LAdude424

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Wow. Read what he apparently is admitting to:
 
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/true-crime/wp/2018/04/13/backpage-ceo-carl-ferrer-pleads-guilty-in-three-states-agrees-to-testify-against-other-website-officials/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.b329f79b0171

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Wow. Read what he apparently is admitting to:
 
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/true-crime/wp/2018/04/13/backpage-ceo-carl-ferrer-pleads-guilty-in-three-states-agrees-to-testify-against-other-website-officials/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.b329f79b0171

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Wow. Read what he apparently is admitting to:
 
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/true-crime/wp/2018/04/13/backpage-ceo-carl-ferrer-pleads-guilty-in-three-states-agrees-to-testify-against-other-website-officials/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.b329f79b0171

Wow. Read what he apparently is admitting to:
 
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/true-crime/wp/2018/04/13/backpage-ceo-carl-ferrer-pleads-guilty-in-three-states-agrees-to-testify-against-other-website-officials/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.b329f79b0171

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Read about 65% of this thread. For me it's simple. Both parties in any interaction get to set the terms theyre comfortable with.
If a provider asks for stats and pics - that's their terms. If those terms don't work for you, say "Sorry that doesnt work for me" and move on. Done.
I'm a bit surprised at the number of people here who feel the provider doesn't have the right to decide for himself how he'll choose to meet clients.

Massage was pretty good. He uses a stop watch to make sure you get the full hour which I really appreciate. Up charged for HE but clearly was nervous about touching a cock. It was equally arousing and annoying. I might try him again. I got the impression he's pretty new to the whole HE aspect. I think if he learns how to seamlessly incorporate it into his sessions he has the potential to be great.

For me...If I wanted a quicky I'd hire an escort for a 30 minute session - with the $$ savings. What I usually want (and what I save my pennies for) is a genuine massage where the masseur is focused on making me feel good and paying attention to my muscles and my body....which..yes.. turns sensual and ends with release. Nothing makes me feel more cheated than agreeing on a scene, and a premium price of $150 or even $180... and then getting a guy that goes right for the climax clearly intending just to get the session over.

It cuts both ways. I try to get to the point quickly as a client so that I'm not perceived as a fantasy sexter, but also for the escort's sake I try to walk the line between being specific and being explicit. When I reached out to a fairly recent hire, however, he asked what kind of scene I was looking for. I replied, "Boyfriend experience with an affectionate but insistent top who likes to kiss and who is able to take the lead and make things happen." I'm usually quite successful when I provide just this much detail regarding my expectations. His answer was, "Sounds perfect. I'm just what you're looking for." When I met the guy he was friendly enough, and the encounter was mechanical but in a reasonably hot way. I would occasionally try to maneuver toward more affection and kissing in particular, until he showed my a ring on his finger and smiled and said, "I'm committed to a guy and he's the only guy I kiss." I'm fairly certain my breath and hygiene were fine, and that this actually was his policy. He gave a lot to the session, but there was no affection.
 
Years ago I might have asked the forum, "What should I have done differently? Should I have explicitly clarified his that he was into affectionate play and kissing?" Now I know better. Some of it comes down to chemistry. Some of it comes down to honesty. I'll never know whether an escort has some strict but undisclosed limits, or whether he's limiting the encounter based on how attracted he is to me. As I client I'd like to press for details, and at least get to an honest answer about what an escort will consider and what is off-limits. I know better than to offend an escort though by perpetuating the pre-engagement discussion. Even if I get the details I need, the process may create resentment that sours the encounter -- because the escort may feel as though I've ordered the session off a Chinese menu.
 
In short, as an escort your well within bounds to be as explicit or discreet as you choose to be.

I agree .. but sometimes i want at the very least a somewhat trusted/unbiased source saying
1. Masseur is as advertised
2. Masseur delivered fundamentally decent service/accommodations/location
2. Masseur was at least open to some extras
 
With that info I'll take the plunge, recognizing my experience will likely not match.

That's fair. Still... renter beware.

Same here. At least I know he’s real and not a scammer or random guy looking for quick cash for drugs or alcohol.

I agree .. but sometimes i want at the very least a somewhat trusted/unbiased source saying
1. Masseur is as advertised
2. Masseur delivered fundamentally decent service/accommodations/location
2. Masseur was at least open to some extras
 
With that info I'll take the plunge, recognizing my experience will likely not match.

My experience with him was positive but topping /bottoming wasn't in my game plan. I found him sexy, approachable and his unit seemed up to the task if that's where you wanted to go...

They are different men. The blue room is in the home of Thomas. If they are a couple now or housemates, it makes sense. Thomas is dark-haired.

The point of the OP - sharing experiences with other board members - has been sorta mutated into how many questions potential clients ask and how many answers providers should be expected to give. I have some opinions here
 
I'm sure there are many guys like @MrMattBig who provide upfront and honest detail - but you don't have to read more than 2 or 3 posts on here to learn many providers write one thing and deliver another. I hire way more masseurs than escorts, but in texting both in my messages I often say things like "Can you confirm your massage is on a table?" "Can you confirm your fee is?" "Can you tell me your height/weight?" "Can I shower after" because i have personally walked into sessions where there was no table when one was advertised, where the fee requested was different than what was posted, where the person answered the door was 4 inches shorter than their ad.. and .. so one and so on.....so... I've learned to confirm. I can understand that providers likely get tons of flakes and the text-equivalent of heavy breathers, but I've found that guys who respond with a terse "That's covered in my ad" and refuse to give me 8 minutes of their time for a conversation - even if some of it is to verify what's written - are likely not going to be a match for me.
 
The funny thing is - you can see from my posts on here I hire PLENTY of people - it's unfortunate that some providers act like my questions are just attempts to waste their time.
 
Even with all my efforts to confirm - it's still a gamble. . I will spell out a specific scene.. i usually say . here's my fantasy scene... i want a massage, but i dont want you naked for first 30 minute. .i want to lay down ..feel the real massage.. get relaxed.. and then once were halfway through, ..you start getting more sensual....the provider is all "Yes. .i can do that.. .. I'm an expert at that." then inevitably I'm on the table for 7 minutes and their dick is flopping in my face or they start lubing up my hole.
 
Both sides have interests to protect and terms to manage.. I understand ...but .. in the end ... I'm the customer and I see it as the provider's job to give me what I want, not the other way around.

Heniz is a gorgeous man - just like his pix - he was wearing long pants and a shirt - but no denying there's an exceptional body under there.
Clean modern apartment.
Nice guy - maybe a bit cold. I don't mind if my pharmacists is "all business" but, is it wrong to want a bit of a connection with your massage therapist?
Professional therapeutic massage - nothing wrong with it but.. nothing memorable either.
Nothing extra was discussed or offered.

Phone number is the same as mentioned in this post:
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/logan-stephens.84268/
 
Looks like he's a former porn star?

I had a session with him once. Great massage and he offered full service. He was pricy but he was worth it.

I just asked about him two days ago in here, didn't get any responses so i'm guessing that means nobody's been to him
 
he seems to be based out of San diego and visits both LA and palm springs once or twice a month based off his website