Nebost

There were one or two I wished would say that. But I never thought they really would. And there was one guy, I really wished would think of me as an actual friend rather than a client. He didn't, so I had to stop seeing him for my emotional health ( and yes, I was the one who made the decision to stop hiring I never did anything crazy to try to make him see me as a friend.
 
If an escort had ever told me he loved me, well I'm thinking I could express my feelings best in a song.
 

 
Gman

You'll know it’s truly love [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] when one of those young men pays for dinner ;-)

In my experience, you need to understand the man (escort) who declares that he "loves you!"
 
One of my very favorite regular escorts (now retired but he still sees me) and I have a relationship that has grown very close in the eight or nine years I have been hiring him. I always travel to his city in February and hire him on or around Valentine's Day. I almost always hire him 3 or 4 more times each year, flying to his city and hiring him a couple of times during my visits.
 
Before he retired, he was always an escort (he had many, many stunning reviews on Daddy's Reviews!) who never booked more than one client per day so he could be at his best, in bed and out, with each client! He always brings me roses --- a dozen, and sometimes two dozen, on Valentine's Day (the first V-Day we got together, he surprised me with the flowers & made me feel so special!) I now always buy him a personalized gift when we meat.
 
Additionally, we almost always spend time off the clock after playing: going out to dinner and/or to the strip clubs in his city, at times taking in a good movie. The first meeting I had with him in 2011, we had so much in common and felt so comfortable with each other, that our very first two-hour session was nearly over just talking and getting to know each other. When I pointed out our set time was nearly finished, he took my hand and led me to the bedroom, where we spent two glorious hours getting to know each other in the most exciting and intimate ways!
 
Slowly, as our trust and (non-sexual) intimacy built over the years, we both began sharing such personal things that a very, very close friendship just naturally continued building between us. During our 2014 Valentine's Day session, after he had cum all over my chest, he said, "TruHart, I love you!" Was it PR? I felt it was completely sincere and honestly, I was a bit shocked since he is one of the most professional (in the best way) escorts I've ever met!
 
Fast forward and now he continues to say he loves me and I have become very comfortable saying I love him! Will we move in together and get married? No, because he truly IS a professional. We shall always remain intimate (in all ways!) friends, the spoken love between us always continuing to build our unique friendship!
 
I hired an escort in 2011 and one of my best lifelong friends walked into my life, greeting me with a deep, sensual kiss that STILL has the power to turn me on instantly!
 
TruHart1

I would agree that Magnum itself is a great bar, brand new, airy, lots of nice comfortable seating, unlimited parking. But if they’re going to do well they need to do a better job of recruiting better dancers. I still believe Tin Room has far better dancers (more dancers, better looking, better built), and that would still be my primary reason for visiting a stripper bar. I’d love it if Magnum got the handsome dancers, I’m not fond of the smelly , tiny tin shack with the lack of seating. I hope any out-of-Towners would visit both to judge for themselves.

I would agree that Magnum itself is a great bar, brand new, airy, lots of nice comfortable seating, unlimited parking. But if they’re going to do well they need to do a better job of recruiting better dancers. I still believe Tin Room has far better dancers (more dancers, better looking, better built), and that would still be my primary reason for visiting a stripper bar. I’d love it if Magnum got the handsome dancers, I’m not fond of the smelly , tiny tin shack with the lack of seating. I hope any out-of-Towners would visit both to judge for themselves.

I would agree that Magnum itself is a great bar, brand new, airy, lots of nice comfortable seating, unlimited parking. But if they’re going to do well they need to do a better job of recruiting better dancers. I still believe Tin Room has far better dancers (more dancers, better looking, better built), and that would still be my primary reason for visiting a stripper bar. I’d love it if Magnum got the handsome dancers, I’m not fond of the smelly , tiny tin shack with the lack of seating. I hope any out-of-Towners would visit both to judge for themselves.

