.

I guess at 80 years old an escort needs a gimmick to get by.

Are YOU better off now than you were before COVID-19? no. Took me two years to get caught up from the economic destruction of 2020. I am back where I was in 2019. IF rents continue to rise, I will be better off in 2024.

You're clearing hiring the wrong people. I agree. Glutes.are an important muscle group to target. I've never hired a true professional who just ignored them. Plenty of guys who pretend to know massage on the sites. Just need to know what to ask and my personal go-to avoidance tactic is anyone who only does "Swedish"

It is when they're a politician and you start making negative opinions. You're taking a political position. Therefore it's political commentary.

Thanks What a good looking young man. So sad about the unfortunate choices in random body graffiti

Are we allowed to discuss politics now ? I don't think so.

Wow. I heard it was quite a wild movie theatre but I didn't know you could get away with THAT level of public sex. Shut down by the city in the late 80's in their AIDS prevention purge. I missed the fun. I arrived in the early 90s. ( maybe thankfully missing the HIV bullet ). I was quite wild in my 20s. although NYC had seemingly tempered it's naughtiness by then.

The beginning was very reminiscent of premise of Evelyn Waugh's, Brideshead Revisited, so I expected the *middle class chap meets eccentric aristocratic family* to move in the same direction. In Brideshead there was an innocent homoeroticism about romance between two friends, one homosexual and one (mostly) heterosexual. The relationship in Saltburn rode the homoerotic story line for a bit, but in the end, Oliver's major attraction was more about the aristocratic lifestyle, than the person. For the record, I would have totally sucked the cum out of a bathtub filled by Jacob Elordi. 😉

Yes.

The conversation here is about older providers AT MASSAGE PARLORS (or whatever those businesses are supposed to be called). NOT guys on the apps. I am well aware that there are PLENTY of old daddy types on the sites. My impression at the "parlors" throughout New York is that *young and cute* is ALWAYS who's sitting up front because that's what sells !! I have, however, been proven wrong over-all as others have mentioned a few places that have an old man or two. But I would point out this is by far, still the exception to the rule, so my "ignorance" as you call it is a matter of paying attention to the conversation and not wandering off on a tangent. The result of the thread is that there's exception to every rule. There's a few oldie but goodies scattered here and there at the "Men's Spa" massage places. Probably hiding in the back because I've never seen one.