Yeahman

When I worked as a masseur and they were buying my flights, I had to give them my real name.

I did the gift card process with Zachery Scott of Las Vegas, Southwest Airlines. But, we had met in Las Vegas for hourly visits before I flew him in for overnights.
 
The couple times I’ve flown Seeking Arrangement guys they’ve just given me their name and birthdate and I’ve booked the tix and sent them e-ticket info, all worked out good so far.

I had tried the gift card route with an escort once for an Amtrak ticket. It didn’t work out for him. So I just broke down and decided that I would Venmo him the money. In the end it was a very fine transaction, and I would do it again with him. But I totally understand the hesitancy the first time

I'm sure he will because he knows you as a reliable client and he's interested in keeping the relationship/chemistry going. It's a win win situation and you will STILL remain private which as client is your main concern.

Or next time you travel to his city (if you don't live there), talk to him, give him money in person, scheduled something or say you'll schedule it later and make it happen.
 
He must be worth all the "good trouble" of scheduling something with him! Have fun!

Or maybe booking for him using a gift card if he's comfortable sharing HIS name and birthday.

I am considering flying in a provider for fun, but if I book the flight for him, I have to know his real name, which is not a good idea for him, nor for me. I'd prefer that both sides remain anonymous. So as a provider, how was your flight booked? I am not in a good position to talk about it with the provider yet due to the pandemic, just want to learn beforehand.

Send him money in an envelope or ask a friend to paypal him money.

He'll have to trust you for him to book the trip without getting money upfront from you.. How will you stablish that trust?
 
You can always send money in an envelope but you'll need a name and an address. Besides if you text him there will be a digital trail unless you use a prepaid phone bought with cash. Will you wear sunglasses not to get caught by a security camera? ?
 

 
Who? A friend who knows your name but won't tell you his name?
 
Why so much secrecy? Pardon me but you don't sounds like a

Sorry to tell you, but your posting here is a digital trail. Unless you're incredibly savvy, almost everyone leaves a electronic footprint.
 
It's a lot like when idealistic folks say they want to 'live off the grid.' That's nearly impossible these days.
 

 
I did in in my reply.

Sounds pretty ideal. The escort to my mind more than made up for the delay in his arrival. Things happen to cause a delay but when they keep you in the loop during that period it eases any anxiety you are feeling. I’ve been in that position more than once and I know they are doing their best by keeping me advised. I think they appreciate the fact that I don’t make a fuss about it and show their appreciation in other ways to my benefit.

I also think that booking via a trusted proxy can be a solution, so only the proxy knows our identity. But still not the best because I don't like to leave digital fingerprint online.

A travel agent, sure: It can be a little clunky and involves a few more hoops to jump through.
 
Or, you can just trust the escort to book his own ticket, screenshot the total and then Venmo him the airfare.
 
Bottom line, trust is key in setting up longer-term appointments, especially if they turn into REPEAT longer-term appointments.

You get his real name and his real birthdate and you book...or move on.
 
Use a travel agent? Only the agent knows both of your names. An air gap kind of?
 
Gift cards work if you know the escort I know some airlines they can be anonymously emailed....if you trust the escort. First time travel visit, no way I’m sending a Southwest Airline or other airline gift card anonymous.

I don't see how you can. I would say a gift card, but how do u get it to him and both remain anomynous. I would share your concerns with him, and see if he has a solution
. I bet he has one. Good luck!

Is that true? I was talking with my sister recently and she told me she stopped going to the nail salons because the polish was too hard to take off. She now does her own again Like when she was younger.

Check the date of when you saw him with this. It might not be too far fetched to think it was something he did once to be different and no longer looks that way. Otherwise, don't hire him. That's really not all that different from asking a bear to shave just for you this once, a tatted guy to have his designs go away, and then pay for restoration, or offering to pay an uncut guy for surgery, and restoration, LOL!

I hate to even say it but my extreme is I want to know whether his ass/hole is hairy. It is just a predilection I have. Since I love to rim (and hoped that he loves to be rimmed) I really like smooth holes. In most cases the guys I get together with are fairly "hairless" so there is no problem there. But there are times when they are not and I approach them about using Wet and a nice razor to work magic on their hole. In the end, they get a much more enjoyable rim job because I am more willing to go deeper and wet up the area around the hole. Just one of those things. It certainly is a lot more than just taking off some clear nail polish but you would be amazed what a few extra bucks will get you.

I like this idea. Thanks.

“Hi (name)! I’ve been admiring you on Rentmen and I’m hoping we can get together tomorrow. I’m a xx year-old guy, 5 foot 9 and 160 pounds, who likes BFE experiences with versatile guys. It may seem strange, but for some reason polished fingernails turn me off. If we can get together, might you consider natural nails for me? Please let me know your rates for one and two hours. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks!

Another approach could be to mention you noticed the polished nails and ask him if his nails are always like that, or just occasionally. Maybe a bit less confrontational, and in the follow up you can express your preference for natural nails.

Or tell him you have a mime fetish and ask him to wear a pair of white gloves. ?

Reach out, compliment him on his profile and pics, express interest in meeting and ask him if he is willing to change his appearance to suit your preferences.
 
If he responds back that he is willing, you can ask him for hands that are au natural. Avoid expressing any criticism about his current appearance, to be sure. ?

They're not going to agree to something that they aren't willing to provide. If you want mad sex all night, tell him that. He will either say yes or no.

Respect and consideration (by both parties) do wonders to enhance the experience.