I would agree that Magnum itself is a great bar, brand new, airy, lots of nice comfortable seating, unlimited parking. But if they’re going to do well they need to do a better job of recruiting better dancers. I still believe Tin Room has far better dancers (more dancers, better looking, better built), and that would still be my primary reason for visiting a stripper bar. I’d love it if Magnum got the handsome dancers, I’m not fond of the smelly , tiny tin shack with the lack of seating. I hope any out-of-Towners would visit both to judge for themselves.

I totally agree Magnum is a far more upscale bar than Tin Room. But in my opinion the overall dancer quality (and of course this is subjective) is better at Tin Room. By this I mean they are more handsome and better built on average.

One guy with whom i had an arrangement over 8 months - maybe 40 times
Second most frequent - maybe 15
And it drops off after that.
 
I struggle with this. i value the closeness that comes with multiple visits but crave the newness of a different face. I’m probably in a self-defeating cycle searching for perfect intimacy that just doesn’t exist in a financial encounter.

Ask a guy if you can get a session in advance to be paid next month. See what happens...

Lend money once and you are on the hook for more... While it may or may not be a real need I doubt if the tables were turned you would probably not get a reply.

Herpes I
Herpes II
HPV/Genital Warts
Chlamydia
Gonorrhea
Syphilis
Lymphogranuloma Venereum
Chancroid
Mycoplasma genitalium......
 
Oh Baby!.....I'm on PreP!.....stick that RAW COCK in me!
 
Morons.

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I have been known to cruise through some RM listing from time to time, so I think that speaks volumes about the clientele.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUfWLdbWoAA

My tastes must be different. I almost always found a lot of guys I liked in NYC long before page 6.
I once had an overnight scheduled for my birthday. We met at the theatre showing "A Little Night Music." I wasn't actually that thrilled about seeing it as the story didn't really excite me. On the other hand I did get to see Catherine Zeta Jones, and I think Angela Lansbury. But when the escort arrived he wasn't feeling well. He lasted until the 1st intermission. But I could tell he wasn't feeling well-and I at least 90% believed him (we met for an extended train trip the next year and he persisted to say he was ill when we had met previously (I probably should have taken the 1st meeting as an omen as he wasn't that great a train companion)).
 
I ended up only paying him for a cab to get home. I was so upset afterwards that I left the play early. It was my birthday. I still wanted to be with someone. But it was later in the evening. And I had trouble finding someone. Finally around 9 pm or 10, I found an escort willing to do a last minute overnight with someone he had never met before. I had explained why I was calling him so late. It took him longer to get to the hotel than I expected. But when he arrived, I found out that the reason he had taken so long was that the sweet guy had stopped by the store to pick up a chocolate cake for my birthday.
 
Gman

Your initial post hardly warranted a productive response, but I digress. We tried.
 

 
Then shuffle to the back. There are literally hundreds upon hundreds of escorts in NYC to choose from, it has the largest catalogue of any city (fact). If you need tips, I’d say ask, but well..

No need to take my comments so personally. I was making a broader observation about what is common practice on these boards, not singling you out at all. By all means, ask. If your question produces the info you seek, great. If it doesn't, the ball is in your court as to what you want to do.
 
My comments were prompted by observations of others in the thread with which I agreed. My additional observation about there being a time to decide based on the info already available was not about you at all. It's just an observation that beyond a certain point, further information is unlikely to surface in response to additional requests. I am sorry if I offended you. That was not my intent.

I hope you had a nice time and enjoyed your hotel room.

At least it can be fun to bask in his beauty while showing him the kind of respect that many customers never do.
 
The service attendant at Ford is such a looker, mid 20s. I expect his line goes back to old Mejico. Muy, muy guapo. I always enjoy interacting, always asking his recommendation when the option whether to rotate the tires comes up. "I don't know. Should I this time?"
 
Sometimes I let my imagination run wild when he escorts me to the car and shakes my hand good bye. Does he treat all customers so sweetly? No.
Does he want to see me outside of work? Probably not. He is just a nice guy that likes my style as his customer.

