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What was the first thing that ever made you feel “old”? Seeing that question elsewhere and realizing I had an answer for it, rather than just finding it insulting.

If it’s essential to know what I look like before he lets me in, I send a not-great face shot once the appointment is set. “You look better in person” should be the response when you arrive.

A man with short haircut and a completely shaved face - no stubble, just smooth, is a rare commodity today. Early work life got me into daily shave, and for years I loved being able to use the whole face while - going places.

Great news! We can be safe(r) Observable symptoms may include public ass scratching and frequent proximity to organs grinding.

I find it so brilliant at weaving together different stories thought to be for children, but each holds uncomfortable truths for disappointed grown-ups. And ends with hope! Seems like the cast and City Center production make it work brilliantly. I remember the intense interest and gayticipation when it premiered in the 80’s and I was still into Sunday in the Park. I’ve grown fonder of Into the Woods with each hearing since then. I never fail to take away something new, like with all his work. Good for Encores!

It sure would be easier if clients and providers weren’t humans with lives beyond our encounters. Perhaps one-time regulars are better than never-give-a-second-look regulars, though. I can’t imagine anyone having a first meetup and not coming back for more of you.

Awful. What is wrong with these guys??? Personally, I find always find success in sessions with providers when I have intestinal trouble or am feeling disconnected or irritable or violent. And I never cancel.

Stumbled on this new “spin-off” and liking it so far. Now I need to find one with Amy Aquino…

Hire ones who host.

Went to HS 15th, in Dayton. Won award for having traveled most miles, from LA. The event validated my life choices.

Would someone please describe what attending an Adonis event is like? Who lets you in? Are there demographics to the audience? Do dancers actually dance, or do they just mingle for tips? What’s the interaction like between patrons and dancers? Is there an average length to expect? (I mean Duration, btw) I have The Gaiety and Nob Hill and 20th C bars in Canada as my references for in-person entertainments not in a private space. thx

Try this: attend the well-written play performed live in a theatre, by a great cast of actors. See the play. Spoiler: The clothes come off when it’s part of the story. Full frontal on stage is usually about vulnerability. The scene is set in a shower, where nudity happens all the time. Dicks out is the norm in that room. Eyes up here, pal…😏

Tragic for their families, but absolutely inconsequential to everyone else watching this story, isn’t it?

Eye contact. Especially from a show-off.

RIP Bernie. In the 70’s I saw the two of them as Sky Masterson and Sarah Brown in a summer-stock Guys and Dolls. TV a decidedly better medium for both. All I remember is the Miss Adelaide of Miss Ruta Lee…

The best place for losing lap-dance virginity is The Past. 🤣

The guys who I do recall fondly were the ones I had laughs with. I mean, who knew that gays were so funny??? 🤣

@Jarrod_Uncut do you believe the client who says “nothing to worry about” regarding COVID, HIV, STI’s, flu, …crabs? It’s a crapshoot for both client and provider the first time. I think we all know that.

Apologies. I misread your use of Randy. 😄 Aside from and private showers and Quiet Room, people intermingle between changing, steam, sauna, the Jacuzzi liquid Petrie dish (Hot tub actually heavily chlorinated) garnished with cucumber ice rags… but I would not call it particularly cruisy. ) If you’re equally attractive to somebody else, YMMV. Occasionally the guys who blow dry their balls for 10 minutes They see all. Conversation stays low. In the hot tub and steam, you could go in, sit next to each other, and gauge risk of getting noticed under shield. You have no way of knowing who might report anything or not. Do you want to get tossed out…? Go for this: Quality body work, and I request male, for broader forearm surface contact. Who knows? I might get the session that raises the standard from a woman. Three days = 3 sessions? Repeat or rethink on bodyworkers? You won’t regret - choose the closest, because you will be a noodle and want a short drive home. The stores have been refreshed while closed with more safety in mind (they said) Even w pass, bring generous cash tip. It is a generous gift.

It’s been discussed many times here before. If you want “extras” “endings” “release” “mutual touch” you should NOT go to Burke Williams, or any other spa, like those at a resort or hotel. It can get bodyworkers fired, and/or shut them down. In LA there are a hundred or so private gay masseurs who will give you those services. There are sex clubs where you can book a massage. Please do not ruin legit spas for the rest of us.

Also Sneakers and Makeup…🤣

Fond memories paying a cover charge for an hour or more of feeling inadequate!

Caveat: Before-Times meet up He is as advertised - pics accurate at the time. Tell him up front what you’re looking for. Good communicator, kind, good sense of humor Space is small but ingenious. Many options to accommodate various scenes. If you need a hand with something he’s trustworthy.

Great article. I recently caught a lovely documentary about ABT Principal Marcelo Gomes made five years ago. He addresses the acting involved. Anatomy of a Male Ballet Dancer I think it’s not very different from acting or singing a straight role in a play, musical or opera. In ballet, where every position and proximity and contact has a purpose, there is far less realism in the physical presentation of passionate love. It all has to be acted, and allowing real improvisational passion to the fore can break the precision necessary. Same with opera singers when characters cry. If they really do cry, as an actor might do, fluids developing in the nasal passages drips to throat and SQUAWK!!!! Janzen is factoring in MeToo and COVID, along with longer working relationships, in a thoughtful way.

I personally don’t initiate on the first meeting. He’s either brought it up before like “light mutual touching is ok” and from there maybe he’ll create a situation of contact. Can’t hurt to ask if unsure, at the point where it seems organic for you. Look for guys with dual profiles, and really read the massage page, training and experience will be described and enumerated in profile. Do 60m massage first time, keep convo and meeting discreet. (Similar to first meetup for coffee rather than dinner and a show. $$) Say you click. If you want more, ask to schedule another visit for the extended or more mutual service, telling him you’re aware of the higher rate, and you’ll already have some sort of rapport. Tip well regardless of massage quality, though. At the very least you get a massage and a handjob, don’t make him remember you as cheap if you want to call again. 🤣