I lived in the Dallas area temporarily from 2011-2012 as opposed to when I moved back permanently in 2018. That was the when I really started placing myself on the hook-up apps. At that time people seemed to want to meet 1st more often before deciding whether to hookup. I met several guys at the Starbucks in a trendy area called Uptown. Most of the meetings went nowhere. The one real bright spot though was a young barristo there that I thought was really cute. He was probably 22 or 23.
 
Well I never said anything to him beyond placing my order because I'm old and daddy-ish. And in any case I figured he was straight. Imagine my (happy) surprise when I saw him traipsing around in some tidy-whiteys at the next Dallas TBRU (aka Texas Bear Round-Up) a large 'bear' convention held each spring in Dallas. He had entered the underwear contest. And being a shy guy, I think he needed to be soused to do it. And not only was the boy gay-he liked Daddy-types. I didn't make it there for the contest. But he was in the lobby area outside the contest room afterwards, and the cute boy sat on my lap for a while.
 
Unfortunately he had a Daddy (boyfriend) already. But after that I made a point to introduce myself the next time I was at the Starbucks. We became friends up to a point-he's both shy and is into a lot more kinks than I'll ever be. But we would often go out to get something to eat with some friends of his when Starbucks closed for the night.
 
Later on he broke up with his Daddy (not due to anything I did), and we occasionally had some encounters of a very close kind. When I moved back to Washington State in 2012, I used to look forward to seeing him when I came back to Dallas visiting. Unfortunately for me, he made acquaintance with a real Daddy type-(one who is really into Dad/Son dynamics) and moved out of state to be with him. I'm happy for him as he found someone who was more into the same kinks as he was -diapers/Dad-son/puppy play. But I miss him too.
 
Gman

Or, imagine your niece, nephew, godchild, or your own child working at a quick-service restaurant approached in that way by a man.
 

To all the posters who have a story, what the hell. If my doctor called and said he was strapped for cash to pay his golf club due, I would not lend him money. If my lawyer called and he asked to borrow money to have his eye teeth sharpened. I would not lend him money. So why in the world would you lend money to a stranger who has sex with you for money? Stop and remember, these are not your friends. And if a friend called and asked to borrow money with a half assed story, I would say no. Don't confuse it. They love the money not you.
I must admit,I once lent money to a Nigerian Prince who texted me and asked to borrow some money and said he would supply me with a huge bounty when the funds from Nigeria were transferred. He hasn't called back.

I have done this ONCE with a struggling young actor I'd been seeing for a few years in LA starting when he was 20-21 (legit actor since his teens professional performing children's school he had Bway and TV credits I found his demo reel and resume online) who I met in a non-escort chat room but hinted he was open to financial assistance etc and that's how we began. After two years of meetings he asked for an advance against our next several sessions. He said he was strapped he'd been in a accident and couldn't work, (TELL ME IF YOU'VE EVER HEARD OR SEEN THIS) he said the airbag deployed in his face and when he showed up to collect his advance he had two black eyes, NOT like you would from a fight, mostly under the eyes and completely uniform, more like after plastic surgery after having your eyes done) *this was a 20-something beautiful boy he didn't have an eye-job lol) So I gave him the money. He did show up twice over the next several months and I got two sessions for "free". (I'd advanced him the equivalent of 6) But after that he made excuses. Soooooo not wanting to lose him (think your LEGAL AGE 90210/Dawson's Creek esque dream boy, one of those ones, though slight, is HUGELY endowed) I suggested that I'd just start paying him again at next session and miraculously he was available.
 
But I never fully trusted him again, and I ignore casual catch-up emails and texts where he doesn't ask for money but hints how dire he situation is - rent - vet bills -everything in between and I simply suggest a meet-up when we're on the same coast if that will help etc. (he's in his mid-30's now, our last hook up was 2 years ago when he was flown to NYC by producers for a Bway audition)
 
The hardest thing is resisting the urge to just send this boy money, especially when you get addicted to someone like him and think with your dick lol, it's a flaw of mine, and a constant struggle.